I meant she lives at home and is in school talking about having 3 kids and shit.......not healthy.
maybe she's just dreaming out loud and being somewhat immature
not sure
but your advice feels like 1000kg was just lifted off my shoulder
can just date her for a while

srsly
that's not a bad idea
just work on hitting it now, see if she's really virgin, then after that maybe she will also change her mind maybe penor not big enough and the problem will take care of itself