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Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
« Reply #175 on: December 05, 2011, 09:48:40 AM »
well this is real.. And I can prove it in a million ways.

and all I rly want here is to read the post first few pages to give me strength to realize this girl will never love me n I stop being so weak.

not a arugment on if this is real or not... What bullshit.


we believe you man, its just one dumbass in the thread fucking it up, best advice is get away from the woman entirely and find out if the kid is really yours, if it is do not abandon him, stay in his life and raise him like a man should.

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Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
« Reply #176 on: December 05, 2011, 09:50:41 AM »
kids get abandoned, it's how it works sometimes,

sadly, this is true

besides, we all can't grow up to be doctors or lawyers or play centerfield for the Red Sox

Some of us have to become Toll collectors on the thruways, Cashier at dunkin donuts or strippers

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Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
« Reply #177 on: December 05, 2011, 09:51:15 AM »
how much credit do your professors take off for all of your misspellings and punctuation errors on papers?

and going in for the kill

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Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
« Reply #178 on: December 05, 2011, 09:52:52 AM »
Calm down, mate. You have nothing to prove here, don't film your girlfriend, don't do anything impulsive.

I was  feeling so much stronger  ad now hae this asshole making me feel so horrible again  n that I have to take care of this family that's not mine.

like fuck I sent the email to grionk ill send anyone else just pm me if they want his email pass  n acct. You wudnt believe how harsh she was.

I haved not only had test showing how low my test n other crap is.

but I've been around alot never used a condom in my life besides one time I mean girls I've lived with n dated. For 2 and 3 yrs. Having sex 5 times a day everyday being so young never once got anyone close to pregancy scare. N on top of it the ultra sound said the foetus devlopment at the time was def saying she was a certain amount of weeks old dyring a good 2 weeks I didn't sleep with her. Didn't add up but I knew things like that cud be off. Than she admits now n the ex that they slept together once during that time. Go figure never got anyone prwg n they sleep together while she's off the pill n she gets preg. While I was on juice to.

regardless time frame doesn't match up there is prego test on the way and once its sent back you can check online the results. Hell ill post the account for everyone here to check the results.

she is sure its his kid herself.

not a lie n specially after the test is done I know this has to be over with so fuck off the guys tryna make me fee bad.im listenting to the right guys here n I need the strength to not stay with her for the 3rd time of her cheating on me... Cuz I am weak

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Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
« Reply #179 on: December 05, 2011, 09:54:15 AM »
do you want  the exs email to see the dates of the emails n what they said.

do you want a video of the whore admiting she's a lying cheater n fucked up this family n she lied n always tolf me I was the farther. Cause right now I can easily have her do whatever I want..

would you stay with a women whos real feelings n telling her ex is ur a mistake. She only ever loved her ex not you. She wants to be with her ex not you.... N will only ever love her ex not her mistake.... So that's a happy family?



Everyone's telling you the logical thing to do, but when your emotions are involved and the situation's as messy as yours is, it's not easy to just follow your head and walk out, esp. when you still have feelings for both the mother and the child. I would personally never ask for advice here on things like relationships and work, not because the people here are dumb (far from it), but because they can convince you to do something that you'd never have done on your own. And when you follow someone else's advice, that's not your way of doing things and you might regret the consequences even more.

Not every guy is built to be independent and strong, some are just pussy whipped and are happy to be that way - maybe you're one of the weak willed ones who'd rather put up with shit than be alone and tough it out. Only you know what's best for you and what you want, the people here will only tell you what you need to do, which isn't always the same or even the right thing (for you). So maybe take some time off, go be by yourself somewhere, think things through, make a decision and stick with it.

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Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
« Reply #180 on: December 05, 2011, 09:54:50 AM »
how much credit do your professors take off for all of your misspellings and punctuation errors on papers?
You need to browse thru my post history again and find that part where i mentionned english isnt my native language it seems. Also where s the "now im back im going to be nice" character? Just like i said it, it wouldnt take you one week before your old persona would show off again. Give it some months and you ll again be forced to erase your account after being torn several new assholes on here by everyone.


