Seriously guys! Fun doesnt mean attacking on threads.
OK, 
Guys I am sorry this got out of hand. I think if ANY of you could go back an analyze the thread with Latin HEat NYs ORIGINAL posts in totality (they are all deleted) 
then you would REALIZE that I really didn't do anything except add his sister on facebook... that's it... I never intended to mess with ANYONE's family 
it was a warning shot and it worked
and I am sorry. 
I will never go down this path again, with outings and such. I realize it is a very grey area. What is too far? well for a sensitive guy like built 6'5'' i guess spilling your drink may lead to words about drowning the whales , and for some former posters who ACTUALLY did horrible things to people's familys (which I would NEVER EVER DO) that represents the other end of the spectrum? 
where do i fall? I'm just the bouncer here. Ask the boss. 
I'm referring to bruce springsteen. Someone call him immediately