Getbiggers that date or marry women 10-20-30 years younger than them

[ThisisOverload]

I'm going through a divorce.

Getting back into dating is a pain in the ass.

I see a good looking girl or a good looking girl flirts with me and I think: do I even want to put in the effort? Do I want to take this girl out? Buy dinner ? Take her to a show? So I can talk about books, or movies or music she's never heard of? So I can pretend to listen to her? Fuck no! Then I always find out she's a whore anyway and wouldn't have even had to put in the effort !!! And I don't know which is worse!

It's like a clock was punched 20 years ago when I got married.  My body is still attracted to women 20 years younger than me but my mind is easily my age(50) if not older. I haven't really even talked to another woman in the 20 years I was married and now I'm finding out a lot has changed. And it sounds great, all these 25 year old gym bunnies are whores but it's actually not that great.

There is a cutoff mentally for dating younger women.

My GF is 11 years younger than me.

Once you dip below 30 the girls are a completely different breed.

Like ESF said they grew up in a completely different time than someone who is mid 40's.

Before i started seriously dating my GF 2 years ago, i was plowing younger whores on Tinder left and right. The mentality of the late 20 somethings was insane, i couldn't stand any of them, but enjoyed plowing them.

I think a lot of women like older men due to security/money and mental stability. By the time a man is 40 they typically have their life together completely or they don't, not much of an in between.

I'm sure my GF likes the fact that i'm financially secure and can take her on nice vacations 2-3 times a year. Never have to worry about money, eat at the best restaurants and enjoy the finer aspects of life. She grew up dirt poor as i did and i think those things matter. But i also know if i lost everything she would still be with me, she is absolutely crazy about me and will do anything for me.

[BEEFCAKE]

Hahahahaha…no. I got lucky. Probably not even social media. I feel like we’re one of the originators of online dating lol

what was her account name , does she still check her pm's ?

[honest]

But you have considered it and rejected the idea 

 

[Rambone]

Saddened to hear of heartbroken Getbiggers

[MajorDomo]

Saddened to hear of heartbroken Getbiggers

They should have taken advices from Louie

[Schadenfreude]

I've questioned my wife on how her sister met her husband in hopes of finding the secret to getting a woman that is genetically leagues ahead of you, not to mention 20+ years younger. For what it is worth, this is the information (could be misinformation  ) I was able to gather. They used to live in the same building and he helped her with some electrical issues, being an electrical engineer he was able to deploy his competencies and assert his status at the opportune occasion. He worked hard and did well for himselves over the past 20-30 years and probably made that obvious to her. He also has a "good sense of humor" (which I personally don't care for) which may have been a good ice breaker. She is very beautiful, elegant and projects an image of refinement, although she was a single mother at the time to a male child, but he accepted him as his own, married her and had twins wih her soon after (his ex wife did not take the news well)

Overall I think a case of "luck equals preparation plus opportunity". Nice. I hope fortune may also favor me in my next marriage, should that day come to pass.

[joswift]

I've questioned my wife on how her sister met her husband in hopes of finding the secret to getting a woman that is genetically leagues ahead of you, not to mention 20+ years younger. For what it is worth, this is the information (could be misinformation  ) I was able to gather. They used to live in the same building and he helped her with some electrical issues, being an electrical engineer he was able to deploy his competencies and assert his status at the opportune occasion. He worked hard and did well for himselves over the past 20-30 years and probably made that obvious to her. He also has a "good sense of humor" (which I personally don't care for) which may have been a good ice breaker. She is very beautiful, elegant and projects an image of refinement, although she was a single mother at the time to a male child, but he accepted him as his own, married her and had twins wih her soon after (his ex wife did not take the news well)

Overall I think a case of "luck equals preparation plus opportunity". Nice. I hope fortune may also favor me in my next marriage, should that day come to pass.

You wont get rid of a fatty that easily

[Schadenfreude]

You wont get rid of a fatty that easily

I am not unhappy but next to the sister it's like a peugeot 206 vs mercedes cls. It makes a man dream of more that is in him.

[Dieter]

Bout 50% of the girls I've dated in the past 3-4yrs have been about 20yrs younger.

You bite the bullet and accept the fact that she's going to be showing you fucking tick tock videos when you're laying in bed before and after busting a nut.

Also accept a fact she's going to be looking on her phone and you're out to eat.

Correct them if you want, but never more than once.

Sometimes you find a diamond in the rough, but usually it's just sex. They grew up differently from how I grew up and for a lot of them sex is a lot more casual, as in all you got to do is ask, unfortunately.

This....
I'm 60, retired living in the Philippines with a gf that is 28. She is constantly on her phone, addicted to facebook, tiktok etc. She's very sweet honest and very sexy but I wonder if it'll be worth it in a few years. Some guys here have 40, even 50+ age gaps.

[Schadenfreude]

This....
I'm 60, retired living in the Philippines with a gf that is 28. She is constantly on her phone, addicted to facebook, tiktok etc. She's very sweet honest and very sexy but I wonder if it'll be worth it in a few years. Some guys here have 40, even 50+ age gaps.

