confession

[drkaje]

since I got a majority of my tattoos

I was getting laid on the regular with a backpiece and small pieces on my arms but yeah I've gotten A LOT of work done since that august of 2010


hmmmm...overcompensating ?

It's well know that depressed people body-modify to make themselves less attractive. It's like people overeating to build a protective wall of fat.

[devilsmile]

It's well know that depressed people body-modify to make themselves less attractive. It's like people overeating to build a protective wall of fat.

I thought people get tattoos to appear more bad ass, so that their depression wouldn't leak out in the open so easily?

[drkaje]

I thought people get tattoos to appear more bad ass, so that their depression wouldn't leak out in the open so easily?

One or two is different than a campaign to disguise one's entire body.

True badasses have few needs. 

[devilsmile]

One or two is different than a campaign to disguise one's entire body.

True badasses have few needs.  

what's the limitation to say we're dealing with a big head case? u think conor mcgregor has a small man complex? I don't see any tattoos on jon bones junior

[drkaje]

^ Seems like Jones has his own demons to fight.

[bigmc]

It's well know that depressed people body-modify to make themselves less attractive. It's like people overeating to build a protective wall of fat.

bro science of peace

[johnnynoname]

tattoo's for me were always something that fascinated me back to when I saw Sailor Jerry Anchor on Rick Rude's bicep when i was a kid

the only thing that stopped me from getting more sooner were money, time and the fact that I wanted to be a queer ass fitness model and if I was inked up i wouldn't get jobs


....then I learned that I didn't care about being a fitness model and just decided to do something that would make me happy

however, I am in the fact that "non-colored" folk will have there cliche's about us....

[epic_alien]

does he have aids

[Tapeworm]

btw---I'm open about my current situation.....so just because I'm open about it means i'm the only one?

No, not alone.  Like I said - I find most people to be a pain in the ass.  "I'm not single, I'm busy."  But it's true.  A full-time woman?  Family functions, holidays, walks on the fucking beach?  Brunch?  There's no way.  I'm booked working every day, seven days, for the next couple months, during which time yet more work will arrive.  Then I've got 10 years of backburnered projects to get on with, and new but overdue stuff like buying a goddamn property of my own and building a house and workshop on it so I can have some say in my destiny instead of being moved on, along with my 80 tons of equipment, whenever someone decides to sell their house that I rent.  

My wife was right to be shitty with me.  I am always working, every weekend, Christmas Day, New Year's Day, you name it.  Well... I was there every day after work, which I still think is an a-ok compromise, because that's what people do - go to work and then come home - but she didn't feel the same.  Of course, she's unhappier now that she hasn't got a penny to her name but that's not really my problem.  And other women's problems aren't my problem.  Rescuing someone from her lame ass situation of her own making is not my function.  Not even if you hope it is.  So good luck with your dramas, which are not mine.  I ain't got time for anyone's stupid crap.  I've got plenty of my own.  We're all full up with stupid crap here, thanks very much.

A libido which is... persistent... doesn't change the fact that I'm selfish about my time and simply don't have room for anyone.  Certainly not for anyone who is a full time project unto herself, which as far as I can tell is everyone.  Life fills up.  I guess I dropped the ball somehow.  'I must have died alone/a long, long time ago.'  Most people managed to form relationships, have kids, pay a mortgage, etc.  I don't know how they did it.  Frankly, I think they did it by accident and by inertia but I digress.  I'm 43.  I still get propositioned which is nice but nevertheless - if I don't say fuck it and inseminate someone in the next few months, just hoping for the best that she's not going to be an ever-flowing font of eternal shittiness,  it's pretty much over and I'm gonna live and die alone and never have kids.  Seems awful likely.  Guess I should have gone the other road but I did that for awhile and it was raw misery, so what can I tell you.

I trust this helps.

[wes]

Wes, just part of an addictive personality. I feel ya.

I hear RR,I can get addicted to anything...........espec ially good sex.

[wes]

Don`t fret none Sal,I`ll attempt to get as much pussy as humanly possible just to pick up your slack!   LOL   

[MAXX]

jeez depressing thread   

[Radical Plato]

No, not alone.  Like I said - I find most people to be a pain in the ass.  "I'm not single, I'm busy."  But it's true.  A full-time woman?  Family functions, holidays, walks on the fucking beach?  Brunch?  There's no way.  I'm booked working every day, seven days, for the next couple months, during which time yet more work will arrive.  Then I've got 10 years of backburnered projects to get on with, and new but overdue stuff like buying a goddamn property of my own and building a house and workshop on it so I can have some say in my destiny instead of being moved on, along with my 80 tons of equipment, whenever someone decides to sell their house that I rent.  

