Make Matt C sexual again

[BBSSchlemiel]

Men who aren't near the end need a purpose - kids ain't enough (it needs to about you) , a woman ain't enough (same reason) and gym isn't enough (an hour or so a day only). You having too much free time is likely not helping your mental state as there is too much time to think and spiral over failed relationships rom four years ago , hatred of lockdowns etc

I recently was able to step back due to being set and am already getting restless and a bit bored and going down too many rabbit holes

There was some study showing any more than 6 hours a day of completely free time a day over an extended period runs counter to personal life satisfaction and i think there is some truth in that

Get out ,don't let covid and women scare you and find a purpose

Good post!

Do you have a link to the study?

[BBSSchlemiel]

Found it.
https://www.apa.org/pubs/journals/releases/psp-pspp0000391.pdf

[delon]

Found it.
https://www.apa.org/pubs/journals/releases/psp-pspp0000391.pdf

Yeah that's it , classic case of not really believing it can be so until you experience it first hand

[BBSSchlemiel]

Yeah that's it , classic case of not really believing it can be so until you experience it first hand

I believe it. I was once laid off from work and then unemployed for six months. It was a miserable experience!

[Matt]

Matt, when did you lose your desire for sexy time?

Good question. I had a girlfriend between November 10th, 2019 through to August 1st, 2020, and we had sex every day. She got pregnant early on, and miscarried on December 17th, 2019, four days before my 38th birthday.

Since then, I've had sex around five times. That didn't concern me much until my masturbation frequency went down to about once every 7-10 days, and stranger than that - I started thinking about sex once every five days roughly. Meaning, I didn't even have a sexual thought cross my mind at all for full five day periods at a time. Then just within the past few days, I realized at least a full week had passed.

I was rather surprised by that. To be fair, I am not interested in getting sex thoughts back, and I don't feel like I'm missing out at all. And to go from sex daily with a relatively recent ex, to nothing...suggests it's a mental thing.

I think my brain turned off sex for me to prevent further bad experiences with women.

I do think, in time, I can turn it back on. But frankly, I'm in no rush to do that.

[Matt]

Matt stated online he would murder the next one that messed with him so I have my doubts.

No...I didn't quite say that, but I've made my position clear on wanting to be left alone.

What is absolutely ASTOUNDING to me is that this does not always happen - even when people are warned of potential threats/risks, this doesn't always happen.

So go figure.

Matt stated online he would murder the next one that messed with him so I have my doubts. No woman with her shit together would make it past a few dates with Matt, he is clearly damaged.

Correction: no woman would ever get a date with me until I allow it. And I'll allow it if or when I ever find a way to identify which women are feminists.

Last time I saw red flags and asked - and I was explicitly lied to. She denied being a feminist when she was. I am clearly damaged though - beyond repair, in my opinion. But Canada only JUST opened up...I'll find out if I feel better now that things are finally back to normal here.

Matt get help. You appear severely depressed, potentially suicidal. Life is what you make of it.

You're probably right, but I don't frankly give a shit at this point. The only thing I wonder is why the fuck I'm even here at all - I am almost completely certain that I never asked to exist.

And I'm done with all this now. So, ideally, I would just get hit by a transport truck or something.

That being said...I know there's a 0% chance I tolerate a police encounter in the future that has an illegal basis. If it has a legal basis - sure, no problems there. But if it has an illegal basis, then I don't know.

And I've literally done everything I possibly could at this point to prevent any such future issue, including finally submitting formal complaints about it [this past December].

It's my preference not to get into a conflict with police, but...my prime minister is insistent on breaking laws, which is why I'm deeply concerned about our future in Canada.

We JUST had a two year trial run of communism. The Powers That Be aren't done with it yet, as far as I can tell. And I know I won't handle living in a country that is that left-leaning. I'd rather be in jail.

As for life being what you make of it - I agree with you there, keanu. Though I'd prefer not to exist at all, forever and eternally.

[Flexacon]

Anyone got Matt in the death pool?

[michael arvilla]

Anyone got Matt in the death pool?

Nah… Matt’s like cockroaches and Cher (he can survive anything!) ..this too shall pass Matt ….

[BossBoss]

No...I didn't quite say that, but I've made my position clear on wanting to be left alone.

What is absolutely ASTOUNDING to me is that this does not always happen - even when people are warned of potential threats/risks, this doesn't always happen.

So go figure.

Correction: no woman would ever get a date with me until I allow it. And I'll allow it if or when I ever find a way to identify which women are feminists.

Last time I saw red flags and asked - and I was explicitly lied to. She denied being a feminist when she was. I am clearly damaged though - beyond repair, in my opinion. But Canada only JUST opened up...I'll find out if I feel better now that things are finally back to normal here.

