Im a t AZ 88 .. lm with my GF for a light dinner and a drink or two. The plan is chill here for a bit, get slightly tuned up.....and then home for some serious fucking. My penis is very happy.
as most of you know, me and my gf went through a pretty major rough spot. So we're working it out now.
Were eating our food and just having a good ol time, when this 50 something milf comes over that looks like Seka if. she would have taken a lot better care of herself..leans over so her tits are right in my face...and. says...
( COMPLETELY ignoring my GF) "didn't I meet you at the Blue Adobe about a month ago ? ...you own a gym or something right? (wrong)
No I'm sorry....I've never been there.
"Oh ...OK , I could have swore it was you...great looking, great body..But I was a little tipsy..hee hee..."
Sorry you got the wrong guy...this is kind of a significant night sooo......
"Oh how rude of me..enjoy your night...have to say you are a beautiful man." (gives me the "I would fuck you right now" look ) and struts away...
I'm afraid to look over, I'm staring down at my food just waiting for the blade to drop.....and I hear..."oh....it just so happens to blue Adobe is right around the corner from where you work".....she's on her iPhone looking up the blue Adobe...it got worse before it got better, lol lol
my question to my fellow getbiggers is was this woman making an honest mistake, or did she know exactly what she was doing and just had balls ?
okay, I'll say you and your woman could have both handled it better.
1) her googling the club in an accusatory tone shows she doesn't trust you. Her even bothering to get stressed about some older chick hitting on your shows insecurity.
2) you could have been a little less polite with the cougar - who was being worlds disrespectful - and held up your trophy (girlfriend) as the reason that cougar has no chance. A line like "hey, I've got everything I want and need right here" and smiling into your chick's eyes, and boom, you get the WIN.
IMO, if it was a dude hitting on your chick, all things reversed, you would have been ready to smash his face in out of anger at his sheer disrespect. And if your girl only said "Hey, it's a big night, sorry..." instead of "Hey, this is my fucking man, you thirsty boys can politely step off..."
I think she just wanted you to tell the disrespectful cougar that she was the prize, and the thirsty cougar was a tier below that. The fact you gave the cougar hope with "it's a significant night" tells everyone you might chat back at the cougar on another night.
( I can recall a nearly identical equal situation where a girl later told me all she wanted was for me to tell the table that she was #1.... made sense to me. Decline, but also even out the disrespect by appealing to the girlfriend's pride with a compliment in front of the cougar)