Author Topic: help a broke guy in the dating game (Read 34082 times)

Big Chiro Flex · « **Reply #50 on:** March 22, 2013, 10:31:41 PM »

I waisted so much money on random broads as a young lad. So dumb. I thought it was the "right thing to do". Took me a long time to realize a girl has to prove she's worthy of being treated really well; they don't get that by default. It's gotta be fair and mutual in the beginning, this means she insists on paying some times and you grab the bill other times. Wish I could go back 5 years and tell myself this advice

OTHstrong · « **Reply #51 on:** March 22, 2013, 10:40:57 PM »

Quote from: flinstones1 on March 22, 2013, 10:29:38 PM

bro dont tell me that. I mean I know your right but I need this, I was just starting to get over my ex and shes been erased from my head for a while dating and seeing other women is what helped. I went a month without seeing anyone and depressions and her were back full throttle so I really make an effort to date as much as possible. and ya these chicks are mid to late twenties...no fucking clue hhaa. then again i dnt know many 20 years old that would be able to hang with a 28 year old when we talk compatibility ...nothing in common

Well sounds like you are doing a good job with the ladies, lol but bro try to find higher paying jobs, you have a good body, I am sure any construction company will hire you, the pay is double then you make now.

flinstones1 · « **Reply #52 on:** March 22, 2013, 10:49:07 PM »

Quote from: Jadeveon Clowney on March 22, 2013, 09:55:51 PM

what chick are you talking about

one with the blue nfl shirt ? i had her up here three times man

Palpatine Q · « **Reply #53 on:** March 22, 2013, 10:51:15 PM »

Quote from: flinstones1 on March 22, 2013, 10:49:07 PM

one with the blue nfl shirt ? i had her up here three times man

That chick was hot, love the eyes and my highly developed Tit-o-meter detected a very nice set of boobies

OTHstrong · « **Reply #54 on:** March 22, 2013, 10:51:48 PM »

Quote from: flinstones1 on March 22, 2013, 09:38:26 PM

indeed, im sorry us men arent masculine enough to attract such fine women like yourself.

Bro you ain't 19.,^^^^you are fucken 30, lol

flinstones1 · « **Reply #55 on:** March 23, 2013, 12:12:56 AM »

haha 30 i can live with. Just runned down these days ...

i gotta tongue like a lizard and the hoes love it

gee38 · « **Reply #56 on:** March 23, 2013, 01:01:04 AM »

'the hoes love it'

no they don't do they?

thats why you couldn't get a blow up doll let alone a real woman

you are 20. you turned up for a date on your bike. you couldn't afford a ride to another date so got some mexican worker to drop you there and talked to a bird with your cock out becuase you piss behind bushes.

you are too bone fucking idle to get aliving and be a man. you wrongly believe the GH15 bullshit that chicks will go nuts for you because you fill your 20 year old body with excessive hormones.

you moan about 'blowing' 40 dollars on a woman. thats an embarrassingly low amount of money t spend. shameful.

here is what you should do

get a fucking job
earn some money
do nice things with the money
get some self esteem
get some therapy
don't whack off with your male friends
take no notice of some nobody on the internet who proclaims himself as god of hormones

in short get a fucking life....... or take your own

you are an embarassment

bottom line- if you are taking a bird out you want to bang you surely want to enjoy yourself so you should take her somewhere decent. you want her to see you have achieved something so as a man you want to pay. after all the people all around you will see if you are a parasite or cheap. who would want even a stranger to think that about them. and look at it this way 100 or 200 quid spent on a meal out means even if she is shit you have a nice meal surrounded by decent people- which is how to spend your life surely.

trying to do things on the cheap smacks of desperation because you either haven't had any or much or are so thick as pigshit you can't see beyond a jump. put it this way- WHAT if the bird ends up being something fucking amazing I mean like life changing amazing. You get her to pay or you pay 10 dollars. she goes home tells her dad who says forget that cheap prick. congrats you blew it.

face it flinstones you are a 20 year old who sits with his male friends rubbing one out, take roid advice off a fictional 'pro', have a problem with your steroid use, no education, no skills and no job.

you then have the nerve to judge a woman. face it you are one of lifes losers. and in all the time on this board you have done fuck all to even move things on at all in any shape way or form.

hang yourself. do yourself, your family, womanhood and society a favour. you are a welfare statistic.

have a nice day

flinstones1 · « **Reply #57 on:** March 23, 2013, 05:46:47 AM »

Quote from: gee38 on March 23, 2013, 01:01:04 AM

'the hoes love it'

no they don't do they?

thats why you couldn't get a blow up doll let alone a real woman

you are 20. you turned up for a date on your bike. you couldn't afford a ride to another date so got some mexican worker to drop you there and talked to a bird with your cock out becuase you piss behind bushes.

you are too bone fucking idle to get aliving and be a man. you wrongly believe the GH15 bullshit that chicks will go nuts for you because you fill your 20 year old body with excessive hormones.

you moan about 'blowing' 40 dollars on a woman. thats an embarrassingly low amount of money t spend. shameful.

