I have to sell my current home to pay for it but yes once sold. We may spend less the point is not to spend for the sake of spending but to get the things we want in a home. We want a certain number of bedrooms new construction style commutable distance gym space yard etc we are also looking at homes that are less we are not looking at homes that cost more. My current home has appreciated significantly since purchase I paid 1m it is now worth 2m. As such we can buy a nice new 1m home Raleigh and I can put that 1m appreciation back into some new gym equipment and my retirement (code word for HGH and Dbol) and the haters can then kiss my giant growing ass.
So on the assumption of selling the home (which is essentially fully paid off now according to previous posts) for 2m, the following seems to be the spend breakdown:
* 1m goes to the new Raleigh home
* 1m goes to retirement, muscle fund (nice btw)...
Based on the above, doesn't sound like your other half is contributing to the new home cost unless am missing something