You're delusional if you believe that rubbish... have some balls and take responsibility for OWN actions, thoughts, desires, hates, biases, loathing, embarrassments and you'll grow as a person ten fold trust me 
I think you're under the misconception that Christians aren't required to take responsability for their actions.
God is very clear, we cannot be saved unless we repent. Repentance demands that you acknowledge your actions, take full responsability and completely turn from your ways. “………..I (GOD) am he who searches hearts and minds, and I will repay each of you according to your deeds.” Revelation 2:23
God tells us in the book of James that all sin in our lives is
OUR OWN FAULT. "but each one is tempted when, by
his own evil desire, he is dragged away and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death. James 1:14-16
As far as growing as a person by trusting in man, "Don't be deceived, my dear brothers. Every good and perfect gift is from above." James 1:17
I'm not trying to throw a bunch of scripture at you guys. I just think people have heard so much nonsense about God and Christianity, but never look at the TRUTH. So I'm just showing you what God really says.
God is NOT some 'Genie' in a bottle that you rub and He comes out and gives you everything you want. When you become a Christian life just doesn't instantly become easy with no problems. Just because I know Jesus doesn't mean I can bench press 2000lbs and beat Ronnie Coleman. I serve God, He doesn't serve me!
However, Jesus said that He would give us a life beyond what we could ever ask or imagine. "I (Jesus) have come that they may have life, and have it to the fullest." John 10:10
Christians are REAL people with real problems. We have bad days, lose our temper and embarrass our Lord. Luckily, we have a God that loves us, forgives us, and blesses us. He gives us a future and a hope. The great news is HE will NEVER LET US DOWN!