Can you really find anything worth pursuing long term from a dating site? These women get hundreds of hits a day and do they even take their profile down when they meet someone they like? I'm sure they check back infrequently and see they have hundreds of new messages waiting for them, who knows how many dick pics etc... I've known about 5 people who thought they met their match, eventually got married and everyone of them a couple years later got divorced.
Depends on the site. Tinder is much different than Match or something similar. POF is just a waste of time.
Tinder is a meat market. 80% of the women on there are just looking for prince charming, the other 20% just want to get fucked. Most of the dudes are epic douchebags. I always hear nonstop about how terrible the guys are, no personality and can't have an intelligent conversation. Most girls will hide their profile in a real relationship, but i don't bother asking if they do, don't care.
That's why you have to set yourself apart. Talk to them differently, don't act like a fuck boi. Be charming and hard to get. Play a lead role, don't be a little bitch, act like "you" are the catch.
I've hooked up with dozens over the past 3-4 years. I actually met my GF on Tinder. She was the only girl i met that was worth my time, other than sex. She had actually stopped getting on the site and randomly checked her messages, mine stuck out to her. We had a few dates, some amazing sex and now we've been together for 10 months. But i have no plans on moving further in the relationship, once it falls apart, back on the site i go.
Women have it easy, but most guys are douche assemblies. All the girls complain about them. They don't want dick pics, they want a nice dinner and romance; someone they can trust.
I'm like Bruce Wayne on Tinder. I have two completely different sides, depending on how they act, i can play the game.
I have no interest in married. I just like to have sex with women.
I figured your just as likely to have a successful marriage this way than another? I have no idea, never been married. But i do know people who met successfully online.