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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #75 on: December 14, 2015, 02:30:26 PM »
Everything you need to know about handling tough situations in life is found in the movie Roadhouse.

Here's how you deal with that boss:



You're welcome.
That is surprisingly Christian of you. Glad to see that you didn't have to sacrifice your values.

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #76 on: December 14, 2015, 02:34:38 PM »
Best thing you can do is never work with your girlfriend. With that said, If your bosses are as bad as you say, find out who their wives and girlfriends are and try to fuck them immediately. One of two things will happen. First one is that they will let you fuck them and that alone will make yourself feel 100 times better that you got one over on your boss/s. Or they won't fuck you and they will tell their husband/boyfriend(your boss) what you tried to do. Honestly the second one in this case is better than actually fucking them. Trying to bang their wife regardless of being successful puts the husband/boyfriend into a very uneasy feeling that will stick with him for as long as he's with the women. You will make the guy second guess what actually happened when his wife/girlfriend ever gets caught down the road with other guy. And years later if you ever bump into your old boss, alway's ask him "hows the wife or girlfriend" and smile when you say it.

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #77 on: December 14, 2015, 02:40:59 PM »
So I'm in college and work at a restaurant in a country club and I have 2 bosses. i have been picked on and singled out for about a good 2 months now by one particular boss, he'll say things like "you know I worry for you because I don't think you'll ever make it in life" or "you are the biggest idiot I've ever met" "your girlfriend must be awesome at making life choices for dating you" "you have got to be fucking kidding me how much stupider can you get" and more comments like that. They are giving me the empty/never seated sections of the restaurant and give me tables that don't tip a lot. Also I have the lowest hourly out of every server, even a new person there who got hired a month after me got a higher starting pay for no reason. How do I deal with this situation. My other boss is the one who gives me horrible sections and then I get blamed for everything even if it has nothing to with me like someone forgetting to do their side work before they leave.

another reason why the US is shit.

we have minimum wage  which goes from $15US to $20US, plus its illegal to bully at work, plus health care is free.

oh, and we dont have mass gun shootings every few days.

HTH.


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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #78 on: December 14, 2015, 02:43:18 PM »
It's simple.

Confront him. Dummy him.

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #79 on: December 14, 2015, 02:44:49 PM »
That is surprisingly Christian of you. Glad to see that you didn't have to sacrifice your values.

Christian never makes jokes.  

"You should relax and joke more."

Christian cracks a joke.

"That's not very Christian of you."

My solution is simple.....meh.

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #80 on: December 14, 2015, 02:45:54 PM »
another reason why the US is shit.

we have minimum wage  which goes from $15US to $20US, plus its illegal to bully at work, plus health care is free.

oh, and we dont have mass gun shootings every few days.

HTH.



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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #81 on: December 14, 2015, 02:47:42 PM »
Christian never makes jokes.  

"You should relax and joke more."

Christian cracks a joke.

"That's not very Christian of you."

My solution is simple.....meh.
I think you misunderstood my intentions. I was praising you for following your religion.

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #82 on: December 14, 2015, 02:50:23 PM »
I think you misunderstood my intentions. I was praising you for following your religion.

Goal post shift LOL.  None of this matters though.  It's all meh to me anyways.  ;D

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #83 on: December 14, 2015, 02:53:53 PM »
Goal post shift LOL.  None of this matters though.  It's all meh to me anyways.  ;D
The way it should be, my friend.

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #84 on: December 14, 2015, 02:57:42 PM »
another reason why the US is shit.

we have minimum wage  which goes from $15US to $20US, plus its illegal to bully at work, plus health care is free.

oh, and we dont have mass gun shootings every few days.

HTH.


And what third world shithole do you reside in Dicksuck Stu?

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #85 on: December 14, 2015, 03:00:41 PM »
After you quit and you see them outside the working enviroment


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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #86 on: December 14, 2015, 03:56:39 PM »
so many betas talking about quitting and shit.  Just corner the mutherfucker in the backroom and tell him how it is.  make him shit in his pants and threaten to rape him, his wife and his kids if he doesn't lay off, give you a raise and doesn't keep this whole incident private.

Fight Club.

Great movie.

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #87 on: December 14, 2015, 05:36:49 PM »
Your girl is definitely taking busboy/manager loads in the face.

If you were any sort of man, you'd tell this asshat to lay off the insults or he's gonna come to a place he will not find to be conducive to his continued health.

If he continues to disrespect you, wait out back after a shift and take out his knees with a baseball bat. Then pee in his face.


