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Had a really good first date with this girl last night. Best one I've had in over 2 years. Broke up with my ex of 1.5 years last October. Been on this single chat line since December and I've had one and after another shitty dates with a string of different girls. So, last night, I went in with an open/positive attitude, but with NO expectations and DAMN son, I was blown the fuck away. We have a lot in common and the chemistry was there. It really felt 2-sided. I was the second guy she met off the site. She said she saw this other guy a few days earlier, but is having a lot more fun with me. She wanted to be honest and you know what? I respected her for it...
Anyway, it was fun, chill and easy going. She even came up to my place at the end of the date, but because I liked her, I made out with her and that was that, confident that there'll be more in the future..
Alright, so I'm here tonight, wondering what you guys think in regards to how long YOU would wait to call her? She is definitely the kind of girl who likes the guy to take the lead and initiate. Having spent 4 hours with her last night, I got that impression. So, the next move has to be from me. I want to see her again. I was thinking of this Wednesday night. Is calling the day of, for that night, too short notice? It's either that, or I call her tomorrow, asking her for Wednesday. Is waiting 2 days too eager?
Anyways, give me your thoughts guys. How long would you wait and how would you ask her out for a second date? Just direct? This girl has quality and gf material written all over her.
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Dan, you are an animal.....here are some GetBig advices for you:
1) a true "danimal" wouldn't have to ask these questions
2) if it was as successful as you think, you would have clinched the second date at the end of the first one
3) 3 days
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don't play the "waiting game" and don't follow "the rules"
call her when you want
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two things
1)never ask for this type of shit on the main board...take it to the female board and get a good answer...
2)why in the hell didnt you ask her out on a 2nd date at the end of your 1st date with her ???
bench
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don't play the "waiting game" and don't follow "the rules"
call her when you want
truth. You're not in high school...there's no X amount of days you wait.
Take charge & call her whenever.
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don't play the "waiting game" and don't follow "the rules"
call her when you want
this too.....your suppose to be a man, act like it!!!
bench
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Make sure she sees the danimal tattoo.
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if youre under 22, you kinda have to play that game to appear aloof and cool.
if you're 23 to 30, you give her a little space, but you follow up quickly.
if you're 31, you know life's too short. you plan date 2 during date 1 and you get on the same page as far as where it's going pretty quick.
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I don't think there is a waiting time? How old was the woman? If she was a mature lady, I am guessing she is going to want a call pretty soon. This isn't high school.
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Also, you should always pack some tipilia in a zip loc in your pocket. if you haven't eaten in 150 minutes, you need to get your protein. Even if you've ordered your food at teh fancy restaurant - you open that ziploc and you eat that warm aquatic vertebrate.
catabolism is no joke - she must respect that.
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two things
1)never ask for this type of shit on the main board...take it to the female board and get a good answer...
bench
LOL, you're a pro on that board. ;D
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I don't think there is a waiting time? How old was the woman? If she was a mature lady, I am guessing she is going to want a call pretty soon. This isn't high school.
She's 27. I'm 32.
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She's 27. I'm 32.
And you're still asking stupid fucking questions like this?
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It is always a worry when a gal is seeing someone else. When you make out easily with her at the end of a fun date you have to conclude she did the same thing with the other guy. If she fancies you then you won't be the last person to know it. If she wasn't seeing someone else you wouldn't be hesitating or asking what to do. The reason you can't call is because you don't want to be disappointed or possibly rejected. Text messages and email are a good substitute for cold feet.
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LOL, you're a pro on that board. ;D
its cause i have stupid problems that answers are easier to accept if a woman tell it to me ;D
bench
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again, Humans are animals and dating is a mating game
no Lion waits around to mate with the woman lion
he may stalk her for a bit but once he knows what he wants he goes for it and gets it
now, i'm not saying to go full retard but use your animal instinct and get what you want (while using some tact)
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again, Humans are animals and dating is a mating game
no Lion waits around to mate with the woman lion
he may stalk her for a bit but once he knows what he wants he goes for it and gets it
now, i'm not saying to go full retard but use your animal instinct and get what you want (while using some tact)
danimal doesnt seem to have those instincts.....i honestly wouldnt trust the girl in question......
