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Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« on: June 24, 2010, 08:07:17 AM »
I recently concluded a debate with one of my PM correspondents and he agreed that we should put this question to a poll.  Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?

He says, yes, people are very different from their getbig persona.  I say, no, what you see is what you get.  People like to imagine that they are one way online (funny, irreverent, extravagant, vain, etc.) and completely different offline (reserved, responsible, parsimonious, humble, etc.)  I don’t think that is the true.  Over time, whether we want to or not, we show our true colors.  I am reminded of two episodes:

• some months ago Methyl Mike revealed that he had delinquent credit card debts that he had no intention of paying, meanwhile in another thread he bragged about how morally conservative he was.  When called on this inconsistency he defensively asserted that he was a model employee and a good credit risk.  
http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=309532.msg4419886#msg4419886
http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=304211.msg4352146#msg4352146

• in a thread with a pic of Alfonso DelRio (at the time few knew his name) Ursus & Captain Equipoise, asserted that Alfonso had a nice every day physique that was easy to maintain "without much gear."  When excoriated with the facts, Ursus revised is earlier opinion and admitted that he was wrong; Captain Equipoise kept his head in the sand never once owning that he was hopelessly deluded.  One man admitted his mistake and moved on... the other went down in flames rather than admit that he was wrong.  Two very different reactions.  I suspect this is exactly how both men proceed through life.
http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=220550.0

Lots of other examples abound...  Do you think people are different from their online (getbig) persona?  http://www.snappoll.com/poll/333950.php

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Re: Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« Reply #1 on: June 24, 2010, 08:23:30 AM »
It's always better to pretend you're something better than what you really are, can make you feel better about yourself in a way I guess. And it's also easier to be funny or to sound cool, you have hours and hours to come up with something funny or smart where in real life everything is immediate. 


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Re: Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« Reply #2 on: June 24, 2010, 08:49:13 AM »
Nope,I'm me 8)

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Re: Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« Reply #4 on: June 24, 2010, 09:24:40 AM »
Im the same

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Re: Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« Reply #5 on: June 24, 2010, 09:28:09 AM »
so, r evolving characterizations out of bounds? not sure you can contain an online persona like u can a potted plant.  lol  i'm the same...

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Re: Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« Reply #6 on: June 24, 2010, 09:29:21 AM »
I'm only interested in guys wearing thongs online.
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Re: Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« Reply #7 on: June 24, 2010, 09:30:44 AM »
I'm only interested in guys wearing thongs online.
thanks for reminding me  :-)   glute shot please  

on the sex board, i'm a different name as well as on the politics board and the ironage board i use different names   

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Re: Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« Reply #8 on: June 24, 2010, 10:33:18 AM »
I'm the same, jovial, thoughtful, spiritual, womanizer

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Re: Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« Reply #9 on: June 24, 2010, 10:33:35 AM »
I am much ruder in person.
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Re: Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« Reply #10 on: June 24, 2010, 10:38:43 AM »
I'm pretty much the wiseass on/offline.

/and my credit is perfect.

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Re: Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« Reply #11 on: June 24, 2010, 10:53:44 AM »
I think it varies, some ppl use the internet to make up a new life...others use it as an extension of what they already are..

I'm pretty much this way in real life, when I chilled with X-factor in Miami he was just as he was here... I can't imagine some tit like AJSFagot or ToxicAvenger getting all in my face and mouthy in person like they try to be on here...
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Re: Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« Reply #12 on: June 24, 2010, 10:54:02 AM »
I find it fairly annoying / inconvenient to not be able to use "LOL" or just a smiley for a reply IRL.

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Re: Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« Reply #13 on: June 24, 2010, 10:57:01 AM »
I would say I am kinda similar to how I am in real life.

Don't pretend to be particularly badass, cool, tough or strong.

Simply because I am not.

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Re: Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« Reply #14 on: June 24, 2010, 11:19:13 AM »
Pretty close.
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Re: Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« Reply #15 on: June 24, 2010, 11:29:10 AM »


im as much of a nice guy in real life as i am an asshole on here.
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Re: Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« Reply #16 on: June 24, 2010, 11:33:33 AM »

im as much of a nice guy in real life as i am an asshole on here.

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Re: Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« Reply #17 on: June 24, 2010, 12:07:35 PM »
In real life I'm much richer and date much hotter models than I claim to here.

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Re: Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« Reply #18 on: June 24, 2010, 12:07:48 PM »
No.

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Re: Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« Reply #19 on: June 24, 2010, 12:10:52 PM »
LOL, I have a funny feeling that many on GB are very different in real life.
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Re: Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« Reply #20 on: June 24, 2010, 12:12:52 PM »
LOL, I have a funny feeling that many on GB are very different in real life.

Less "funny"?

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Re: Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« Reply #21 on: June 24, 2010, 12:16:07 PM »
I am so me.....if you don't like it f**k you! ;)

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Re: Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« Reply #22 on: June 24, 2010, 12:18:23 PM »
you are all different than your GB personas and I have 1344 PM's that prove it....and you are all gay as well and I have 1444 PM's to prove that

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Re: Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« Reply #23 on: June 24, 2010, 12:23:15 PM »
No doubt that many Getbiggers are pussies in real life...If we were all in a room 75% of the people wouldn't say half the shit they say here....I would....I've given my name, city and state, pictures and everything...I don't give a fuck...I am who I am.
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Re: Are you different from your online (getbig) persona?
« Reply #24 on: June 24, 2010, 12:25:50 PM »
in real life my name is Paul Rubens and i hate blacks and gays