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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #25 on: May 25, 2011, 08:05:50 AM »
lol!  How about you people that wait till we are on the phone to start yapping away!


What do you mean "you people"?   >:(






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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #26 on: May 25, 2011, 08:14:44 AM »
the "not talking stuff" im thinking about sounds great...and can apparently be done between commercial breaks.


so....


w8m8, got some free time?

 :-*  luv ya miglet ... between commercial breaks LOL


My understanding is that husbands are perfectly satisfied with only two things: sex and quiet.    :-\

I like quiet .. but I can't always be quiet .. so I reckon it's good I don't have a husband to worry about  :)




lol!  How about you people that wait till we are on the phone to start yapping away!

or talk softly when you're in another room and expect you to hear them while the water is running in the sink and the dog is barking to go out  ::)

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #27 on: May 25, 2011, 06:27:09 PM »
:-*  luv ya miglet ... between commercial breaks LOL


I like quiet .. but I can't always be quiet .. so I reckon it's good I don't have a husband to worry about  :)




or talk softly when you're in another room and expect you to hear them while the water is running in the sink and the dog is barking to go out  ::)

luv ya back

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #28 on: May 26, 2011, 07:51:00 AM »

What do you mean "you people"?   >:(






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or talk softly when you're in another room and expect you to hear them while the water is running in the sink and the dog is barking to go out  ::)

Exactly!
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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #29 on: May 27, 2011, 01:37:20 PM »
I have to take my time...I'm thinking



bump to check for any ideas yet  :)

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #30 on: May 27, 2011, 03:41:02 PM »
bump to check for any ideas yet  :)
Im a man, I have a lot to think about...but one is sprat my car, and keep the toilet seat up, another---keep gas in the lawnmower...all these take less than 270 secs

a note in my lunch, telling me how much I mean to you, or you appreciate me.

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #31 on: May 27, 2011, 07:17:09 PM »
bump to check for any ideas yet  :)

i've got a few

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #32 on: May 27, 2011, 11:32:27 PM »
I love this....it's so romantic. I'm single but when I'm in a relationship I'll be showing the man this little tidbit and doing it myself.

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #33 on: May 28, 2011, 06:42:56 AM »
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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #34 on: May 28, 2011, 08:05:41 AM »
from a piece in Esquire



Morning

First thing, take ninety seconds to give her the greatest good morning possible: "Good morning. I love you." And if she's asleep, you can lower your voice and whisper, "I love you. Have an awesome day." She'll hear you anyway.

After work

Right when you get home, focus on her for a full ninety seconds. If she's happy, you go happy; if she's low, you go low, and make sure you look her in the eyes long enough to discern her eye color. This says, I value you, I need you.

Night

Sometime during the last thirty minutes before bed, take ninety seconds to engage fully with her. Do not talk about children, money, or work. Don't talk about the past at all. Look at her, stroke her hair, snuggle up to her, tell her you love her.

Conclusion

Ninety seconds in the morning, ninety seconds after work (or any time you've been away from her for at least two hours), and ninety seconds at night. That's how you bond. After seven to ten days, the marriage will change.







I think those 270 seconds are very well spent and should be reciprocal  :)

this is dumb.  i used to do all this crap and more as the awesome boyfriend i was.  you know what?.. SHE was the one not doing this crap.  not talk about kids, money, work???  DID SHE EVER TALK ABOUT ANYTHING ELSE??!? lololol
hilarity.  my response to this is that whoever wants to have a good relationship should never, ever stop doing the things or being the way which started off the relationship in the first place.  this trickery of women being or acting awesome for the first 6 months/year and then slacking off and basically turning into a lazy, nagging, sexless creature needs to go.  any couple i know that is still together after any length of time it is usually because they stop that from happening. 

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #35 on: May 28, 2011, 08:06:16 AM »
no offense to w8m8.. just esquire mag  :)

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #36 on: May 31, 2011, 09:52:54 AM »
from a piece in Esquire



Morning

First thing, take ninety seconds to give her the greatest good morning possible: "Good morning. I love you." And if she's asleep, you can lower your voice and whisper, "I love you. Have an awesome day." She'll hear you anyway.

