Another reason not to get married

[da_vinci]

It seems like a lot of people are waiting to get married these days. My stepfather was 35 when he and my mom got together. He was pretty set in his ways.

There is something to be said about folks being mature enough to approach marriage knowing pretty much what they are getting into. Of course, these people miss the fun in marrying younger and maturing together.

My wife and I married young. We have no regrets. Our kids married young too, their marriages have been pretty solid and by today's standards, long term. One thing to think about when waiting to marry until you are well into your thirties is if you have children when you are in your late thirties or early forties, you'll be grandfather age by the time they are grown.

You either cheated many times or just are asexual/low testosterone. Well there's another option - your wife was your first AND last female you've slept with so you don't have a comparison and so it was "fun" maturing together.
 And there's nothing to think about having a kid in late 30's or early 40's for younger generations as most of them (these who'll have money) will be quite different grandfathers that you are (due to medicine) physically. I see that most are completely obvlivious to these changes that are comming. Well it will be interesting shift of paradigmas world wide...

[Teutonic Knight]

i think the best in life is to win the lottory

move to thailand

sleep late every day

bodybuild

sit on the beach sipping on cocktails with some hookers


post on getbig some pictors of you living this dream


forget about relationships

U a not internationally street wise, Thai whores would clean U up to yours underpants, no passport , no coins & cops wouldn't care !.
'Baby mama' is total amateur in comparison with Go Go bar girls .
 

[G_Thang]

i can give u 1000 reasons not to get married, broads r all evil and want to control us by pussy power.once u are able to break the spell of pussy power u r indeed a free man and the truth shall set u free

getbig's homo broke the spell many moons ago. maybe you should join them.

[Dave D]

man u really described everything to the T,i was reading everything from 1 to 10 and u where right on pretty much all of them, my wife was naturally thin so the fatso witch hasnt come thru yet but i can see her little by little turning into that for u unmarried guys listen and take notes cause we r trying to save u guys that arent screwed yet.ofcoarse some of u  may be the lucky ones that find a perfect partner but the odds r slim,very slim.i never listened to good advice on marraige and now im depressed as hell and looking to get out of this shit,my sons the thing i feel bad about in all of this tho

Bro I'm always wondering if the stuff you put on here is real, you remind me of that dude Rocky19....,  anyways assuming you're being honest....

I'm saying this with all respect, I dont know your wife or anything about your life other than what you post, that being said your biggest problem is yourself.  It sounds like you define yourself by your short comings and failures. Failure is a part of life it's OK and most often times it's beneficial to fail, learn from it don't let it hold you back. 

You've got to learn to love yourself and give yourself some credit. You've made it this far in life and have a son who loves and adores you; there's a lot more good things in your life than you know.

You've probably had a rough childhood and were verbally and physically abused, and that crap has set in it your head your worthless; because you learned that your worldview is screwed and so is your self esteem.

The good news is you can learn new thoughts and learn how to find your true value!
 Praying for you to see this man.

Stay strong

[anabolichalo]

U a not internationally street wise, Thai whores would clean U up to yours underpants, no passport , no coins & cops wouldn't care !.
'Baby mama' is total amateur in comparison with Go Go bar girls .

lord jehova el shaddai HAVE MERCY!

[Voice of Doom]

Marriage is going thorugh a very tough times... something different should be "invented" as time and time again life shows that it usualy does not work. (but probably always has been the best of the worst).

I would say that marriage, as it's now defined and done in the West, isn't working out.  Go to more traditional countries and the divorce rate is much different.

[da_vinci]

I would say that marriage, as it's now defined and done in the West, isn't working out.  Go to more traditional countries and the divorce rate is much different.

Well type/way of life differs too, so it's not surprising. It's really simple - westerners either will manage to prolong their health and life spans siginificantly or they will be replaced by third worlders.


btw - I will repeat a question: So some of you (esp these who married at a young age) made a conscious choice to fuck one and only female for the rest of your life? Am I right? 

[Teutonic Knight]

lord jehova el shaddai HAVE MERCY!

But U a Cuban communist 

[anabolichalo]

But U a Cuban communist 

american diplomat in cuba


in Jehova we trust$$$

[Parker]

I would say that marriage, as it's now defined and done in the West, isn't working out.  Go to more traditional countries and the divorce rate is much different.

It doesn't mean the marriages are better. In many of those same countries, domestic violence is very prevalent. You just don't hear about it...unless they come over here and the police are called one night. Next thing you know, they are telling you how prevalent it is over "there", yet one is expected to "take it" and shut up.
In the West, the people have changed. Their expectations have changed.

[Zillotch]

You either cheated many times or just are asexual/low testosterone. Well there's another option - your wife was your first AND last female you've slept with so you don't have a comparison and so it was "fun" maturing together.
 And there's nothing to think about having a kid in late 30's or early 40's for younger generations as most of them (these who'll have money) will be quite different grandfathers that you are (due to medicine) physically. I see that most are completely obvlivious to these changes that are comming. Well it will be interesting shift of paradigmas world wide...

STFU, you clueless twat - you're an idiot.