.....and never go full retard!!!
bench
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It is always a worry when a gal is seeing someone else. When you make out easily with her at the end of a fun date you have to conclude she did the same thing with the other guy. If she fancies you then you won't be the last person to know it. If she wasn't seeing someone else you wouldn't be hesitating or asking what to do. The reason you can't call is because you don't want to be disappointed or possibly rejected. Text messages and email are a good substitute for cold feet.
You hit the nail on the head Vince. It's knowing that she went on a date with someone else 4 days before our date, that has made me a little apprehensive. Competition never bothered me, but the actual knowledge of it, making me a bit more weary and hesitating, (as you put it) when I normally wouldn't be doing so.
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If a woman is into you, you can call her the next day, she'll go out for sure.
If she's not, no amount of "waiting" to call/text, will make any difference.
It's not desperate to call her the next day. Better hit, before someone else does.
Lastly, I suggest in putting in minimal effort. These fools who jump through hoops for pussy, only perpetuate the high maintenance type. At the end of the day, a pussy is a pussy. Chances are, you're not banging a 9, so why hassle yourself with it.
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danimal doesnt seem to have those instincts.....i honestly wouldnt trust the girl in question......
.....and never go full retard!!!
bench
Why wouldn't you trust her bench? I met her on a single chat line. She was honest about having been on another date. Can't knock her for that. If she would have kept it from me, then sure, not trusting her would be my thoughts too.
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danimal doesnt seem to have those instincts.....i honestly wouldnt trust the girl in question......
.....and never go full retard!!!
bench
exactly,
never go full retard
fact in this matter is this-
to the threadstarter,
what's the worst that can happen? the girl won't like you anymore and not want another date? so what
you lose one girl and another one comes into your life
life is a revolving door of women
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If a woman is into you, you can call her the next day, she'll go out for sure.
If she's not, no amount of "waiting" to call/text, will make any difference.
It's not desperate to call her the next day. Better hit, before someone else does.
Lastly, I suggest in putting in minimal effort. These fools who jump through hoops for pussy, only perpetuate the high maintenance type. At the end of the day, a pussy is a pussy. Chances are, you're not banging a 9, so why hassle yourself with it.
Yeah, I'm going to call her tomorrow and ask her out for Wednesday. The entire date went great. It was just the last minute that went awkward. She was getting in her car and she said that was great (our date) sort of in a rushed manner. Nothing was established from there. Again, I believe she wanted me to step up to the plate and seal the deal for the next date. I'll do it tomorrow.
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exactly,
never go full retard
fact in this matter is this-
to the threadstarter,
what's the worst that can happen? the girl won't like you anymore and not want another date? so what
you lose one girl and another one comes into your life
life is a revolving door of women
I think she'll see me again. What sucks is I was in a car accident. My car was a total loss. It was a vintage Nissan 300zx Twin Turbo and for the time being I'm carless, so, she picked me up with her car. Didn't seem to bother her, but I'm not liking relying on the woman to drive me/us around.
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Why wouldn't you trust her bench? I met her on a single chat line. She was honest about having been on another date. Can't knock her for that. If she would have kept it from me, then sure, not trusting her would be my thoughts too.
but what impression did she give that guy on the date 4 days before you?....does she still talk to him?...trust me if she gave you a answer it was only to make the date go smoother.....are you just the next guy in line?
she is in her early 30's and with multiple guys a week, not saying she is sleeping with them or anything....but she is putting herself out there for a reason.....and you as of yet dont know what that reason is......
she is power dating off of a social networking site.......dont get too wrapped up in this
bench
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I think she'll see me again. What sucks is I was in a car accident. My car was a total loss. It was a vintage Nissan 300zx Twin Turbo and for the time being I'm carless, so, she picked me up with her car. Didn't seem to bother her, but I'm not liking relying on the woman to drive me/us around.
Worst case scenario, she declines, you're nailing a $40 whore Friday night.
Either way Dan wins.
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she is in her early 30's
bench
She's 27. I'm 32.
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shes already seeing/doing other guys.
its always up to the girl, all she has to do is sit there and let as many suitors as she wants line up before her, then all she has to do is look at the lineup and say 'hmmmm...i think ill take THAT one!' and she gets whatever she wants.
therefore the only way to be sure is to take out all the other guys.