here is what you should do

get a fucking job
earn some money
do nice things with the money
get some self esteem
get some therapy
don't whack off with your male friends
take no notice of some nobody on the internet who proclaims himself as god of hormones

in short get a fucking life....... or take your own

you are an embarassment

bottom line- if you are taking a bird out you want to bang you surely want to enjoy yourself so you should take her somewhere decent. you want her to see you have achieved something so as a man you want to pay. after all the people all around you will see if you are a parasite or cheap. who would want even a stranger to think that about them. and look at it this way 100 or 200 quid spent on a meal out means even if she is shit you have a nice meal surrounded by decent people- which is how to spend your life surely.

trying to do things on the cheap smacks of desperation because you either haven't had any or much or are so thick as pigshit you can't see beyond a jump. put it this way- WHAT if the bird ends up being something fucking amazing I mean like life changing amazing. You get her to pay or you pay 10 dollars. she goes home tells her dad who says forget that cheap prick. congrats you blew it.

face it flinstones you are a 20 year old who sits with his male friends rubbing one out, take roid advice off a fictional 'pro', have a problem with your steroid use, no education, no skills and no job.

you then have the nerve to judge a woman. face it you are one of lifes losers. and in all the time on this board you have done fuck all to even move things on at all in any shape way or form.

hang yourself. do yourself, your family, womanhood and society a favour. you are a welfare statistic.

have a nice day

lol. Looks like I own someone's mind here. 40 dollars a low amount of money? For some fucking whore off a dating websights are you fucking kidding me? never spent more than 10 honestly...I made it clear we are talking about online dating and first dates only. Of course if I like the girl, and its a second or third date Im gonna find a way to pay for her. IF the girl's digging me and Im getting the vibe she might be a keeper Im not gonna blow it by being cheap. Most of the chicks on those sights are not looking for a relatoinship, they are there for the free meal factor.

Secondly the chick hit me up at 12 oclock at night, I'm sure you have tons of friend who would come to the rescue at your bicker call to give you a ridefor some chick at 1 oclock in the morning

100 dollars on a chic

HAHAHAH

hell I got a 27 year old single mom who's ex husband was a doctor! shes rich as fuck....so I have no right dating these broads at this time in my life but I do and will continue to do so.

dnt hate

Cleanest Natural · « **Reply #58 on:** March 23, 2013, 05:55:56 AM »

Here's my 2 cents Flintstones ..

I think you should focus on yourself for a while. Think about something you are good at or would like to do. Even if it's working 2 jobs. This will help you out of the broke zone. Besides the normal living expenses, add bodybuilding as a hobby. So the little extra money you have (AFTER you paid rent, gas, food, money aside) should go towards your build. Buy healthy clean food and some steroids (budget everything and learn to be efficient .. don't fall into extremes). After you manage to get into this rythm, opportunities will open up for yourself.

Good luck my friend

PS: NO dating for a few months .. you need to learn first to take care of yourself. You want a nice gal, you need to have a little money. Stop thinking that you need to blow a hundred dollars on a chick to get a cheap fuck.

Men are looking for real love but settle for cheap sex.

bigmc · « **Reply #59 on:** March 23, 2013, 05:57:43 AM »

Quote from: Cleanest Natural on March 23, 2013, 05:55:56 AM

Here's my 2 cents Flintstones ..

I think you should focus on yourself for a while. Think about something you are good at or would like to do. Even if it's working 2 jobs. This will help you out of the broke zone. Besides the normal living expenses, add bodybuilding as a hobby. So the little extra money you have (AFTER you paid rent, gas, food, money aside) should go towards your build. Buy healthy clean food and some steroids (budget everything and learn to be efficient .. don't fall into extremes). After you manage to get into this rythm, opportunities will open up for yourself.

Good luck my friend

this is actually good advice get a decent job your self worth will sky rocket

women will sense the difference in you

FitnessFrenzy · « **Reply #60 on:** March 23, 2013, 05:58:19 AM »

I never pay for girls' food in restaurants.

I tried it one time a couple of months ago and she couldn't care if I did it or not. Save your money..

Cleanest Natural · « **Reply #61 on:** March 23, 2013, 05:58:49 AM »

Quote from: bigmc on March 23, 2013, 05:57:43 AM

this is actually good advice get a decent job your self worth will sky rocket

women will sense the difference in you

You did not quote the whole post

anabolichalo · « **Reply #62 on:** March 23, 2013, 05:59:35 AM »

women cause financial problems

stay away from them

for me it is too late

$:-\$

bigmc · « **Reply #63 on:** March 23, 2013, 06:00:11 AM »

Quote from: Cleanest Natural on March 23, 2013, 05:58:49 AM

You did not quote the whole post

did you modify it

Cleanest Natural · « **Reply #64 on:** March 23, 2013, 06:01:05 AM »

Quote from: FitnessFrenzy on March 23, 2013, 05:58:19 AM

I never pay for girls' food in restaurants.

