Bullying is harrassment real fucking simple. If you don't wanna pussify your kids make them hold up to the same legal standards as adults, give them order and boundries, for christ sake sometimes the right wing bullshit is completely full of shit.
I cannot understand how you want your kids to live in some medieval times type of anarchy just because it's the way you supposedly live, despite the fact you never faced any true bullying, only minor minor teasing and ball busting.
Chicken hawks of the worst type, kids need rules and fucking discipline, bullying in the age of hard ass nuns, versus the age when kids can basically do whatever the fuck they want until there 18 are completely different stories.