just because she cut back on things she once did doesnt mean she is doing it any less...just less with you...
these guys that think they can just coast and not keep sex lively with a long time spouse and theres not eventually going to be consequences are mistaken
Yes I'm sure my wife is getting drilled in the ass and blasted on the face by someone else. Probably a black guy with a 17 inch dick, maybe several of them at once.
Im sorry if you got involved with a skank who cheated on you, Im sure it hurt you very badly.
The truth is marriages are about much more than freaky sex, especially once careers and children become the focal point of ones life.
Early on in a relationship, women tend to go out of their comfort zone to 'land' the guy, by doing things they probably don't really enjoy. Not saying all women dislike getting nutted on, but I'm sure theres a good percentage who do it solely to please their man. Down the line, that tends to occur less, people get comfortable, it's normal. Also, circumstances play in, ie I'm much more likely to get anal from a chick who's drunk and coked up at 5am in Vegas than I am the woman whos just finished watching an episode of Dora the explorer for the 40th time.
In sum cliff, I fucked your mom.