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but what impression did she give that guy on the date 4 days before you?....does she still talk to him?...trust me if she gave you a answer it was only to make the date go smoother.....are you just the next guy in line?
she is in her early 30's and with multiple guys a week, not saying she is sleeping with them or anything....but she is putting herself out there for a reason.....and you as of yet dont know what that reason is......
she is power dating off of a social networking site.......dont get too wrapped up in this
bench
Bench, that's really over generalizing and man. She's 27. I'm the one in my early 30's. I asked her how the "site" is treating her. She said there are some creeps and some nice people. I asked her in a joking manner if I popped her cherry. She said no, I had a date last Wednesday with a guy (took her to a hockey game). I saw her on Sunday.. I cracked my knuckles and in a joking and cocky manner, I said: "competition huh, just the way I like it" ;). She said she had fun with him, but is having more fun with me. You have to understand, a good looking girl, will be bombarded by guys sending her dozens of emails a day. Personally, I think she's on there to find a boyfriend. That's my impression. I met my ex on a site like that. When we got serious, she pulled her ass of the site and became exclusive to me. This girl may see the other guy again. She may not. I have no idea and have no control over that at this early stage. She's entitled, but that being said, if it comes down to her juggling both of us, I'm not playing that game. Ultimatum and then I'm gone.
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shes already seeing/doing other guys.
its always up to the girl, all she has to do is sit there and let as many suitors as she wants line up before her, then all she has to do is look at the lineup and say 'hmmmm...i think ill take THAT one!' and she gets whatever she wants.
therefore the only way to be sure is to take out all the other guys.
And what's YOUR strategy in accomplishing that task?
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Funny John Matrix, but oh so true.
DAnimal, what effs it up is that we as men overthink shit. You can't overthink a hunt. You have your weapons, a plan, now you have the prey. Enact plan, shoot prey, prey is killed, enjoy prey. It's that simple. Don't worry about the next man, because the next man ain't the n###a with the plan.
Don't overthink it, just Nike and you got it. I used to and sometimes still do, overthink and talk myself out of getting with a chick, running scenarios thru my head, that gets you nowhere and alone.
Call her up, small talk, and set it up...be nonchallant, like you got your spare Ferrari in the shop.
Have faith, and the second, third, and fourth date is yours...
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Worst case scenario, she declines, you're nailing a $40 whore Friday night.
Either way Dan wins.
Dan wins if he escapes that Friday night STD free ;)
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Funny John Matrix, but oh so true.
DAnimal, what effs it up is that we as men overthink shit. You can't overthink a hunt. You have your weapons, a plan, now you have the prey. Enact plan, shoot prey, prey is killed, enjoy prey. It's that simple. Don't worry about the next man, because the next man ain't the n###a with the plan.
Don't overthink it, just Nike and you got it. I used to and sometimes still do, overthink and talk myself out of getting with a chick, running scenarios thru my head, that gets you nowhere and alone.
Call her up, small talk, and set it up...be nonchallant, like you got your spare Ferrari in the shop.
Have faith, and the second, third, and fourth date is yours...
It really is that simple though, isn't it? Why the fuck do we complicate it so damn much?
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Whenever i feel like it.
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two things
1)never ask for this type of shit on the main board...take it to the female board and get a good answer...
2)why in the hell didnt you ask her out on a 2nd date at the end of your 1st date with her ???
bench
Quoted for truth.
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Had a really good first date with this girl last night. Best one I've had in over 2 years. Broke up with my ex of 1.5 years last October. Been on this single chat line since December and I've had one and after another shitty dates with a string of different girls. So, last night, I went in with an open/positive attitude, but with NO expectations and DAMN son, I was blown the fuck away. We have a lot in common and the chemistry was there. It really felt 2-sided. I was the second guy she met off the site. She said she saw this other guy a few days earlier, but is having a lot more fun with me. She wanted to be honest and you know what? I respected her for it...
Anyway, it was fun, chill and easy going. She even came up to my place at the end of the date, but because I liked her, I made out with her and that was that, confident that there'll be more in the future..
Alright, so I'm here tonight, wondering what you guys think in regards to how long YOU would wait to call her? She is definitely the kind of girl who likes the guy to take the lead and initiate. Having spent 4 hours with her last night, I got that impression. So, the next move has to be from me. I want to see her again. I was thinking of this Wednesday night. Is calling the day of, for that night, too short notice? It's either that, or I call her tomorrow, asking her for Wednesday. Is waiting 2 days too eager?