[gracie bjj]

im getting ready to leave my wife cause its to hard,my sons gonna be sad but i cant let that keep me in a place where i dont wanna be. shes a control freak and im tired of it,i can only bend so far and i finally just said fuck this shit.i told her i rather sleep in a park than be hearing her bullshit,dont get me wrong im not the easiest person to deal with,especially the last 12 months cause of my drug usage.BUT i always pay the mortgage and bills and buy my son what i can afford,sometimes i can only get him afew matchbox cars from walmart or whatever but i always get him something. my wifes always talking about how much money her freinds husband makes and shit like that,i told her i got no problem with her going out and find someone like that with money and i wont bother her if she does that,she gets pissed at me and starts screaming calling me a jerk off cause i said that

[Parker]

[anabolichalo]

im getting ready to leave my wife cause its to hard,my sons gonna be sad but i cant let that keep me in a place where i dont wanna be. shes a control freak and im tired of it,i can only bend so far and i finally just said fuck this shit.i told her i rather sleep in a park than be hearing her bullshit,dont get me wrong im not the easiest person to deal with,especially the last 12 months cause of my drug usage.BUT i always pay the mortgage and bills and buy my son what i can afford,sometimes i can only get him afew matchbox cars from walmart or whatever but i always get him something. my wifes always talking about how much money her freinds husband makes and shit like that,i told her i got no problem with her going out and find someone like that with money and i wont bother her if she does that,she gets pissed at me and starts screaming calling me a jerk off cause i said that

tell her she's a loser for not having a rich husband and laugh

[Natural Man]

im getting ready to leave my wife cause its to hard,my sons gonna be sad but i cant let that keep me in a place where i dont wanna be. shes a control freak and im tired of it,i can only bend so far and i finally just said fuck this shit.i told her i rather sleep in a park than be hearing her bullshit,dont get me wrong im not the easiest person to deal with,especially the last 12 months cause of my drug usage.BUT i always pay the mortgage and bills and buy my son what i can afford,sometimes i can only get him afew matchbox cars from walmart or whatever but i always get him something. my wifes always talking about how much money her freinds husband makes and shit like that,i told her i got no problem with her going out and find someone like that with money and i wont bother her if she does that,she gets pissed at me and starts screaming calling me a jerk off cause i said that

buy a shotgun, some ammo and show her who s the boss.

[Quickerblade]

im getting ready to leave my wife cause its to hard,my sons gonna be sad but i cant let that keep me in a place where i dont wanna be. shes a control freak and im tired of it,i can only bend so far and i finally just said fuck this shit.i told her i rather sleep in a park than be hearing her bullshit,dont get me wrong im not the easiest person to deal with,especially the last 12 months cause of my drug usage.BUT i always pay the mortgage and bills and buy my son what i can afford,sometimes i can only get him afew matchbox cars from walmart or whatever but i always get him something. my wifes always talking about how much money her freinds husband makes and shit like that,i told her i got no problem with her going out and find someone like that with money and i wont bother her if she does that,she gets pissed at me and starts screaming calling me a jerk off cause i said that

Just walk away, you deserve a quality lifestyle, she is stealing your life and breaking your spirit.

[Quickerblade]

100 MOTHERFUCKIN % SPOT ON !!

And not just marriages either. Relationships in general. And this I've, unfortunately, experienced personally. :/

Hell, in my last relationship I came home after having bought dinner, asked my girlfriend for a kiss in a playful manner,  and was denied AND basically told to go fuck myself. I left her that night.

I would of slammed her head against the coffee table. This happens to the best of us, you did the right thing, the losers hang back.

[gracie bjj]

buy a shotgun, some ammo and show her who s the boss.

 

[flinstones1]

tell her she's a loser for not having a rich husband and laugh

lmao

[anabolichalo]

lmao

baby mama would always tell me i'm a loser for not having a high paying job

but she dont even have a job and never will

[gracie bjj]

baby mama would always tell me i'm a loser for not having a high paying job

but she dont even have a job and never will

why are the broads so evil?are they all possesed by evil spirits or is just come naturally?

[anabolichalo]

why are the broads so evil?are they all possesed by evil spirits or is just come naturally?

i'm not sure

the whole thing is disappointing to say the least

one thing is certain

women are over rated


good for sex thats about it

[Palpatine Q]

Well type/way of life differs too, so it's not surprising. It's really simple - westerners either will manage to prolong their health and life spans siginificantly or they will be replaced by third worlders.


btw - I will repeat a question: So some of you (esp these who married at a young age) made a conscious choice to fuck one and only female for the rest of your life? Am I right? 

Yes.

For someone so "enlightened" and thinks he's going to be a robot....what's the big deal about such a base, primitive act as reproduction of a "useless" species ? 

[BigRo]

i'm not sure

the whole thing is disappointing to say the least

one thing is certain

women are over rated


good for sex thats about it

Do you really believe this?

[The_Iron_Disciple]

i'm not sure

the whole thing is disappointing to say the least

one thing is certain

women are over rated


good for sex thats about it

Nah. They're good for cooking and cleaning, too.