Update:
Went in and met him, he was very friendly from the get-go and told me to sit down. Asked me what was bothering me and I told the story like here.
He said immediately he was taken aback completely by what I said and couldn't understand it. He straight away apologised for what was said and explained under no circumstances does he ever discuss patients with anybody and that was extremely embarrassed and that I should have hit his son a slap and that I had his permission to do such anytime I see him. I said there'd be no need for that and that he should know that this happened.
He must have apologised 10 times to me and said he was a doctor a long time and never had such an incident. He said he was gonna give the son a bollocking but then I started to feel a bit bad and said for him to go easy on the young lad because he was drunk and probably didn't know what he was saying.
I got up to go but he told me sit down again and talked more, he kept me for a good 20 minutes and was so apologetic. I couldn't read it really if he did say anything or not but I decided to let it go. I said that we wouldn't fall out over and it was water under the bridge. He said he'd apologise EVERY time he saw me from now on and I said "no no way, you apologised twice and thrice and more already and let this be the end of it now, no hard feelings and we'll leave it at that".
He even asked could he take my blood pressure but I said we'd leave it for another time and he insisted on doing it and asking me in detail how I was feeling, etc. My blood pressure was improved immensely and he gave me a repeat perscription because I still haven't got the 24-hr monitoring done yet (which I will do in the next few weeks when I get back to Holland).
He couldn't have been any nicer or remorseful. Honestly, I felt bad for even going in about it.
We shook hands again and I left.
I guess he needed to know...all's well that end's well and I'm forgetting about it now
With all due respect Mr. Irishdave, your doctor just took you for a ride and ass fucked you with absolutely no Vaseline to ease out the pain.
Just because he apologized a million times doesn't mean that he felt any remorse. If anything it just meant that he used it to leverage his ass out of harm's way (possibly a lawsuit).
The damage has been done. Your personal patient history has been given out to a random jerk off that can now go forth any time that he is drunk and tell anyone else about it, besides you. Just because the doctor gave you "permission" to slap his son, doesn't mean that all wrongs have been made right. Just because he aggressively and profusely apologized, doesn't mean that he undid all of his wrongs. His continuous apologizing only justifies and proves the fact that he indeed told his son about your medical history. A doctor that would have never spoken about your history to anyone else would not feel the need to apologize for an act he didn't commit, only to further incriminate himself by default. (Why keep apologizing for an act you didn't commit, unless you indeed did commit the crime?)
Don't be so gullible. If anything, that handshake at the very end didn't just solidify the fact that he hustled you into believing and accepting that it was over, it was more of a way of solidifying the fact that your rectum has been thoroughly caressed by the conniving and negligent tactics that coat the tip of his cock.
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P.S. I also understand that HIPAA doesn't apply to the medical professionals of Ireland, so violations in patient-doctor confidentiality agreements are a little difficult to prove and legally correct, but no one should have to deal with such nonsense.