Anyways, give me your thoughts guys. How long would you wait and how would you ask her out for a second date? Just direct? This girl has quality and gf material written all over her.
By your age, you don’t count the number of days to wait before calling a girl after a date.
You don’t worry about making yourself appear “too available” or eager.
And, FFS, don’t call to ask her out 3 hours ahead of time!
Show her some courtesy & consideration.
If she’s mature & serious, she’ll respect that, and - more importantly - YOU.
IMO - you should have just called her today, told her thanks and that you had a great time with her last night.
Then you could’ve said something along the lines of, “Hey, how about I call you sometime Thursday, and if you‘ve got some time over the weekend, maybe we can meet up again."
This avoids putting her on the spot.
If she does like you, at least she’ll know you’re interested in her & she won’t write you off and make other plans.
If she’s not into you, she’ll have time to make a decent excuse as to why she can’t make it.
And, an excuse is not automatically a rejection - sometimes, shit happens that cannot be helped.
If she truly regrets the missed date, she’ll propose some type of solution - like another time.
If she expresses no regret or attempts no compromise, fukkit…
Time to move on.
Whatever you do, just don't let her string you along.
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Bench, that's really over generalizing and man. She's 27. I'm the one in my early 30's. I asked her how the "site" is treating her. She said there are some creeps and some nice people. I asked her in a joking manner if I popped her cherry. She said no, I had a date last Wednesday with a guy (took her to a hockey game). I saw her on Sunday.. I cracked my knuckles and in a joking and cocky manner, I said: "competition huh, just the way I like it" ;). She said she had fun with him, but is having more fun with me. You have to understand, a good looking girl, will be bombarded by guys sending her dozens of emails a day. Personally, I think she's on there to find a boyfriend. That's my impression. I met my ex on a site like that. When we got serious, she pulled her ass of the site and became exclusive to me. This girl may see the other guy again. She may not. I have no idea and have no control over that at this early stage. She's entitled, but that being said, if it comes down to her juggling both of us, I'm not playing that game. Ultimatum and then I'm gone.
i am just saying dont get wrapped up in it........the fact that she would pick you up would also kinda bother me.....sound kinda like desperation on her behalf....i dont know a lot of women that would go pick up people they met on the internet cause he doesnt have a car...
not this thread, but in others you seem like a guy who gets into this shit to fast, and always gets fucked....just watch out...
bench
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two things
1)never ask for this type of shit on the main board...take it to the female board and get a good answer...
2)why in the hell didnt you ask her out on a 2nd date at the end of your 1st date with her ???
bench
Trying to play hard to get :D
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Trying to play hard to get :D
he should have asked her on the second date a long time ago......he is a grown man, and men arent suppose to play games...
bench
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Sounds like a whore imho.
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By your age, you don’t count the number of days to wait before calling a girl after a date.
You don’t worry about making yourself appear “too available” or eager.
And, FFS, don’t call to ask her out 3 hours ahead of time!
Show her some courtesy & consideration.
If she’s mature & serious, she’ll respect that, and - more importantly - YOU.
IMO - you should have just called her today, told her thanks and that you had a great time with her last night.
Then you could’ve said something along the lines of, “Hey, how about I call you sometime Thursday, and if you‘ve got some time over the weekend, maybe we can meet up again."
This avoids putting her on the spot.
If she does like you, at least she’ll know you’re interested in her & she won’t write you off and make other plans.
If she’s not into you, she’ll have time to make a decent excuse as to why she can’t make it.
And, an excuse is not automatically a rejection - sometimes, shit happens that cannot be helped.
If she truly regrets the missed date, she’ll propose some type of solution - like another time.
If she expresses no regret or attempts no compromise, fukkit…
Time to move on.
Whatever you do, just don't let her string you along.
I'm going to call her tomorrow. She's an elementary school teacher and she teaches at a school that is coincidentally in my backyard (almost). Anyway, I'll call her in a light and fun manner tomorrow. I may get the machine. I'll propose Wednesday. If she comes back with an "I can't", "I have plans", I'll let her propose an alternate date. If she doesn't, then, I'll say that's cool and I'll let her know I'll be in touch. I think if she likes me and IS free Wednesday, she'll accept. If she likes me and legitimately has plans on Wednesday, she'll suggest an alternate day. If she doesn't, she's not into me and I'll know.
