what's the correlation between competing in a show (especially one in which the competitors are juiced to the gills) and being a man? 
a lot actually................
....it turned me into a man
i grew up a lot
gained a ton of respect for bodybuilders!
it changed me totally
it was the toughest thing i have ever gone thru (and i have been thru a lot,alcohol/drug addiction,deaths of many loved ones)
i grew up fast during my contest prep.....went from a boy to a man
it will change you and change your life
try it.................