when some freak kills/sodomizes/dismembers one of your own, are you going to kiss him on the cheek and then send him a christmas basket each year in the lockup? pathetic!
Venom,
Understand that the man who committed the murders of these little girls is DEAD! He will NEVER feel your anger or your 'venom', ...however, for you to give-in to those feelings, and to express their outward manifestations, they must first develop and be nurtured
within you, and then move through the prism of your soul.
Feeding such negative energy within yourself, is the equivalent of drinking a glass of poison, in hopes that someone else will die. The hatred & animosity must first rise through
YOU before it can be channelled out towards anyone else. And like ALL things in this ever expanding universe, that energy likewise expands, before it ultimately finds it's way back to it's source... the frequency from which it was first generated; ...namely
YOUAttrocious crimes and the immediate feelings they produce are simply the seeds of spiritual destruction looking to take root inside your soul. You're better off not to feed or water those weeds, because in the end, like any other weed, they will rise up and choke out and destroy the good plants in your soul's garden.
When you change the composition of the soil, you affect what plants or weeds may thrive within that soil.
And you should NEVER allow scumbags to gain that much power over you, your life, and the direction of your soul.
You really should try it sometime. All my life I have forgiven those who have wronged me, ...and I can tell you, it truly is very liberating, ...and ironically can often cause more pain, guilt, remorse & conflict for the perpetrator than had you lashed out at them to begin with. The primary beneficiary of forgiveness, is not the perpetrator, but the one doing the forgiving.
Back in 1987 my friend Patrick had both his parents murdered behind their own bar for the lousy $50 that was in the cash register. Patrick showed not only remarkable courage and strength, but also WISDOM in not succumbing to the hate. Hate wasn't going to bring his parents back, but praying for the souls of the men who murdered his parents went an awful long way in his family's healing process.
What amish elders are encouraging, truly is the route to healing, both for themselves as well as for the Roberts family, who, don't forget, are also horrible victims of this tragedy as well. The elders have encouraged Mrs. Roberts to NOT move away from the area, but to remain there, so that they can be a source of support for her and her kids, as the entire community goes through the healing process together. The wisdom and enlightenment they display are testaments to man's higher nature prevailing, and I wish them ALL Godspeed in their healing.