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he should have asked her on the second date a long time ago......he is a grown man, and men arent suppose to play games...
bench
sure?
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i am just saying dont get wrapped up in it........the fact that she would pick you up would also kinda bother me.....sound kinda like desperation on her behalf....i dont know a lot of women that would go pick up people they met on the internet cause he doesnt have a car...
not this thread, but in others you seem like a guy who gets into this shit to fast, and always gets fucked....just watch out...
bench
She didn't strike me as desperate, but you know man, there are a lot of desperate girls out there and in 2010, women want to be equals, so if she has no problem with picking me up (I obviously got the check), then that's okay. We did speak prior to our date, so something in how I spoke made her trust me. Who knows.
Not looking to rush this, but when there's chemistry, it's kind of like a boost of adrenaline. Especially when what came before was complete and utter shit.
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sure?
Easy there big guy.
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By your age, you don’t count the number of days to wait before calling a girl after a date.
You don’t worry about making yourself appear “too available” or eager.
And, FFS, don’t call to ask her out 3 hours ahead of time!
Show her some courtesy & consideration.
If she’s mature & serious, she’ll respect that, and - more importantly - YOU.
IMO - you should have just called her today, told her thanks and that you had a great time with her last night.
Then you could’ve said something along the lines of, “Hey, how about I call you sometime Thursday, and if you‘ve got some time over the weekend, maybe we can meet up again."
This avoids putting her on the spot.
If she does like you, at least she’ll know you’re interested in her & she won’t write you off and make other plans.
If she’s not into you, she’ll have time to make a decent excuse as to why she can’t make it.
And, an excuse is not automatically a rejection - sometimes, shit happens that cannot be helped.
If she truly regrets the missed date, she’ll propose some type of solution - like another time.
If she expresses no regret or attempts no compromise, fukkit…
Time to move on.
Whatever you do, just don't let her string you along.
I going to have to respectfully disagree, here.
Women don't want what they can have too easily. That's what happens when you make yourself too available. It also gives the negative impression that you have nothing else going on. Call her later in the week and say, "Sorry, I meant to call you sooner, but I've been really busy."
Put her on the spot. Don't give her an out. That's how you'll find out if she's into you. If she's not, in the words Thin Lizzy lead singer Phil Lynott, "If the chick don't wanna know, forget her."
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I going to have to respectfully disagree, here.
Women don't want what they can have too easily. That's what happens when you make yourself too available. It also gives the negative impression that you have nothing else going on. Call her later in the week and say, "Sorry, I meant to call you sooner, but I've been really busy."
Put her on the spot. Don't give her an out. That's how you'll find out if she's into you. If she's not, in the words Thin Lizzy lead singer Phil Lynott, "If the chick don't wanna know, forget her."
The boys are definitely back in town ;).
I agree in not seeming too eager. It's not a turn on for either of the sex's imo. We seem to want what we can't have, or at least want what we think we might not be able to have very easily. It makes us a. want to put in more effort (try harder) and b. appreciate it a hell of a lot more.
Not sure if I'll be apologizing for not having called her sooner, seeing nothing at all was established as to whether or not I'd be calling her. I'm shooting to ask her out for Wednesday. Will probably get in touch with her tomorrow FOR Wednesday. Again, if she can't, she better propose an alternate date. If not, well, then at least I know where I'll stand with her.
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Easy there big guy.
yeah, you right that was uncalled for. peace my getbig brother.
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yeah, you right that was uncalled for. peace my getbig brother.
It's cool.
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I going to have to respectfully disagree, here.
Women don't want what they can have too easily. That's what happens when you make yourself too available. It also gives the negative impression that you have nothing else going on. Call her later in the week and say, "Sorry, I meant to call you sooner, but I've been really busy."
Put her on the spot. Don't give her an out. That's how you'll find out if she's into you. If she's not, in the words Thin Lizzy lead singer Phil Lynott, "If the chick don't wanna know, forget her."
Rule # 1 right here- NEVER SAY YOU ARE SORRY TO A FEMALE. EVER!!!! Good lord are we educating a 15 year old here? Never ever ever say you are sorry directly. The word is hereby stricken from OP's vocabulary.
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two things
1)never ask for this type of shit on the main board...take it to the female board and get a good answer...
