That is awesome-
I didnt want to delve into the fact that if you are the least bit liquid, you will pull ass until you are on your deathbed.
About three years ago, my best buddy got married. He was in the process of divorce less than 6 months later, after dating this girl for about 18 months.
She was a solid 9, 13 years his junior, and her 'rents were loaded. It all looked perfect from the outside.
When he told me he was getting a divorce, I said "hey man, you are a smart fella-you managed to stay single into your early 40's, and you became convinced you found THE ONE...what happened?"
In so many words, he explained to me that after it was legal, her attitude immediately changed and she basically tried to own him, thinking that he didnt have the balls to toss her. Well he did, and its costing him now.
He did manage to sprinkle some words of wisdom to me which I will never forget for the rest of my life.
He told me what his father said to him after he found out that his son (my buddy) was getting divorced -
It went something like this:
Son, throughout your life, people have offered you advice; me, your coaches in school, your mentors in business, our priest...
Think about all the wonderful words of wisdom and encouragement you have rec'd...Now think about this...
When is the last time a friend, or any successful male aquaintance,with your best interest at heart, regardless of his age, came up, put his arm around your shoulder and said" you have to get married...it's the smartest thing I have ever done"...
Let that sink in a minute!