Been eye fucked many times at the gym. Girls and Guys.
One time i was walking back and forth between sets looking at the ground as i'd recently been eye fucked by 2 gay guys on separate occasions (including one of the personal trainers standing in the doorway just looking at me when i was trying to get through) and was trying to avoid any eye contact.
I had this weird feeling someone was staring at me, i slowly looked up and this chick was just standing there staring at me desperately, waiting for me to talk to her.
I was kind of shocked and missed saying anything. She sort of gave me a final stare and walked off. I never did anything for two reasons, the look was pretty desperate and she was pretty skinny with abs, no tits or ass, looks were ok but body not really that attractive. No curves.
Obviously she didn't take it that well, saw her here and there for a few months then Boom, she walks in with these ridiculous implants. She was only short and they fucking stood out. She obviously couldn't train for a while after getting them or had to add some weight to accommodate them because she looked better with extra fat.
Then she was training the same bodyparts i was at the same time i did every time i was there. She had one of the personal trainers some of those days but every time i was there, she was, same bodyparts, and i didn't train the same hours every session, some days 9am, some 6-7pm, so she'd worked this out. This went on for a few months, once i missed training legs in the morning and had to do it in the arvo, next time i went in she gave me a look like where the fuck were you. LOL.
After a few months of me feeling i was being stalked she wasn't there as much and i thought fuck it. So i chased her down after training and she said she had a boyfriend. Maybe happy to hand out the rejection? I said no probs, sorry to bother you, i was actually relieved, i felt like a dick for never saying anything.
Point of story? Don't act desperate, saying hi is good but get yourself in his head. This one really put me off. Kind of happened out of nowhere and when i was just trying to train and GTFO of the gym. If she'd said hi or just smiled it might have worked but to throw herself out there desperately was off putting. Some guys will think it's crazy not to do something but to do that i just feel their fucking crazy from the get go and i don't waste my time on shit anymore.