2)why in the hell didnt you ask her out on a 2nd date at the end of your 1st date with her ???
bench
This...always set up a concrete date, phone call, etc, before ending the first date.
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Also, you should always pack some tipilia in a zip loc in your pocket. if you haven't eaten in 150 minutes, you need to get your protein. Even if you've ordered your food at teh fancy restaurant - you open that ziploc and you eat that warm aquatic vertebrate.
catabolism is no joke - she must respect that.
LOL this is awesome.
Animal ads are so ridiculous. Epic 2 inch cot pad reminiscent of jail.
(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=331060.0;attach=371933;image)
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Animal Pack ads are the best thing ever. All of the deeper esoteric truths of life, can be condensed, and found in an Animal Pack ad. :)
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When you want to... a few days.
Less than a week.
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also be sure to mention to her that you post on Getbig, that is usually enough to get their panties soaked.
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Danimal,
Just dont play the games. Call her when you want, but don't hound her to death (not saying you are or were). If you call more than twice with no return phone call, blah to her. I'll admit I didn't read all the posts in this thread. Until you and her (if your still talking and seeing each other) decide to be "relationship" status. See other women. Don't throw all your eggs in one basket, because your back to dating now.
I wouldn't put to much weight into her picking you up, if she knows you just lost your car. However, make sure your "picking up the tab", not because you should, but basically to show your not a scumbag, IMO. Now, here is the tester. If or when you do take her out for grub, I'm hoping she offers to throw in some money. Some women, don't feel a man should always pay. I for one don't think its fair a man should always pay, but at least the genuine offer should be there.
Good Luck
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UPDATE***
So, as mentioned, she's an elementary school teacher and their hours are strange. She starts work at 7:42am. They have breaks at 10:47am... You get the idea. Anyway, on our date, we kind of joked around about those weird times. So, this morning, not to disturb her while she's working, I sent her a text, saying: "10:42 and someone's thinking of you. Guess who? ;)"
She responds within half an hour, with a " :), just had a class at 10:47 and am going into another one soon. Have a good afternoon". So, I found it a bit odd that she didn't ask me how I am, or how my day is going. It seemed more of a closed response, versus an open one. I dismissed that thought and went in for the kill. I replied back saying, hey, I'll be working from home tomorrow. I'd like to see you. Would you like to do something? She replies back saying, "I actually have plans tomorrow evening. It would have to be in the afternoon. What did you have in mind? We may be able to figure something out."
So, of course I'm thinking that she's seeing the same guy she saw last Wednesday night again this Wednesday night. Maybe not, but maybe she is. Then I'm thinking of her reply seems more business like. I said I'd like to see her. No response back that she'd like to see me too. Anyways, should I be content with seeing her in the afternoon? She didn't brush me off, which is good. I want to see her, so should I be accepting? She also asked me what I had in mind? What I had in mind was dinner and a movie. Seeing her in the afternoon changes that.
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UPDATE***
So, as mentioned, she's an elementary school teacher and their hours are strange. She starts work at 7:42am. They have breaks at 10:47am... You get the idea. Anyway, on our date, we kind of joked around about those weird times. So, this morning, not to disturb her while she's working, I sent her a text, saying: "10:42 and someone's thinking of you. Guess who? ;)"
She responds within half an hour, with a " :), just had a class at 10:47 and am going into another one soon. Have a good afternoon". So, I found it a bit odd that she didn't ask me how I am, or how my day is going. It seemed more of a closed response, versus an open one. I dismissed that thought and went in for the kill. I replied back saying, hey, I'll be working from home tomorrow. I'd like to see you. Would you like to do something? She replies back saying, "I actually have plans tomorrow evening. It would have to be in the afternoon. What did you have in mind? We may be able to figure something out."
So, of course I'm thinking that she's seeing the same guy she saw last Wednesday night again this Wednesday night. Maybe not, but maybe she is. Then I'm thinking of her reply seems more business like. I said I'd like to see her. No response back that she'd like to see me too. Anyways, should I be content with seeing her in the afternoon? She didn't brush me off, which is good. I want to see her, so should I be accepting? She also asked me what I had in mind? What I had in mind was dinner and a movie. Seeing her in the afternoon changes that.
