You sort of answered your own question there.
I think that exotic dancing- or strip teasing could be just that, I mean I've been to strip clubs couple of times and had a lap dance but I also gave kudos for the girls flexibility and endurance etc. and asked what does she do besides this etc. But when you have kids, I dunno... even spreading your legs to filthy men and have them put money in your gstrings feels just morally akward to me, not to mention letting them fuck you for money.
If I was a parent I would do everything but sell my body like that. Why do women not care that they are fealt as cum dumpsters, no more valuable than, lets say a coffee cup?
I suspect some of these folks believe stripping and other jobs is the sex trade are the only options they have available to support themselves and their children, if they have children. I would be great for the children of the world if all parents suddenly and always had their shit together when having and raising kids. Unfortunately, the reality is that all manner of folks, whether qualified to be parents or not qualified at all, can have children.
If my mother and father had to have passed a test before I could have been born to them, I wouldn't be here today. They didn't even meet the qualifications for being married, much less being a parents. And yet almost fifteen years after I was born, while still not qualified, my mom and step-dad legally adopted my two sisters. My father never had more children.