You're probably right, but I don't frankly give a shit at this point. The only thing I wonder is why the fuck I'm even here at all - I am almost completely certain that I never asked to exist.

And I'm done with all this now. So, ideally, I would just get hit by a transport truck or something.

That being said...I know there's a 0% chance I tolerate a police encounter in the future that has an illegal basis. If it has a legal basis - sure, no problems there. But if it has an illegal basis, then I don't know.

And I've literally done everything I possibly could at this point to prevent any such future issue, including finally submitting formal complaints about it [this past December].

It's my preference not to get into a conflict with police, but...my prime minister is insistent on breaking laws, which is why I'm deeply concerned about our future in Canada.

We JUST had a two year trial run of communism. The Powers That Be aren't done with it yet, as far as I can tell. And I know I won't handle living in a country that is that left-leaning. I'd rather be in jail.

As for life being what you make of it - I agree with you there, keanu. Though I'd prefer not to exist at all, forever and eternally.

6. Almost everyone will agree that we live in a deeply
troubled society. One of the most widespread manifestations of the craziness of our world is leftism, so a discussion of the psychology of leftism can serve as an introduction to the discussion of the problems of modern society in general.

7. But what is leftism? During the first half of the 20thcentury leftism could have been practically identified with socialism. Today the movement is fragmented and it is not clear who can properly be called a leftist. When we speakof leftists in this article we have in mind mainly socialists,collectivists, “politically correct” types, feminists, gay and disability activists, animal rights activists and the like. But not everyone who is associated with one of these movements is a leftist. What we are trying to get at in discussing leftism is not so much movement or an ideology as a psychological type, or rather a collection of related types. Thus, what we mean by “leftism” will emerge more clearly in the course of our discussion of leftist psychology.

First page: Industrial Society and Its Future ,Theodore Kaczynski 1995

The UnaBomber Manifesto
http://editions-hache.com/essais/pdf/kaczynski2.pdf

He was a mathematical genius and shares alot of your though prozesses as i noticed..IQ 167  .

[Marty Champions]

Matt is ripped more than bhabks

[keanu]

As for life being what you make of it - I agree with you there, keanu. Though I'd prefer not to exist at all, forever and eternally.

Get help Matt. You're sinking into the abyss. Mental health is critical. Life can be amazing, especially with your productivity and IQ. A few years ago, a new hire on our team at work was absent for days. Nobody could reach him. His friend on our team went to his nearby apartment. The front door was unlocked. A note was posted on his bedroom door stating not to enter and to call police. He had hung himself. Smart kid, a total waste a life. Parents devastated. Just a waste.

[bhank]

Other than family formation why does he or any man need a “girlfriend”?

Outed

[bhank]

No...I didn't quite say that, but I've made my position clear on wanting to be left alone.

What is absolutely ASTOUNDING to me is that this does not always happen - even when people are warned of potential threats/risks, this doesn't always happen.

So go figure.

Correction: no woman would ever get a date with me until I allow it. And I'll allow it if or when I ever find a way to identify which women are feminists.

Last time I saw red flags and asked - and I was explicitly lied to. She denied being a feminist when she was. I am clearly damaged though - beyond repair, in my opinion. But Canada only JUST opened up...I'll find out if I feel better now that things are finally back to normal here.

You're probably right, but I don't frankly give a shit at this point. The only thing I wonder is why the fuck I'm even here at all - I am almost completely certain that I never asked to exist.

And I'm done with all this now. So, ideally, I would just get hit by a transport truck or something.

That being said...I know there's a 0% chance I tolerate a police encounter in the future that has an illegal basis. If it has a legal basis - sure, no problems there. But if it has an illegal basis, then I don't know.

And I've literally done everything I possibly could at this point to prevent any such future issue, including finally submitting formal complaints about it [this past December].

It's my preference not to get into a conflict with police, but...my prime minister is insistent on breaking laws, which is why I'm deeply concerned about our future in Canada.

We JUST had a two year trial run of communism. The Powers That Be aren't done with it yet, as far as I can tell. And I know I won't handle living in a country that is that left-leaning. I'd rather be in jail.

As for life being what you make of it - I agree with you there, keanu. Though I'd prefer not to exist at all, forever and eternally.

It's 2022 how the fuck do you expect any woman not to be a feminist?

NOUN
an advocate of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes; a person who supports feminism.

[keanu]

Outed

Lol.

[wes]

I dont know if there`s any hope for our buddy Matt C.......some chick wanted him to put it in her ass and he refused to do so on the advice of Wiggs.