Anyway, OP is a liar and is just attempting to justify his desire to abandon his kid and the mother because his own father figure abandoned him. It is more reassuring to him to reproduce what has been done to himself, what he went thru, what he was exposed to during his childhood without choosing it, instead of doing the right thing, especially because he has no real , serious guidance, father figure. This is also why he s looking for help on a fucking internet messageboard and is being advised mostly by losers.

Ok now let's take a look at the advise givers on here;

 -a man in his 40s who inject steroids to impress teens on the internet and who abandonned his first wife -and daughter- cause she wasnt looking good enough anymore and who consequently dated a better looking woman who also happen to have a daughter
 -an old pseudo wise loser in his 50s who himself ruined a family  and is trying to fit in on the internet with younger males because nobody would give his sorry  ass the time of the day in real life anymore, probably rejected by his own kids
 -a ruined desperate woman  who s been abandonned by her own husband because she was too fat, got into weight lifting and just like the aformenationed loser posts on here trying to fit in with younger people in order to still get a minimum amount of attention; her dream now is to get fucked by the guy in his 40s aformentionned that is on steroids and who abandonned his first wife cause she was... fat (it never ceases to amaze me how subsconscious pattern cross each others in human relationships)
 -a sexually confused metrosexual 30 y o guy abandonned by his own father and who covered his whole body with tats as a result, and who s CV includes being a stripper and working as a pt and for his mom

I think op obviously better listen to me. If it's your kid, you have no reason to abandon him, and if your girl is a bitch, find the strenght to teach her how to be a good mother and woman. Also, find the strenght to be a good man.

And dont listen to these even bigger losers than you who never went past their own shortcomings and who as a result can only advise you to walk in their own steps. They re still blindly reproducing scenarios and patterns but dont have what it takes to admit it. Dont be that guy.


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Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
« Reply #181 on: December 05, 2011, 09:55:44 AM »
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Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
« Reply #182 on: December 05, 2011, 09:57:26 AM »
You are in your 40s,

abandonned a depressed woman and the daughter you had with her

to settle with another woman because she looked better physically... and who happened to also have a daughter with another man which would be a reassuring pattern you followed subconsciously...,

you re bragging about steroid use while being in your 40s...,


Please, seriously.



So many so called adult losers on here who are giving advises to young people without father figures themselves... This is sad. Advises that can be summed by "Huh, dude, fuck this shit! focus on yourself! Be happy! inject roids! life is short! we come alone, we go alone! just do like i did! i went thru that before!".




right  ::)  you have no clue what you're talking about you fucking moron...I've shown you to be completely talking out of your ass more times than i can count...but why let a little thing like the TRUTH stop you from creating your little scenarios, right?  ;)  It's funny but my "abandoned" daughter lives with me and has her own room at my house and at my GF's house too..I'm the exact opposite of how you try and portray me..and you do it out of envy  ;) because the only person who was abandoned around here was you, by your faith and your parents

do you think people copy and paste your idiotic posts and put them in inappropriate threads out of respect ?....they are RIDICULING you...you idiot...you are a Getbig JOKE and everybody knows this...another Vince Goodrum..just a little more verbose...nobody takes you seriously you fucking TOOL. I hope you don't think they do....LOLOL  :D

Personally i think you are a gimmick of a well respected poster...I mean...you can't be serious with this utter nonsense you spew.

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Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
« Reply #183 on: December 05, 2011, 09:59:58 AM »
You need to browse thru my post history again and find that part where i mentionned english isnt my native language it seems.


Anyway, OP is a liar and is just attempting to justify his desire to abandon his kid and the mother because his own father figure abandoned him. It is more reassuring to him to reproduce what has been to himself, what he went thru, instead of doing the right thing, especially because he has no real , serious guidance. This is also why he s looking for help on a fucking internet messageboard.

