Debussey, I don't think it's that simple. For instance, a baby in the third trimester (for me, anyway) is not the same as a baby just a number of days old - this is a massive grey area, of course.
Some babies must be aborted for medical reasons, I understand this, but I also understand too many are deprived the chance to live because of parents that have their wants placed before the rights of the child. This is the true tragedy.
Debussey senses that you have strong feelings regarding this issue, and that is honorable. Congrats on becoming a father in the near future
Your last paragraph raises another issue: Many of these "unplanned" pregnancies is found among very young or troubled (alcohol, drugs) people. Is it right to force a baby into the world, when the mother will use drugs and alchol in the pregnancy, thereby damaging the baby? Is it OK that a child that is unwanted should be forced into birth and then receiving a very poor upbringing?
Not everybody is responsible people like you seem to be, and unwanted pregnancies often occurs among young or irresponsible people. Is it OK to force a 19 year college kid to conceive a baby when this leads to her not being able to graduate and live the life she chooses? Just because she was a bit young and irresponsible?(as we all were in those days)
Again, Debussey thinks that the individual must be allowed to decide herself. Like camel Jockey said: It is still the mother that carries the burden of an unwanted child as Debussey just wrote. Outside "judgers" never feel this burden when they claim moral superiority. It is like saying: "You should accept who you are" to a person with an ugly nose wanting a cosmetic surgery for it bad. The person getting the surgery might go against certain peoples "morals", but it is his choice and he has to carry the burden of feeling uncomfortable with himself due to the "nose complex".
Think about this: Will society really benefit from a lot of unwanted children? It will really be a burden on society, less people will get educated, and most of these kids will recieve a sup-par upbringing.
1: Religion should never be a deciding factor in this discussion. It should not even be an argument.
2: Individual opinions should never be forced upon the general population.
3: If an abortion becomes a "regulated" procedure, it leaves room for corruption, underground abortion labs, and a theft of personal freedom.