Author Topic: What's your opinion on single moms? (Read 71080 times)

el numero uno · « **on:** February 15, 2015, 08:33:39 PM »

Oh brother, I see this everyday, a good looking girl dates some douchebag, gets knocked up and then dates a "good guy" who even takes care of the kid at times.

But I gotta be honest, I dated one 2 years ago lol, for seven months, but I will pass if another single mom wants something serious. Of course, I would still go out with and bang a single mom, but that's it.

I'm not putting down guys who do it, I know when you're 30+ years old that's pretty much the norm. Also, some single moms are definitely worthy of course, but I feel a lot of them are not. A good man should not pay for their irresponsability, because dating guys who happen to look good but drink twice a week, have no education, cheat on them and still got them pregant is that, irresponsability.

Discuss

Hulkotron · « **Reply #1 on:** February 15, 2015, 08:35:59 PM »

Whores, the lot of them.

If you live in any major city there are plenty of 30+ good-looking skanks without kids.

Parker · « **Reply #2 on:** February 15, 2015, 08:37:22 PM »

A woman writes about her perspective about something you mentioned
http://www.huffpost.com/us/entry/6575594

ritch · « **Reply #3 on:** February 15, 2015, 08:38:45 PM »

Not sure I wanna get involved with one again unless the kid is over 16 so she can be away if needed. Kids drain them out and what sucks is by the time you get to spend time with them, they're very tired. I guess this is just part of being a parent and something I sure as hell don't want or am I envious of those with kids as most of them seem absolutely miserable.

The gift of life huh? Yikes... Some fucked up kids are coming out of the problematic single parent homes and it's only gonna get worse and not sure I wanna be around when they take over society.

ritch · « **Reply #4 on:** February 15, 2015, 08:40:16 PM »

Quote from: Parker on February 15, 2015, 08:37:22 PM

A woman writes about her perspective about something you mentioned
http://www.huffpost.com/us/entry/6575594

just see a British bulldog, lol!
Love those dogs, would make a better companion than most women with kids.

el numero uno · « **Reply #5 on:** February 15, 2015, 08:41:30 PM »

Quote from: Hulkotron on February 15, 2015, 08:35:59 PM

Whores, the lot of them.

If you live in any major city there are plenty of 30+ good-looking skanks without kids.

Archer77 · « **Reply #6 on:** February 15, 2015, 09:46:30 PM »

Not my kid, not my problem. I'd have sex with her maybe even a casual relationship but I wouldn't assume a parental role with her child ever.

hardgainerj · « **Reply #7 on:** February 15, 2015, 09:52:01 PM »

anyone who dates single moms is probably a piece of shit

Walter Sobchak · « **Reply #8 on:** February 15, 2015, 10:12:17 PM »

Don't have kids and have zero interest in raising someone else's fuck trophies.

Pray_4_War · « **Reply #9 on:** February 16, 2015, 12:27:54 AM »

All whores and martyrs.

Army of One · « **Reply #10 on:** February 16, 2015, 12:29:11 AM »

I'd need to know if they do anal or not before I can answer this

calfzilla · « **Reply #11 on:** February 16, 2015, 01:08:16 AM »

Funny you mention single moms I was just telling my buddy my thoughts on them the other day.

I don't see why they are a charity. You know how people are like oh she's a single mom I'll help her pay her light bill or help fix her car or whatever. Like its some sort of victim. She decided to spread her legs and have premarital unprotected sex. She decided to not have a legal abortion. She most likely didn't petition hard enough to get the guy who knocked her up to marry her. I just don't understand why people act like they are victims, and that they didn't bring it all upon themselves. There is consequences for irresponsible behavior. I lack sympathy for single moms in general, feel bad for the kids and society though.

As far as dating I have zero interest in dating a woman with kids. Just to casually bang with no expectation of relationship is ok but not preferred.

booty · « **Reply #12 on:** February 16, 2015, 02:47:17 AM »

What's your take on single dads?? What's your take on widowed single mothers/ fathers??

BigRo · « **Reply #13 on:** February 16, 2015, 02:59:58 AM »

single mums are people too, some are good natured others not, dont see the problem.

DroppingPlates · « **Reply #14 on:** February 16, 2015, 03:04:00 AM »

I support their single lifestyle by avoiding them

Quickerblade · « **Reply #15 on:** February 16, 2015, 03:06:29 AM »

I would not have a relationship with a single mother. Seems like most getbiggers think the same.

single moms should seek single dads. I would not touch a single mother with a 10 ft pole.

BigRo · « **Reply #16 on:** February 16, 2015, 03:09:00 AM »

why wouldn't you?

Quickerblade · « **Reply #17 on:** February 16, 2015, 03:14:42 AM »

Quote from: BigRo on February 16, 2015, 03:09:00 AM

why wouldn't you?

Too much baggage brother. I would like the mother of my kids to only be the mother of my kids.

BigRo · « **Reply #18 on:** February 16, 2015, 03:16:20 AM »

fair enough, what about for hot sex just?

booty · « **Reply #19 on:** February 16, 2015, 03:16:45 AM »

Quote from: Quickerblade on February 16, 2015, 03:14:42 AM

Too much baggage brother. I would like the mother of my kids to only be the mother of my kids.

What if she left you? Would you be happy to have your children live with you full time?

Thin Lizzy · « **Reply #20 on:** February 16, 2015, 03:17:05 AM »

Quote from: BigRo on February 16, 2015, 02:59:58 AM

single mums are people too, some are good natured others not, dont see the problem.

Agree.

Just because you screwed up your life doesn't make you a bad person. Most were very young and dumb when they let the loser knock them up. And if you grow up in a small town, the bad boys are gonna find you. A poor cvnt doesn't have a chance.

Quickerblade · « **Reply #21 on:** February 16, 2015, 03:25:34 AM »

Quote from: BigRo on February 16, 2015, 03:16:20 AM

fair enough, what about for hot sex just?

We all know the answer to that my man. I know it sounds cruel but single mothers are a turn off.

The ones i know are delusional, thinking they will nab a bradley cooper etc they will just be on dating sites for the rest of their miserable lives. $:-\$

single dads have it easier, its cute when they are with the kids.

da_vinci · « **Reply #22 on:** February 16, 2015, 03:44:26 AM »

No.

Too much hassle, even tho' I'm good with kids. Fuck - yes, relathionship... geez, too many beautiful kidless females out there. One must be desperate for pussy to involve with single moms. OR - she should be smoking hot, very very beautiful, just one in a thousand kind of hot, than... maybe, but probably not still as there are as hot ones without kids.
Males have a lucky ticked here as usualy huh. Single dad is no prob for most, as kid is staying with mom, so it's more like - weekend dad.

Thin Lizzy · « **Reply #23 on:** February 16, 2015, 03:59:01 AM »

One of the problems is that you can't really discipline the kid who will inevitably retort:

"You're not my real father."

To which, you reply,

"Yeah, your real father wanted nothing to do with you."

Then, the kid runs off and cries.

For the most part, as said, it's not worth the headaches.

Leatherneck · « **Reply #24 on:** February 16, 2015, 04:11:22 AM »

I dated one pretty casually a few years ago. I had no issues but I also never had to deal with her ex or her son. She lived in Baltimore and I was traveling a lot so we'd see each other whenever our paths crossed. If I was single I'd do it again but I'd have a limit of 1 kid.