Ok now let's take a look at the advise givers on here;

 -a man in his 40s who inject steroids to impress teens on the internet and who abandonned his first wife and daughter
 -an old pseudo wise loser in his 50s who himself ruind a family  and is trying to fit in on the internet with younger males because nobody would give his sorry  ass the time of the day in real anymore, probably reject by his own kids
 -a ruined desperate woman  who s been abandonned by her own husband because she was too fat, got into weight lifting and just like the aformenationed loser posts on here trying to fit in with younger people in order to still get a minimum amount of attention; her dream now is to get fucked by the guy in his 40s aformentionned that is on steroids and who abandonned his first wife cause she was... fat
 -a sexually confused metrosexual 30 y o guy abandonned by his own father and who covered his whole body with tats as a result, and who s CV includes being a stripper and working as a pt and for his mom

I think op obviously better listen to me. If it's your kid, you have no reason to abandon him, and if your girl is a bitch, find the strenght to teach her how to be a good mother and woman. Also, find the strenght to be a good man.

And dont listen to these even bigger losers than you who never went past their own shortcomings and who as a result can only advise you to walk in their own steps.
What a fucking jerk!!

Never ruined anybodys life,and never had any kids.

This guy acts like he fucking knows everybody here in real life.

You`re dismissed asshole!

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Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
« Reply #184 on: December 05, 2011, 10:03:19 AM »
I was  feeling so much stronger  ad now hae this asshole making me feel so horrible again  n that I have to take care of this family that's not mine.

like fuck I sent the email to grionk ill send anyone else just pm me if they want his email pass  n acct. You wudnt believe how harsh she was.

I haved not only had test showing how low my test n other crap is.

but I've been around alot never used a condom in my life besides one time I mean girls I've lived with n dated. For 2 and 3 yrs. Having sex 5 times a day everyday being so young never once got anyone close to pregancy scare. N on top of it the ultra sound said the foetus devlopment at the time was def saying she was a certain amount of weeks old dyring a good 2 weeks I didn't sleep with her. Didn't add up but I knew things like that cud be off. Than she admits now n the ex that they slept together once during that time. Go figure never got anyone prwg n they sleep together while she's off the pill n she gets preg. While I was on juice to.

regardless time frame doesn't match up there is prego test on the way and once its sent back you can check online the results. Hell ill post the account for everyone here to check the results.

she is sure its his kid herself.

not a lie n specially after the test is done I know this has to be over with so fuck off the guys tryna make me fee bad.im listenting to the right guys here n I need the strength to not stay with her for the 3rd time of her cheating on me... Cuz I am weak

Right now you're confused and in a lot of turmoil, it's reasonable, anyone would have been.

I suggest you log out of this place, and do something that relaxes you.

Don't do anything impulsive and especially, don't give people's emails and passwords to strangers over the internet.

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Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
« Reply #185 on: December 05, 2011, 10:05:11 AM »
this  guy explains me so well. I'm so easily leaing a kid that's not mine

that's why I'm still here. That's why I have to get courage from thousads on a forum to talk me into helping myself. N that's why I'm such a pussy n don't mentally want to leae the child.

never said once I wat toleae this child. I always said I need to leave her! I'd takr the child happily... So how am I the dead beat. ill raise this child mine or not if I had to. I ove her.... I wat the gf gone....

so how are you summing aything up. Ur the fraud. I have offered so much n you won't respond. Wamt his emailn want the acct for where the dna test will be oline when I get it n send it back. Want a credit card reciept for 275 dollars for it and me holding it up.

asshole. Ill do any of that say the word... But you won't you keep ignoring me.


You need to browse thru my post history again and find that part where i mentionned english isnt my native language it seems. Also where s the "now im back im going to be nice" character? Just like i said it, it wouldnt take you one week before your old persona would show off again. Give it some months and you ll again be forced to erase your account after being torn several new assholes on here by everyone.


