Newsflash;
In your teenage years, in your 20s, you have more testosterone and more energy to lift weights, you spend your whole life focusing on "how to prove you re smarter, stronger, faster than other males in order to get the best looking female /reproductive mate" then come the 30s and you -are suposed to- have other, more mature, developped, various interests in life. Testosterone production NATURALLY decreases, as do libido etc. The meaning of life/ kids question is suposed to pop out -for those who actually were able to start a meaningful relationship with a woman, less and less common nowadays in our degenerate atheist societies full of teens trapped in grown ups bodies raised by hysterical single moms-. You re not suposed to be self centered anymore, you re suposed to have developped a deeper understanding of life, you re supposed to have more responsabilities, to be able to contribute to society, a family.
Some immature, faithless men cant deal with that reality and go the steroid, viagra, hair implant, big stuff buying, cheating on your "girlfriend(s)" route to stay "in the race" with the youngest males. Insecure, ignorant losers who developed no real skills whatsoever, who are unable to create or maintain significant relationships with others. Those males are called losers. Their role models they try to imitate every day are fucking tv soaps characters. They find no rest, no peace in any of their vain endeavours the harder they try, ironically. They re just looking at something they need, where it actually isnt.