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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #88 on: December 14, 2015, 06:33:26 PM »
so many betas talking about quitting and shit.  Just corner the mutherfucker in the backroom and tell him how it is.  make him shit in his pants and threaten to rape him, his wife and his kids if he doesn't lay off, give you a raise and doesn't keep this whole incident private.

Yeah.

That doesn't work in the real world.

Makes for a fun movie though.

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #89 on: December 14, 2015, 06:47:48 PM »
Christian never makes jokes.  

"You should relax and joke more."

Christian cracks a joke.

"That's not very Christian of you."

My solution is simple.....meh.

Dude, you are SO not bound by anyone's bullshit judgment here. You walk it, talk it, and rep it better than anyone here ever has. You could tell the most vile rape joke, and your character would still be head and shoulders above the typical hypocritical lot.

So let's hear that rape joke, friend.


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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #90 on: December 14, 2015, 06:51:32 PM »
Up the dose

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #91 on: December 14, 2015, 07:11:01 PM »
Yeah worst part is I work with my girl and he takes everything she does out on me too. The other day she forgot to dump out the tea and wash the container so instead of telling her, he tells me to go scrub it for 10 minutes solely because I'm her boyfriend. We also have a man that comes in once a month and he tips so much money (over 100 dollars) that they have a list on which server gets him next. I was supposed to be next on the list but he skipped me and gave it to a guy who had just had him then gave it to my girl today and claimed he completely forgot about me. The worst part is he seats me the very old and cheap tippers and Asians/Blacks because he thinks they don't tip well and thinks I don't notice. Then when I got a big table a few days ago (15 people) he tells me that my girl will be taking 5 of them because it's a big table and then yesterday a table of 14 comes in and he gives it to my girl and tells me not to go near that table because she can handle it on her own.

He is showing her favoritism because she gulps his baby batter.

Turn the tables, give him a couple hundred blowjobs and you may get a raise and a couple white tables

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #92 on: December 14, 2015, 07:33:02 PM »
Your boss either likes/loathes you, or into your girlfriend/using your girlfriend to manipulateyou, and is in a backdoor way trying to hint to something. Ask him man to man, if he has a real problem with your work performance, and to not use your girlfriend as a tool to undermine you.
At the very least he knows that you have the stones to ask what is up, and that you know the game. This will garner some sort of respect and level the playing field. At the very worst, he'll continue down the same road with more games or will fire you.

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #93 on: December 14, 2015, 07:50:21 PM »
Be glad u have a job
Look for a different job and only when u definitely have another job then do u quit
Do your job correctly and very well so u are the best

Unless there is another side to the story and perhaps u do suck
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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #94 on: December 15, 2015, 12:30:37 AM »
Be glad u have a job
Look for a different job and only when u definitely have another job then do u quit
Do your job correctly and very well so u are the best

Unless there is another side to the story and perhaps u do suck

Typical sick homo queer imagining a man sucking
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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #95 on: December 15, 2015, 12:32:48 AM »
So I'm in college and work at a restaurant in a country club and I have 2 bosses. i have been picked on and singled out for about a good 2 months now by one particular boss, he'll say things like "you know I worry for you because I don't think you'll ever make it in life" or "you are the biggest idiot I've ever met" "your girlfriend must be awesome at making life choices for dating you" "you have got to be fucking kidding me how much stupider can you get" and more comments like that. They are giving me the empty/never seated sections of the restaurant and give me tables that don't tip a lot. Also I have the lowest hourly out of every server, even a new person there who got hired a month after me got a higher starting pay for no reason. How do I deal with this situation. My other boss is the one who gives me horrible sections and then I get blamed for everything even if it has nothing to with me like someone forgetting to do their side work before they leave.

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #96 on: December 15, 2015, 03:26:45 AM »
He is showing her favoritism because she gulps his baby batter.

Turn the tables, give him a couple hundred blowjobs and you may get a raise and a couple white tables

LOL

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #97 on: December 15, 2015, 03:29:40 AM »
another reason why the US is shit.

we have minimum wage  which goes from $15US to $20US, plus its illegal to bully at work, plus health care is free.

oh, and we dont have mass gun shootings every few days.

HTH.



LOL Please. Yes bullying never happens in Australia, and workers are never too scared to report any bullying that happens for fear of losing their job.

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #98 on: December 15, 2015, 03:34:05 AM »
Go with your phone ready to record his words, next time he calls you "good for nothing" tell him: What? let him repeat it, click the record button, later report him or sue him.

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Re: How to deal with a boss that constantly picks on you?
« Reply #99 on: December 15, 2015, 06:30:01 AM »
say hi to Getbigger Walter Sobchak from me.

I am Getbig's very own Tony Robbins.

Very sympathetic and empathetic to your needs.