Author Topic: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?  (Read 10760 times)

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #100 on: December 15, 2015, 10:24:58 AM »
So I'm in college and work at a restaurant in a country club and I have 2 bosses. i have been picked on and singled out for about a good 2 months now by one particular boss, he'll say things like "you know I worry for you because I don't think you'll ever make it in life" or "you are the biggest idiot I've ever met" "your girlfriend must be awesome at making life choices for dating you" "you have got to be fucking kidding me how much stupider can you get" and more comments like that. They are giving me the empty/never seated sections of the restaurant and give me tables that don't tip a lot. Also I have the lowest hourly out of every server, even a new person there who got hired a month after me got a higher starting pay for no reason. How do I deal with this situation. My other boss is the one who gives me horrible sections and then I get blamed for everything even if it has nothing to with me like someone forgetting to do their side work before they leave.

Id knock him the fuck out,that is why i dont work for anyone any more,i would never take shit.

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #101 on: December 16, 2015, 11:33:17 PM »
Talked to him today after he made another insult towards and I told him to the corner to talk and he came over and I told him that I'm tired of the shit he says at work and if he has an actual problem with me then I have no problem taking this outside after we clock out. He then asked me if it was a threat and I said no that's what's going to happen if you don't stop, and try to fire me for this and I will go to the GM and say everything you have said to me in front of my other coworkers and they will back me up 100%. He apologized and promised it would never happen again

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #102 on: December 17, 2015, 12:22:52 AM »
and the conclusion to 5 pages of nonsense is...
Talked to him today after he made another insult towards and I told him to the corner to talk and he came over and I told him that I'm tired of the shit he says at work and if he has an actual problem with me then I have no problem taking this outside after we clock out. He then asked me if it was a threat and I said no that's what's going to happen if you don't stop, and try to fire me for this and I will go to the GM and say everything you have said to me in front of my other coworkers and they will back me up 100%. He apologized and promised it would never happen again

To quote Judge Judy, "if something doesn't sound true, it probably isn't"

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #103 on: December 17, 2015, 12:37:15 AM »
and the conclusion to 5 pages of nonsense is...
To quote Judge Judy, "if something doesn't sound true, it probably isn't"

Nope. True story, he's a new manager so he knows his jobs at risk especially this early on.

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #104 on: December 17, 2015, 12:55:28 AM »
Nope. True story, he's a new manager so he knows his jobs at risk especially this early on.
Now, you just need to sort out the other one who gives you the shitty sections.

Strike while the irons hot.

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #105 on: December 17, 2015, 01:05:04 AM »
Now, you just need to sort out the other one who gives you the shitty sections.

Strike while the irons hot.

I'm saving that for tomorrow. It's just me him and one other server in the morning so I'm going to call him out for his bullshit and let you all know what he says.

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #106 on: December 17, 2015, 01:13:27 AM »
I'm saving that for tomorrow. It's just me him and one other server in the morning so I'm going to call him out for his bullshit and let you all know what he says.

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #107 on: December 17, 2015, 01:27:41 AM »
Talked to him today after he made another insult towards and I told him to the corner to talk and he came over and I told him that I'm tired of the shit he says at work and if he has an actual problem with me then I have no problem taking this outside after we clock out. He then asked me if it was a threat and I said no that's what's going to happen if you don't stop, and try to fire me for this and I will go to the GM and say everything you have said to me in front of my other coworkers and they will back me up 100%. He apologized and promised it would never happen again

Fuckin' Finally!

Good going kid

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #108 on: December 17, 2015, 01:39:03 AM »
Talked to him today after he made another insult towards and I told him to the corner to talk and he came over and I told him that I'm tired of the shit he says at work and if he has an actual problem with me then I have no problem taking this outside after we clock out. He then asked me if it was a threat and I said no that's what's going to happen if you don't stop, and try to fire me for this and I will go to the GM and say everything you have said to me in front of my other coworkers and they will back me up 100%. He apologized and promised it would never happen again

Not sure if you are bullshiting us but it its true congrats !

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #109 on: December 17, 2015, 02:14:29 AM »
Not sure if you are bullshiting us but it its true congrats !

Not bullshitting at all. I just had enough of his insults and leaving work every day with less than 5 dollars in tips while everyone else makes bank. 2 more years of this shit then I can finally get a real job

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #110 on: December 17, 2015, 02:23:35 AM »
Way to go kev.  ;)

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #111 on: December 17, 2015, 02:24:27 AM »
Anything else you need Getbig to help you with Kev?

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #112 on: December 17, 2015, 02:25:22 AM »
Anything else you need Getbig to help you with Kev?

Yes actually, one more boss to deal with then all will be good.

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #113 on: December 17, 2015, 02:34:53 AM »
Yes actually, one more boss to deal with then all will be good.

Kill this second one.
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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #114 on: December 17, 2015, 05:29:54 AM »
Not bullshitting at all. I just had enough of his insults and leaving work every day with less than 5 dollars in tips while everyone else makes bank. 2 more years of this shit then I can finally get a real job

You sucked his dick

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #115 on: December 17, 2015, 05:37:44 AM »
Just go. There is nothing you can do to fix this situation. The longer you stay the more damaging to your confidence it will be.

There is no reason in the world to be around people who disrespect you, if you can find another job.

Exactly.

Get the hell out.

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #116 on: December 17, 2015, 06:10:39 AM »
Nope. True story, he's a new manager so he knows his jobs at risk especially this early on.

He's a new manager and he's talking shit to an employee who was working there before him?

A bit hard to believe.

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #117 on: December 17, 2015, 07:21:19 AM »
Since you worked it out with the manager is he going to stop banging your girlfriend or was that part of the peace treaty?

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #118 on: December 17, 2015, 08:40:47 AM »
Since you worked it out with the manager is he going to stop banging your girlfriend or was that part of the peace treaty?

they agreed upon DP as long as the balls do not touch
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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #119 on: December 17, 2015, 08:48:54 AM »
they agreed upon DP as long as the balls do not touch

I would put plastic wrap around my sack to eliminate any accidental syncronized ball swing and collision. The plastic barrier will keep from voiding agreement.

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #120 on: December 17, 2015, 09:04:22 AM »
He's jealous of you, of what you look like. So he treats you like crap. You need to get a job where the boss is a female or a male that is there to work and not take his insecurities to his job or out on employees.

So true. Same shit I just went through. It ended badly regardless so he should get out asap

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #121 on: December 17, 2015, 10:56:42 AM »


"Things are gonna get awfully physical, and I don't think you want that".

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #122 on: December 17, 2015, 02:03:06 PM »
Ha! Where in the fuck is that from again

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #123 on: December 17, 2015, 05:08:42 PM »
Ha! Where in the fuck is that from again
kevthekid talking to his boss.

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #124 on: December 20, 2015, 03:41:28 PM »
kevthekid talking to his boss.

Serious though hats killin me right now!!