I would have drilled her deep in that azzhole no questions asked. 

[OAK]

No...I didn't quite say that, but I've made my position clear on wanting to be left alone.

What is absolutely ASTOUNDING to me is that this does not always happen - even when people are warned of potential threats/risks, this doesn't always happen.

So go figure.

Correction: no woman would ever get a date with me until I allow it. And I'll allow it if or when I ever find a way to identify which women are feminists.

Last time I saw red flags and asked - and I was explicitly lied to. She denied being a feminist when she was. I am clearly damaged though - beyond repair, in my opinion. But Canada only JUST opened up...I'll find out if I feel better now that things are finally back to normal here.

You're probably right, but I don't frankly give a shit at this point. The only thing I wonder is why the fuck I'm even here at all - I am almost completely certain that I never asked to exist.

And I'm done with all this now. So, ideally, I would just get hit by a transport truck or something.

That being said...I know there's a 0% chance I tolerate a police encounter in the future that has an illegal basis. If it has a legal basis - sure, no problems there. But if it has an illegal basis, then I don't know.

And I've literally done everything I possibly could at this point to prevent any such future issue, including finally submitting formal complaints about it [this past December].

It's my preference not to get into a conflict with police, but...my prime minister is insistent on breaking laws, which is why I'm deeply concerned about our future in Canada.

We JUST had a two year trial run of communism. The Powers That Be aren't done with it yet, as far as I can tell. And I know I won't handle living in a country that is that left-leaning. I'd rather be in jail.

As for life being what you make of it - I agree with you there, keanu. Though I'd prefer not to exist at all, forever and eternally.

I see you have a lot on your plate. Sorry to hear I did not know that. Hang in there, there is a lot going on in the world now. Everyone is stressed to the max.

🙁

[keanu]

I dont know if there`s any hope for our buddy Matt C.......some chick wanted him to put it in her ass and he refused to do so on the advice of Wiggs.

I would have drilled her deep in that azzhole no questions asked. 

Lol. No doubt.

[Vince B]

Good question. I had a girlfriend between November 10th, 2019 through to August 1st, 2020, and we had sex every day. She got pregnant early on, and miscarried on December 17th, 2019, four days before my 38th birthday.

Since then, I've had sex around five times. That didn't concern me much until my masturbation frequency went down to about once every 7-10 days, and stranger than that - I started thinking about sex once every five days roughly. Meaning, I didn't even have a sexual thought cross my mind at all for full five day periods at a time. Then just within the past few days, I realized at least a full week had passed.

I was rather surprised by that. To be fair, I am not interested in getting sex thoughts back, and I don't feel like I'm missing out at all. And to go from sex daily with a relatively recent ex, to nothing...suggests it's a mental thing.

I think my brain turned off sex for me to prevent further bad experiences with women.

I do think, in time, I can turn it back on. But frankly, I'm in no rush to do that.

Matt, you post way too much personal information on Getbig. You have depression and the pandemic, restrictions, political scene, income, relationships, etc., have impacted on you. Plus you just had another cold winter. I was about your age when I emigrated to Australia. I couldn't get a job in Canada. I don't miss the cold winters. Women here don't mind Canadians and they might be different from your smallish town. Maybe it is time to consider a change of location? This isn't easy to do since you have children there.

You need a hobby that keeps you busy and interested. I have photography. I go to places mainly to take photos. Then one can spend hours editing them. You can share photos online as well. You will always have places that you want to visit...to take photos.

I think your lack of libido is related to depression. If you are on Prozac or other drugs they can diminish your sex drive. Clearly you need help. That is why you keep posting here. Talk about wanting to end your life is a red flag. Some people need help if the depression is severe.

Come down to Sydney and I can show you around. No homo, of course. Lots of great places to visit here in Australia and flowers blooming all year outside.

By the way, betrayal in a relationship can be devastating. If the woman replaces you with someone else that can hurt. If you were in love with her it might take years to feel good again.

[FitnessFrenzy]

Correction: no woman would ever get a date with me until I allow it.

[FitnessFrenzy]

I dont know if there`s any hope for our buddy Matt C.......some chick wanted him to put it in her ass and he refused to do so on the advice of Wiggs. I would have drilled her deep in that azzhole no questions asked. 

[FitnessFrenzy]

[BBSSchlemiel]

It's 2022 how the fuck do you expect any woman not to be a feminist?

NOUN
an advocate of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes; a person who supports feminism.

Is your woman a feminist? Mine isn’t.

Perhaps some men can get the sort of woman they want if they hold out and have some standards.

[FitnessFrenzy]

[Spike]

[wes]