After work

Right when you get home, focus on her for a full ninety seconds. If she's happy, you go happy; if she's low, you go low, and make sure you look her in the eyes long enough to discern her eye color. This says, I value you, I need you.

Night

Sometime during the last thirty minutes before bed, take ninety seconds to engage fully with her. Do not talk about children, money, or work. Don't talk about the past at all. Look at her, stroke her hair, snuggle up to her, tell her you love her.

Conclusion

Ninety seconds in the morning, ninety seconds after work (or any time you've been away from her for at least two hours), and ninety seconds at night. That's how you bond. After seven to ten days, the marriage will change.







I think those 270 seconds are very well spent and should be reciprocal  :)
3 simple things that can really make a person feel good that people lack right there. Nice post W8M8  :)

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #37 on: May 31, 2011, 10:07:37 AM »
3 simple things that can really make a person feel good that people lack right there. Nice post W8M8  :)

 :-* ... a minute and a half .. 3 x a day .. is not much at all .. and if it makes your loved one feel good it should be no biggie

god forbid if something ever happens to someone's mate .. the few minutes that may seem like a pain in the ass now .. would probably be a regret some would wish they could have back


I think about this young guy from American Idol .. and I bet he takes time to look in his girls eyes a lot .. thankful she is still here



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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #38 on: May 31, 2011, 04:29:32 PM »
:-* ... a minute and a half .. 3 x a day .. is not much at all .. and if it makes your loved one feel good it should be no biggie

the few minutes that may seem like a pain in the ass now .. would probably be a regret some would wish they could have back


Am I the only one that thought this sounded naughty?

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #39 on: June 01, 2011, 06:07:16 AM »
Am I the only one that thought this sounded naughty?

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lol...nope....but if W8M8 is involved, then i'm game all the way!  :D

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #40 on: June 01, 2011, 03:17:09 PM »
lol...nope....but if W8M8 is involved, then i'm game all the way!  :D

i'll re-write the time and date this'll go down on the bathroom stall.

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #41 on: June 01, 2011, 03:28:29 PM »
HEY wait a minute ... what is going on some bathroom wall !!

the 90 second looking in eyes stuff would be GREAT !!!

give the men something useful to read while they're sat on the throne  :D

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #42 on: June 01, 2011, 04:17:19 PM »
come here and let me butter your biscuits.

i nedd some romance in my life damnit   :'(

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #43 on: June 02, 2011, 06:27:52 AM »
come here and let me butter your biscuits.

i nedd some romance in my life damnit   :'(

mmmmm bisquits hot out of the oven .. with melting butter ..... yummmmmmmm ... wanna get some breakfast ?  :D

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #44 on: June 02, 2011, 08:32:44 AM »
I just had a wedge of the best damn carrot cake I have ever tasted in my life.... :o

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #45 on: June 02, 2011, 02:09:49 PM »
I just had a wedge of the best damn carrot cake I have ever tasted in my life.... :o

LOVE carrot cake .. and banana bread too !!

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #46 on: June 02, 2011, 02:18:50 PM »
mmmmm bisquits hot out of the oven .. with melting butter ..... yummmmmmmm ... wanna get some breakfast ?  :D

should i whisper in your ear or nudge you?

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #47 on: June 02, 2011, 02:32:16 PM »
should i whisper in your ear or nudge you?

I get up around 4:30 am to get ready for work ... what time do you have breakfast ready ?

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #48 on: June 02, 2011, 05:06:21 PM »
I get up around 4:30 am to get ready for work ... what time do you have breakfast ready ?

4:30!  WTF!


it'll be ready by 5

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Re: 270 seconds to a better marriage / live in relationship
« Reply #49 on: June 03, 2011, 05:11:46 AM »
4:30!  WTF!


it'll be ready by 5

 :-*

I left you a thank you note for the lovely breakfast .. on your night stand .. you were sound asleep and I didn't want to wake you  :-*

Hope you have a GREAT day Miglet !!!  









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