Anyway, OP is a liar and is just attempting to justify his desire to abandon his kid and the mother because his own father figure abandoned him. It is more reassuring to him to reproduce what has been to himself, what he went thru, instead of doing the right thing, especially because he has no real , serious guidance. This is also why he s looking for help on a fucking internet messageboard.

Ok now let's take a look at the advise givers on here;

 -a man in his 40s who inject steroids to impress teens on the internet and who abandonned his first wife and daughter
 -an old pseudo wise loser in his 50s who himself ruind a family  and is trying to fit in on the internet with younger males because nobody would give his sorry  ass the time of the day in real anymore, probably reject by his own kids
 -a ruined desperate woman  who s been abandonned by her own husband because she was too fat, got into weight lifting and just like the aformenationed loser posts on here trying to fit in with younger people in order to still get a minimum amount of attention; her dream now is to get fucked by the guy in his 40s aformentionned that is on steroids and who abandonned his first wife cause she was... fat
 -a sexually confused metrosexual 30 y o guy abandonned by his own father and who covered his whole body with tats as a result, and who s CV includes being a stripper and working as a pt and for his mom

I think op obviously better listen to me. If it's your kid, you have no reason to abandon him, and if your girl is a bitch, find the strenght to teach her how to be a good mother and woman. Also, find the strenght to be a good man.

And dont listen to these even bigger losers than you who never went past their own shortcomings and who as a result can only advise you to walk in their own steps. They re still blindly reproducing scenarios and patterns but dont have what it takes to admit it. Dont be that guy.



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Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
« Reply #186 on: December 05, 2011, 10:05:18 AM »
You need to browse thru my post history again and find that part where i mentionned english isnt my native language it seems. Also where s the "now im back im going to be nice" character? Just like i said it, it wouldnt take you one week before your old persona would show off again. Give it some months and you ll again be forced to erase your account after being torn several new assholes on here by everyone.


Anyway, OP is a liar and is just attempting to justify his desire to abandon his kid and the mother because his own father figure abandoned him. It is more reassuring to him to reproduce what has been done to himself, what he went thru, what he was exposed to during his childhood without choosing it, instead of doing the right thing, especially because he has no real , serious guidance, father figure. This is also why he s looking for help on a fucking internet messageboard and is being advised mostly by losers.

Ok now let's take a look at the advise givers on here;

 -a man in his 40s who inject steroids to impress teens on the internet and who abandonned his first wife and daughter
 -an old pseudo wise loser in his 50s who himself ruind a family  and is trying to fit in on the internet with younger males because nobody would give his sorry  ass the time of the day in real anymore, probably reject by his own kids
 -a ruined desperate woman  who s been abandonned by her own husband because she was too fat, got into weight lifting and just like the aformenationed loser posts on here trying to fit in with younger people in order to still get a minimum amount of attention; her dream now is to get fucked by the guy in his 40s aformentionned that is on steroids and who abandonned his first wife cause she was... fat
 -a sexually confused metrosexual 30 y o guy abandonned by his own father and who covered his whole body with tats as a result, and who s CV includes being a stripper and working as a pt and for his mom

I think op obviously better listen to me. If it's your kid, you have no reason to abandon him, and if your girl is a bitch, find the strenght to teach her how to be a good mother and woman. Also, find the strenght to be a good man.

And dont listen to these even bigger losers than you who never went past their own shortcomings and who as a result can only advise you to walk in their own steps. They re still blindly reproducing scenarios and patterns but dont have what it takes to admit it. Dont be that guy.



for FFS, I was never married. You can't be that stupid can you. I got fat after the relationship ended shit bag..Thanks for playing

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Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
« Reply #187 on: December 05, 2011, 10:06:03 AM »
for the record, I don't work for my mom anymore



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Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
« Reply #188 on: December 05, 2011, 10:06:56 AM »
btw, what does "CV" stand for?

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Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
« Reply #189 on: December 05, 2011, 10:08:05 AM »
btw, what does "CV" stand for?

Curriculum Vitae aka resume.