Well she is at work, maybe just making quick responses that may seem closed (don't know the girl). I would see her in the afternoon, see how it goes. I wouldn't yet ask her if she is seeing anyone (because you have only had one date). Try and see what kind of vibes she is throwing. Ask her out for dinner on this afternoon date. If she makes more excuses, FUCK THAT, cut her off.
The text you sent at 10:42 was very sweet. Id like to think most women would eat that up but yet think in the back of their mind, hmmm what's his alterior motive. I would of said awwwwww thank you.
Again, be yourself, SHE may be the one playing the game of MAKING HIM chase or the other, playing hard to get card. We all know women do it, have I, yes I USED to, now I just through all the cards on the table and I dont mean strip poker
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Well she is at work, maybe just making quick responses that may seem closed (don't know the girl). I would see her in the afternoon, see how it goes. I wouldn't yet ask her if she is seeing anyone (because you have only had one date). Try and see what kind of vibes she is throwing. Ask her out for dinner on this afternoon date. If she makes more excuses, FUCK THAT, cut her off.
The text you sent at 10:42 was very sweet. Id like to think most women would eat that up but yet think in the back of their mind, hmmm what's his alterior motive. I would of said awwwwww thank you.
Again, be yourself, SHE may be the one playing the game of MAKING HIM chase or the other, playing hard to get card. We all know women do it, have I, yes I USED to, now I just through all the cards on the table and I dont mean strip poker
So, take into account, I was thinking evening date with her tomorrow. She can't. She suggests afternoon (probably 3 or 4pm, seeing it's an elementary school). She asks me what I had in mind. Find that strange, seeing I had evening plans in mind. Late afternoon plans are different. We can't do dinner together, etc, so what do I reply to her question, because I have no clue what to do at that time of the day. If she were my gf, SURE, but this technically would be only a second date. Maybe an ice cream and another walk in the park if weather permits? Remember, I'm carless for the moment, so I can't take her for a drive.. My only concern with accepting this date, is that am I not working within her time frame?
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If the date was "so successful", you wouldn't have to call ;D
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I say fuck it Danimal. Who goes on a date in the afternoon?
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don't play the "waiting game" and don't follow "the rules"
call her when you want
Exactly, the 3 day thing is for 20 year olds
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If you want dating advice then this is not the board to ask. PM me if you want a link.
Dude, with all due respect, people talk about their jobs, about politics, religion, punching dogs in the face, returning their microwaves, etc..... So fucking what if I take a moment to discuss this shit. Been on here for 4 years and contribute my share of bodybuilding related stuff. If you don't like this thread, then skip it brother.
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So, take into account, I was thinking evening date with her tomorrow. She can't. She suggests afternoon (probably 3 or 4pm, seeing it's an elementary school). She asks me what I had in mind. Find that strange, seeing I had evening plans in mind. Late afternoon plans are different. We can't do dinner together, etc, so what do I reply to her question, because I have no clue what to do at that time of the day. If she were my gf, SURE, but this technically would be only a second date. Maybe an ice cream and another walk in the park if weather permits? Remember, I'm carless for the moment, so I can't take her for a drive.. My only concern with accepting this date, is that am I not working within her time frame?
Dont worry about the car thing, honestly. Perhaps if its 4pm, a nice coffee somewhere outside, if weather permits. Or an early dinner. I know its not your ideal setting, but go with the flow. It seems your into this lady, which is great, but heed my advice, DONT LET HER KNOW THIS or make it obvious. Be yourself though, which is a tad of a back peddle I know.
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I say fuck it Danimal. Who goes on a date in the afternoon?
Well, look, she has plans and clearly she didn't blow me off. She could have proposed another day. She stuck with tomorrow and is offering a time she isn't busy. We can make the best of it and if it goes well, I can seal a "real" evening date with her for the weekend this time. I don't think this is terrible. Not crazy about her business like responses. Was hoping for more TLC in them, or at least mirror what I put out. I think it's pretty stupid, or even arrogant though of her to have mentioned to me about having had a date with another guy last Wednesday and then go on and tell me today she has plans tomorrow night. Most people would automatically assume she's going on another date... Again, she's entitled. I'll accept and for tomorrow. NOT going to give her an immediate response though. I wasn't too impressed with her replies. "I'll say sure, maybe we'll do ice cream."
