Most match.com dates start with meeting up at a decent place, snacking on some shrimp appetizers, splitting a bottle of wine, and going back to one of your places.
If your place passes her smell test and you drop enough hints about your income (over a 2nd shared bottle of wine), the gold digger will then confess her anti-depressant use, trash her ex, mumble something about intimacy equating committment, cuddle/unprotected sex time, and VOILA...
You wake up the next morning and you have a new girlfriend below your standards that now knows where you live and somehow got your extra key before driving home drunk at 5am and going right into work.
Rest up today, cause you'll be meeting her 2 kids tomorrow, when she invents a crisis and you have to come over and help her/meet them.