Prime I wasn't very impressed with your take on gen y in that thread. I am actually a very secure person. What you see with me is what you get. Anyone that knows me in real life or at least on a personal level knows that I have a very strong personality and am very confidant.
OK, but were you born after the early 80's? Unless you are 33 years old or younger, you are not Gen Y. You are probably Gen X like my children.
As for you being secure, I am happy to hear that you are. Unfortunately, many people who seek attention based primarily on their looks are often not very secure. The sad part is that eventually looks fade and then what do these folks have. Not to worry though, because you are looking fine.
My mom had a very strong personality and she came across as being very confident, yet there was a certain sadness about her. Maybe I was just feeling sad for her because she got a lot of male attention mainly because she was attractive. Eventually her looks faded for a variety of reasons. I believe she missed the attention she once got.
Like you, my mom always had a great head of blond hair, which was her crowning glory. Her figure was thin and athletic. She basically had no boobs. Thanks to foam rubber she managed to make it look as if she did.