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Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
« Reply #190 on: December 05, 2011, 10:08:34 AM »
time to ignore him then srry guys thanks for the help. N out of spirit ima post the dna results regardless lol.

this is acting like he kows so much but obv doesn't even kmow anything at all.

were all assholes here who iject steroids to impress women  leave our children n all from bastard homes apparently

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Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
« Reply #191 on: December 05, 2011, 10:08:45 AM »
Right now you're confused and in a lot of turmoil, it's reasonable, anyone would have been.

I suggest you log out of this place, and do something that relaxes you.

Don't do anything impulsive and especially, don't give people's emails and passwords to strangers over the internet.

Yeah man this place is only sending your emotions for a roller coaster ride. Just get a paternity test and do what you gotta do. Personally I would get rid of her regardless of the outcome but either way you're the one that has to live with the decision.

All the best.
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Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
« Reply #192 on: December 05, 2011, 10:08:46 AM »
Curriculum Vitae aka resume.


Doesn't require one of those in JNN's "line of work."

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Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
« Reply #193 on: December 05, 2011, 10:09:01 AM »
for FFS, I was never married. You can't be that stupid can you. I got fat after the relationship ended shit bag..Thanks for playing

LubeYourMan  really doesn't pay attention to facts..they mess up his little dream world, so he can't be bothered with them.

 Much better to see things the way you want them to be, so they fit your point of view  ;)

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Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
« Reply #194 on: December 05, 2011, 10:09:16 AM »
I`d love to smash ubermans head open and have him anylise the reason why I did it!  ;D

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Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
« Reply #195 on: December 05, 2011, 10:09:47 AM »
for FFS, I was never married. You can't be that stupid can you. I got fat after the relationship ended shit bag..Thanks for playing

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« Reply #196 on: December 05, 2011, 10:09:55 AM »
LubeYourMan  really doesn't pay attention to facts..they mess up his little dream world, so he can't be bothered with them.

 Much better to see things the way you want them to be, so they fit your point of view  ;)
lol, "lubeyourman". ;D

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« Reply #197 on: December 05, 2011, 10:10:24 AM »
LubeYourMan  really doesn't pay attention to facts..they mess up his little dream world, so he can't be bothered with them.

 Much better to see things the way you want them to be, so they fit your point of view  ;)
The twisted fuck twists things to suit his own agenda.............fucki ng gimmick.

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Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
« Reply #198 on: December 05, 2011, 10:10:31 AM »
for FFS, I was never married. You can't be that stupid can you. I got fat after the relationship ended shit bag..Thanks for playing

lmao can't believe I believed his shit. I thought he had actual info on people here.

so ur not all 40 yr old daughter ditchers who leae depressed women n inject steroids cause once you hit 40 ur soo horrible as well?

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Re: what do I do. Kid isn't mine.
« Reply #199 on: December 05, 2011, 10:10:55 AM »
this  guy explains me so well. I'm so easily leaing a kid that's not mine

that's why I'm still here. That's why I have to get courage from thousads on a forum to talk me into helping myself. N that's why I'm such a pussy n don't mentally want to leae the child.

never said once I wat toleae this child. I always said I need to leave her! I'd takr the child happily... So how am I the dead beat. ill raise this child mine or not if I had to. I ove her.... I wat the gf gone....

so how are you summing aything up. Ur the fraud. I have offered so much n you won't respond. Wamt his emailn want the acct for where the dna test will be oline when I get it n send it back. Want a credit card reciept for 275 dollars for it and me holding it up.

asshole. Ill do any of that say the word... But you won't you keep ignoring me.



You came here posting this;

what do I do. Kid isn't mine. then went on writing a bullshit story.

Then, you told us you werent sure if it was your own kid.


Please.


You all fucking losers should open a Bible, and losers who abandon each others should reunite and raise their fucking kids instead of attempting to justify their lack of balls and intelligence with bullshit excuses, they should stick together or they ll all end alone, abandonned by everyone, and will see their own offsprings die before their eyes before they die themselves in utter psychological and physical pain.