My wife is also addicted to that stuff and much older. . .

[wes]

Money. Guaranteed that at 53 I could pull a 20 yr old if I wasn’t married. Married life is good though, 17 yrs and still happy.

It`s a well known and proven fact that the 18 year mark is when it all goes to HELL !! 

Just kidding brother.......congrats and many more years to you both. 

[Rambone]

They should have taken advices from Louie

Agreed!

[ElPolloSalmonello]

Thailand Men Keep Winning!

lol - that's me. Met my wife in Thailand when I was 35 and she was 23.

You shouldn't be asking us how we managed it. You should be asking how we put up with their shite for the first couple of years.

[wes]

well shitty, youre alive
hows the whole sending the commando unit across the border for me going there skinless one?

BRUTAL !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111111111111111   

[ElPolloSalmonello]

I'm going through a divorce.

Getting back into dating is a pain in the ass.

I see a good looking girl or a good looking girl flirts with me and I think: do I even want to put in the effort? Do I want to take this girl out? Buy dinner ? Take her to a show? So I can talk about books, or movies or music she's never heard of? So I can pretend to listen to her? Fuck no! Then I always find out she's a whore anyway and wouldn't have even had to put in the effort !!! And I don't know which is worse!

It's like a clock was punched 20 years ago when I got married.  My body is still attracted to women 20 years younger than me but my mind is easily my age(50) if not older. I haven't really even talked to another woman in the 20 years I was married and now I'm finding out a lot has changed. And it sounds great, all these 25 year old gym bunnies are whores but it's actually not that great.

A 20 year old would be as annoying as fuck to a 50 year old. You aren't missing out IMO.

[wes]

This....
I'm 60, retired living in the Philippines with a gf that is 28.

I NOW OFFICIALLY HATE YOU !  LOL 

[ProudVirgin69]

Half your age + 7, rounding up, has never failed me as a rule of thumb

[Schadenfreude]

Half your age + 7, rounding up, has never failed me as a rule of thumb

How if you come up with this? It's genius. I feel buyer's regret about marrying someone my age. And I feel like maybe I would cast a bad luck spell on myself if I were to just tell her I'd like to pursue a younger woman

[ProudVirgin69]

How if you come up with this? It's genius. I feel buyer's regret about marrying someone my age. And I feel like maybe I would cast a bad luck spell on myself if I were to just tell her I'd like to pursue a younger woman

Haha thanks, its not my creation but still generally applicable I’ve found.

Anyways - sounds like you’re generally unhappy in your marriage.  Consider seeking talk therapy for yourself, it might help pinpoint what it is you’re really looking for in life.

[Schadenfreude]

Haha thanks, its not my creation but still generally applicable I’ve found.

Anyways - sounds like you’re generally unhappy in your marriage.  Consider seeking talk therapy for yourself, it might help pinpoint what it is you’re really looking for in life.

I want simply glory, and a younger attractive and sophisticated woman is part of the package. I think all things will come in their own time. Right now I must first secure more wealth and pay my dues before glory may come to me.

[Schadenfreude]

I think women are a lot like cars and so the average guy can only afford a banged up piece of garbage right out the gates. So he either takes what he can get or stays without a car for many years until he has established himself properly. The real question for me is how can you be sure you will be able to get something better? I read that nowadays, women don't care about money as much anymore and prefer to be single moms getting railed by chad and tyrone 

[IroNat]

I've questioned my wife on how her sister met her husband in hopes of finding the secret to getting a woman that is genetically leagues ahead of you, not to mention 20+ years younger. For what it is worth, this is the information (could be misinformation  ) I was able to gather. They used to live in the same building and he helped her with some electrical issues, being an electrical engineer he was able to deploy his competencies and assert his status at the opportune occasion. He worked hard and did well for himselves over the past 20-30 years and probably made that obvious to her. He also has a "good sense of humor" (which I personally don't care for) which may have been a good ice breaker. She is very beautiful, elegant and projects an image of refinement, although she was a single mother at the time to a male child, but he accepted him as his own, married her and had twins wih her soon after (his ex wife did not take the news well)

Overall I think a case of "luck equals preparation plus opportunity". Nice. I hope fortune may also favor me in my next marriage, should that day come to pass.

There are your answers.

He was financially secure and willing to take on her child from another man.

Pickings are slim for women with kids.  Most men don't want the problem.

There are lots of single women with kids out there looking for men to marry them.

Bhanky is an example.

[Schadenfreude]

There are your answers.

Man, I didn't fully grasp it until you bolded parts of my own post. You are a sharp guy.
So I have on several occasions tried to understand why the sister is no longer with the father. Unclear answers which seemed like misinformation. I gather that the father of the boy is financially struggling.

[ElPolloSalmonello]

How if you come up with this? It's genius. I feel buyer's regret about marrying someone my age. And I feel like maybe I would cast a bad luck spell on myself if I were to just tell her I'd like to pursue a younger woman

Just tell her you have come to the realization that you are completely shallow and that you both deserve better.

[wes]

Just tell her you have come to the realization that you are completely shallow and that you both deserve better.

....then sleep in your car for a few months!