My wife was right to be shitty with me.  I am always working, every weekend, Christmas Day, New Year's Day, you name it.  Well... I was there every day after work, which I still think is an a-ok compromise, because that's what people do - go to work and then come home - but she didn't feel the same.  Of course, she's unhappier now that she hasn't got a penny to her name but that's not really my problem.  And other women's problems aren't my problem.  Rescuing someone from her lame ass situation of her own making is not my function.  Not even if you hope it is.  So good luck with your dramas, which are not mine.  I ain't got time for anyone's stupid crap.  I've got plenty of my own.  We're all full up with stupid crap here, thanks very much.

A libido which is... persistent... doesn't change the fact that I'm selfish about my time and simply don't have room for anyone.  Certainly not for anyone who is a full time project unto herself, which as far as I can tell is everyone.  Life fills up.  I guess I dropped the ball somehow.  'I must have died alone/a long, long time ago.'  Most people managed to form relationships, have kids, pay a mortgage, etc.  I don't know how they did it.  Frankly, I think they did it by accident and by inertia but I digress.  I'm 43.  I still get propositioned which is nice but nevertheless - if I don't say fuck it and inseminate someone in the next few months, just hoping for the best that she's not going to be an ever-flowing font of eternal shittiness,  it's pretty much over and I'm gonna live and die alone and never have kids.  Seems awful likely.  Guess I should have gone the other road but I did that for awhile and it was raw misery, so what can I tell you.

I trust this helps.

I have similar story, I am 43, never married, no kids.  Had a few long term relationships with cunty women that I stayed too long with.  Kind of over it now, although I wouldn't mind a fuck buddy.  I have just started dating again and meeting plenty of women but Jesus H Christ they do my head in. Most are dumb as door knobs, can only small talk and have a head full of inane jibberish.  The joke that goes "If women didn't have pussies they would be ten high at the dump" resonates as true with me.

[drkaje]

bro science of peace

LOL!

[johnnynoname]

Don`t fret none Sal,I`ll attempt to get as much pussy as humanly possible just to pick up your slack!   LOL   

I'll live vicariously through you wes

[_aj_]

I have similar story, I am 43, never married, no kids.  Had a few long term relationships with cunty women that I stayed too long with.  Kind of over it now, although I wouldn't mind a fuck buddy.  I have just started dating again and meeting plenty of women but Jesus H Christ they do my head in. Most are dumb as door knobs, can only small talk and have a head full of inane jibberish.  The joke that goes "If women didn't have pussies they would be ten high at the dump" resonates as true with me.

Bad, but made me lol.

[johnnynoname]

No, not alone.  Like I said - I find most people to be a pain in the ass.  "I'm not single, I'm busy."  But it's true.  A full-time woman?  Family functions, holidays, walks on the fucking beach?  Brunch?  There's no way.  I'm booked working every day, seven days, for the next couple months, during which time yet more work will arrive.  Then I've got 10 years of backburnered projects to get on with, and new but overdue stuff like buying a goddamn property of my own and building a house and workshop on it so I can have some say in my destiny instead of being moved on, along with my 80 tons of equipment, whenever someone decides to sell their house that I rent.  

My wife was right to be shitty with me.  I am always working, every weekend, Christmas Day, New Year's Day, you name it.  Well... I was there every day after work, which I still think is an a-ok compromise, because that's what people do - go to work and then come home - but she didn't feel the same.  Of course, she's unhappier now that she hasn't got a penny to her name but that's not really my problem.  And other women's problems aren't my problem.  Rescuing someone from her lame ass situation of her own making is not my function.  Not even if you hope it is.  So good luck with your dramas, which are not mine.  I ain't got time for anyone's stupid crap.  I've got plenty of my own.  We're all full up with stupid crap here, thanks very much.

