then why would someone elses 'opinion' influence your decision?
an opinion cant be imposed on someone. its an opinion. in and of itself it means absolutely nothing to anyone but the person saying it. you choose to let that opinion impose itself on you.
at what point do people stop worrying about what others think, and their 'opinions', and just do for their own sake. fuck people need to man the fuck up. we're becoming a society of crybabies and wimps.
make your own decisions. why the fuck would you allow anyones 'opinion' to influence that is beyond me.
Because ultimately, and subconsciously we care about other's "opinions", even when we say we don't. We like the attention we get, whether its positive or negative. What we don't like is when someone voices an opinion that we don't like. But, we will accept all the positive attention (ex. "I like what you've done.").
So, basically, it's a way of censoring people...censoring what you don't like or don't want to hear.
Think about it, "Stop telling"...That is telling others to "stop" doing what you detest, what you don't want to hear, but at the same time, you want others to listen to you.
I saw something the other day about another "Stop telling"...and you want to say, "or what?"
Is it aggravating? Yes. Should people offer unsolicited opinions about someone's physique? Well, it seems only if it is in the positive. Or if it is not the one thing you detest.