If you keep thinking like that she soon wont be.
Precisely.
Mike, WTF, dude? Were you just kidding, or are you genuinely worried she'll move on to a "better bodybuilder" if she hangs out with one?
For one, you're plenty good, dude. For another, ANY relationship predicated on looks at the _bodybuilding/contest-shape level_ is so goddamned superficial as to not even bother maintaining. If my fiance was obsessed with me being and retaining Mr. NPC NC, I'd dump her even if I had a lock on that show for the next twenty years.
I imagine we're dealing with a communications failure, so forgive my harshness. I like you and appreciated everything you did leading up to your show. You're like a Jeff McFarland without the retarded stream-of-consciousness posts, crystal meth and weird fascination with Gary Strydom