You might be able to work around this by asking her what her middle name is or asking her if she was named after someone, like a grandmother or an aunt. ...she might reveal her name to you, if you are lucky.
What the f*ck are you on about?
Boy: Banking and Corporate Law? Nice. I didn't know Masters degrees in the U.K. were only one year...that must've been an intense period of study, I imagine?
Girl: blah blah blah (Boy feigns interest and attempts to communicate attraction via various subtle physical gyrations and prolonged eye contact)
Boy: Right...so...uh...WERE YOU NAMED AFTER YOUR GRANDMA?
Girl:
Boy: Hah...I mean...uhm...*gulp* *Bead of sweat begins to form on forehead* What I mean is, uh....WHAT IS YOUR MIDDLE NAME AND DOES IT STAND IN ANY RELATION THAT MAY BE INTERESTING TO YOUR FIRST NAME?!