A libido which is... persistent... doesn't change the fact that I'm selfish about my time and simply don't have room for anyone.  Certainly not for anyone who is a full time project unto herself, which as far as I can tell is everyone.  Life fills up.  I guess I dropped the ball somehow.  'I must have died alone/a long, long time ago.'  Most people managed to form relationships, have kids, pay a mortgage, etc.  I don't know how they did it.  Frankly, I think they did it by accident and by inertia but I digress.  I'm 43.  I still get propositioned which is nice but nevertheless - if I don't say fuck it and inseminate someone in the next few months, just hoping for the best that she's not going to be an ever-flowing font of eternal shittiness,  it's pretty much over and I'm gonna live and die alone and never have kids.  Seems awful likely.  Guess I should have gone the other road but I did that for awhile and it was raw misery, so what can I tell you.

I trust this helps.

i does help.....we all get older and our priorities change

truth be told my situation has less to do with depression or libido and more to do with certain things (like getting laid) aren't as important as they used to be

[Tapeworm]

I have similar story, I am 43, never married, no kids.  Had a few long term relationships with cunty women that I stayed too long with.  Kind of over it now, although I wouldn't mind a fuck buddy.  I have just started dating again and meeting plenty of women but Jesus H Christ they do my head in. Most are dumb as door knobs, can only small talk and have a head full of inane jibberish.  The joke that goes "If women didn't have pussies they would be ten high at the dump" resonates as true with me.

Occurs to me that the only way to form a relationship is by accident.  You can't go asking questions like "Is this someone I want around everyday?  Is she going to annoy me?  Am I seeing big red flags?"  You don't ask these things when you're young.  But, at some point, you can't help but ask them.  And then you're where we are.  

Like JNN, I've way outgrown the casual thing.  Which is too bad since all these divorced ones just want to get their slut on.  Ugh.  Old & slutty doesn't fire my pistons.  Outlook bleak.

[johnnynoname]

 Which is too bad since all these divorced ones just want to get their slut on.  Ugh.  Old & slutty doesn't fire my pistons.  Outlook bleak.

you don't know (or, you actually do know lol) how TRUE this is

I'm no Lorenzo Lamas in the looks department but I know when a older woman (whether she be divorced or single) wants me to take them into the restaurant bathroom and just fuck the shit out of them......and btw- I'm not being arrogant by saying that--being my age I know when a woman gives off that sincere "please fuck me" vibe

the irony is I really don't care so much to actually fuck them on the job.....I do flirt back though because I work on tips

[wes]

I'll live vicariously through you wes

Most folks do !  LOL 

[dr.chimps]

Most folks do !  LOL 

Slut.       

[Tapeworm]

you don't know (or, you actually do know lol) how TRUE this is

I'm no Lorenzo Lamas in the looks department but I know when a older woman (whether she be divorced or single) wants me to take them into the restaurant bathroom and just fuck the shit out of them......and btw- I'm not being arrogant by saying that--being my age I know when a woman gives off that sincere "please fuck me" vibe

the irony is I really don't care so much to actually fuck them on the job.....I do flirt back though because I work on tips

No amount of NO HOMO is going to excuse this:

I'm looking for something more substantial.  Actual quote.  I should probably have my head examined.

Slut.      

BAM!

[Board_SHERIF]

I have similar story, I am 43, never married, no kids.  Had a few long term relationships with cunty women that I stayed too long with.  Kind of over it now, although I wouldn't mind a fuck buddy.  I have just started dating again and meeting plenty of women but Jesus H Christ they do my head in. Most are dumb as door knobs, can only small talk and have a head full of inane jibberish.  The joke that goes "If women didn't have pussies they would be ten high at the dump" resonates as true with me.

LOL..spot on especially when you talking women over the age of 40..they are basically idiots talking nonsense and annoying as hell.

[johnnynoname]

to tag what RP said about dating at a older age

when I was 25, I didn't care about "compatiblity" or anything like that--if you were "hot" then I was gonna ask you out

fast forward 12 years---well, I'll put it to you this way: at my current age I totally understand that there is a difference between "hot" and "attractive"

a can recognize that is a girl is "hot" but i might not be "attracted" to her.....I need to be attracted to a person more and more as I get older

[devilsmile]

to tag what RP said about dating at a older age

when I was 25, I didn't care about "compatiblity" or anything like that--if you were "hot" then I was gonna ask you out

fast forward 12 years---well, I'll put it to you this way: at my current age I totally understand that there is a difference between "hot" and "attractive"

a can recognize that is a girl is "hot" but i might not be "attracted" to her.....I need to be attracted to a person more and more as I get older

Where do you hang out If you haven't found anyone attractive to fuck in 5 years?