what's the point of this hijacked thread anyways?
People who need help because they just cant go ahead anymore at some point in their lifes, need the help of the others.period.Whoevers says he never needed anyone is a liar, a moron.
Sure some people sometimes overcome deep troubles alone, but they are changed, they are psychologically far more affected and hurt than any other person who has loved ones surrounding him by these times of troubles.
In the end they are far more prone to get psychological traumas than any other individual who s able to take the troubles easier with the support of people helping and loving em.
It means that sooner or later, those who have had very bad experiences and overcame them alone, will have to face these troubles coming back in their life. Because they didnt really fought their troubles, they just forgot em, or put em in a dark area of their mind, because it was just too much for em to stand. But these troubles are still here, and one day they ll make a comeback ruing people's lifes when they thought they were "unbrekable".
There's nothign worst.
That's why you'd better think that yes, one day, maybe you ll have to let someone help you. If you dont, this day you couldnt be able to accept this help from these people, and you could this way destroy yourself once for all, and destroy your last chance to survive.
Loved ones when they are ABLE to hear you, psychiatrists when you and your loved ones fail to give the attention you need to understand why you re failing, why you re reproducing things living in a vicious circle.
Psychiatrists are in my book, "friends" you can rent when you need em.
And they re even better than any friends, cause they know what to tell you and when, they re not blinded by personnal/familial links and most em really acquire a deep understanding of the human nature after some years of practice.
You just can't say you can cure everything by yourself, or will always be able to do so.
Some people say that because they don't see what really allow em to feel happy and secure.
They need reality check.
Im not saying here you cant be confident, and that confident people are liars.
I just mean that some people are confidents for the good reasons, and some others are confident for the bad reasons.
You can be confident when you spent years fighting your way trough life with your girlfirend/wife, when you overcame your own disabilities thanks to the help of those who truly loves you, all in all you canb e confident when you have a real and hard as rock base of relationships including people who really cares about you.
The bad confidence is when you builded yourself a false confidence in yourself, and this caracterizes a lot of egoistical, lonely and self centered people.
They are prone to face reality one day, and prone to not be able to stand it.
They are prone to see that they cant handle life alone, just with their self confidence.
At the oposite, people who are truly loved and who truly loves people surrounding em, are constantly living in the truth, and are prone to make the best choices and handle troubles with more wiseness.
