Come to think of it, your post just shows you how sick you and many have become. Worried about how many likes or facebook posts you will have on your profile when you are dead. 
Fuck you are pathetic.
BTW, I'm not sure you are being completely honest. Say you died in your swimming pool and your kids respond by saying, "Hey Mom! Dad is dead. Can you get him out of the pool because he's in the way."
And no funeral or ceremony honoring your passing. I know that you being dead and all will be unaware of all this and therefore in that sense it's meaningless. But one tends to have an idea the impact they have had on the world and on those in his life.
To know that you had no lasting impact on anybody. That your life was so inconsequential that literally no one cares whether you live or die.
Perhaps not caring about anything is more pathetic than caring about how your life has touched others.
By all accounts Alex had a positive impact on all that knew him. What good does it do him now? Maybe nothing? I think it's something. A big something. Our personal memories are like history. That things that happened mattered and changed the course of events and lives.
Sometimes it's not always just about just you. You tend to be a very self-absorb, narcissistic person.
But if that makes you happy so be it. It's always about you anyway.
For some, not so much.