I tried it one time a couple of months ago and she couldn't care if I did it or not. Save your money..

Why do you think she did not seem to care?

anabolichalo · « **Reply #65 on:** March 23, 2013, 06:02:49 AM »

no mater what you give them they will always trivialize and mock it as if it's peanuts compared to their "worth"

best way may be to get in a car accident and make sure her belt is unbuckled

Sweedee · « **Reply #66 on:** March 23, 2013, 06:04:17 AM »

Why focus on dinner?

Go for a walk and see if you get a long. And if you do stop by a coffe place and chat. And you might buy her a cup of coffe or something simular. Stop wasting a bunch of money on someone you don't even know.

Maybe you don't "go for walks" in america. I dunno. Very money focused culture it seems.

flinstones1 · « **Reply #67 on:** March 23, 2013, 06:15:47 AM »

Quote from: Cleanest Natural on March 23, 2013, 05:55:56 AM

Here's my 2 cents Flintstones ..

I think you should focus on yourself for a while. Think about something you are good at or would like to do. Even if it's working 2 jobs. This will help you out of the broke zone. Besides the normal living expenses, add bodybuilding as a hobby. So the little extra money you have (AFTER you paid rent, gas, food, money aside) should go towards your build. Buy healthy clean food and some steroids (budget everything and learn to be efficient .. don't fall into extremes). After you manage to get into this rythm, opportunities will open up for yourself.

Good luck my friend

PS: NO dating for a few months .. you need to learn first to take care of yourself. You want a nice gal, you need to have a little money. Stop thinking that you need to blow a hundred dollars on a chick to get a cheap fuck.

Men are looking for real love but settle for cheap sex.

I appreciate it Sev

flinstones1 · « **Reply #68 on:** March 23, 2013, 06:19:22 AM »

Quote from: Sweedee on March 23, 2013, 06:04:17 AM

Why focus on dinner?

Go for a walk and see if you get a long. And if you do stop by a coffe place and chat. And you might even buy her a cup of coffe or something simular. Stop wasting a bunch of money on someone you don't even know.

Maybe you don't "go for walks" in america. I dunno. Very money focused culture it seems.

I did last sunday at the beach... I think when she saw some some dude trying to hide his bicycle in the bushes that was the breaking factor.

Sweedee · « **Reply #69 on:** March 23, 2013, 06:21:26 AM »

Quote from: flinstones1 on March 23, 2013, 06:19:22 AM

I did last sunday at the beach... I think when she saw some some dude trying to hide his bicycle in the bushes that was the breaking factor.

So? Screw her and go for a walk with someone else until you find someone who you click with.. Then consider spending money on the person.
(ofc sev's advice was good also) and taking your bike places in sweden wouldn't be frowned upon..

Honestly, if you took your bike to meet a Decent girl a decent distance away it would be a good ice breaker and the convo asusming she was a decent woman would go "wow, you took your bike here?" "yep, why bother with a car when It's biking distance huh haha" and that would set up a nice convo about if she takes care of het fat ass also.

bigmc · « **Reply #70 on:** March 23, 2013, 06:23:53 AM »

Quote from: Sweedee on March 23, 2013, 06:21:26 AM

So? Screw her and go for a walk with someone else until you find someone who you click with.. Then consider spending money on the person.
(ofc sev's advice was good also) and taking your bike places in sweden wouldn't be frowned upon..

money isnt the issue

its flints perception of himself

he needs to carve his own path in life everything else then falls into place

Sweedee · « **Reply #71 on:** March 23, 2013, 06:27:27 AM »

Quote from: bigmc on March 23, 2013, 06:23:53 AM

money isnt the issue

its flints perception of himself

he needs to carve his own path in life everything else then falls into place

Oh ok. I havent bothered reading much

I'm keeping myself from pulling out personal examples since I promised myself to be more incognito this time around lol.

Kwon_2 · « **Reply #72 on:** March 23, 2013, 06:29:20 AM »

I have but one advice for you Flintstones

Being broke won't work in the long-run.

Acquire money and assets and see women come your way without effort.

240 is Back · « **Reply #73 on:** March 23, 2013, 06:33:00 AM »

pre-date sex is always the way to go. Suggest it like it's perfectly normal and standard and be a little shocked and offended if she declines.

Go to the bathroom, come out shirtless.
Phrase is like "Let's get the sex out of the way now so we don't waste both of our time if things aren't compatible."

Say it with a straight face, then undress and let her see the pecs. Boom, you're in.

Or, just keep FBing her and phone without spending a penny, then once she passes the crazy test, invite her over for a dinner you cook, Redbox and wine. Already you'll be able to interview her about food preferences, wines, movie tastes, etc. You'll spend $30 on food but have leftovers for your 11pm feeding, no matter how things go. I've never understood the need to spend $50 on a stranger in an awkward setting... save that $ until you know you like each other, and THEN it's a better dining experience to drop 50$ on sushi.

Cleanest Natural · « **Reply #74 on:** March 23, 2013, 06:40:12 AM »

Good advice from 240 .. maybe not the first part