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Au fuck no you didn't "10:42 and someone's thinking of you. Guess who? " Really ??? Oh well. Yes she has plans, you make your plans earlier in the day, blow her away and make sure she doesn't make her night plans. If she spends the entire afternoon checking her watch, her phone, texting or taking long bathroom breaks then you know she has something she's cooking on the side. You don't want to seem needy or jealous. The true way to keep her is to not get too needy. be the man.
Take her up on the afternoon date. Don't worry about the texting. A lot of people don't like texting or writing long messages. Especially at work. Being a teacher she has to be careful. what if one of the students saw a racy text message? She would be fired. She is at work, being professional. That is not a bad thing.
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Dont worry about the car thing, honestly. Perhaps if its 4pm, a nice coffee somewhere outside, if weather permits. Or an early dinner. I know its not your ideal setting, but go with the flow. It seems your into this lady, which is great, but heed my advice, DONT LET HER KNOW THIS or make it obvious. Be yourself though, which is a tad of a back peddle I know.
Yeah, but isn't it a bit obvious that I'm into her, by having told her that someone's thinking of her and that I'd like to see her tomorrow? She knows. She may be flattered INSIDE, but she sure didn't reciprocate the sentiment in her 2 texts.
Don't think I'll suggest dinner, seeing that's exactly what she may be doing tomorrow night with whomever she has plans with. I'll text her back in a couple of hours, saying "sure, afternoon works. Maybe we'll do ice cream (weather permitting)". Again, was looking for more of an enthused response. I'd understand if I called her, but this is a text where she can say or do anything. No one is monitoring them.
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Au fuck no you didn't "10:42 and someone's thinking of you. Guess who? " Really ??? Oh well. Yes she has plans, you make your plans earlier in the day, blow her away and make sure she doesn't make her night plans. If she spends the entire afternoon checking her watch, her phone, texting or taking long bathroom breaks then you know she has something she's cooking on the side. You don't want to seem needy or jealous. The true way to keep her is to not get too needy. be the man.
Take her up on the afternoon date. Don't worry about the texting. A lot of people don't like texting or writing long messages. Especially at work. Being a teacher she has to be careful. what if one of the students saw a racy text message? She would be fired. She is at work, being professional. That is not a bad thing.
Sound advice brother. I'll take her up on it. As said, I'll respond in an hour or two. Let her wait a bit. I'm proposing we do ice cream. Reason being, her nickname on the site I met her on is "Berry Vanilla". So, I'll say let's try and go hunt down some Berry Vanilla ice cream tomorrow ;).
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Yeah, but isn't it a bit obvious that I'm into her, by having told her that someone's thinking of her and that I'd like to see her tomorrow? She knows. She may be flattered INSIDE, but she sure didn't reciprocate the sentiment in her 2 texts.
Don't think I'll suggest dinner, seeing that's exactly what she may be doing tomorrow night with whomever she has plans with. I'll text her back in a couple of hours, saying "sure, afternoon works. Maybe we'll do ice cream (weather permitting)". Again, was looking for more of an enthused response. I'd understand if I called her, but this is a text where she can say or do anything. No one is monitoring them.
Dude she's at work and this is all done through text messaging. Nothing romantic about texting. You need to hear her voice to know how she feels.
Especially if she is already dating someone. She is probably all confused now.
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Well, look, she has plans and clearly she didn't blow me off. She could have proposed another day. She stuck with tomorrow and is offering a time she isn't busy. We can make the best of it and if it goes well, I can seal a "real" evening date with her for the weekend this time. I don't think this is terrible. Not crazy about her business like responses. Was hoping for more TLC in them, or at least mirror what I put out. I think it's pretty stupid, or even arrogant though of her to have mentioned to me about having had a date with another guy last Wednesday and then go on and tell me today she has plans tomorrow night. Most people would automatically assume she's going on another date... Again, she's entitled. I'll accept and for tomorrow. NOT going to give her an immediate response though. I wasn't too impressed with her replies. "I'll say sure, maybe we'll do ice cream."
Why bother posting this thread if you're just going to get all defensive when anyone gives you advice? You don't want to go on some worthless afternoon "date", you want to take her out in the evening. So ask to take her out in the evening. Don't waste your time with this 4:00-in-the-afternoon shit, and don't settle for being someone's afternoon ice cream date so she can go carouse with some other dude in the evening.
You are investing waaaaaaaaaay to much emotion on a bitch you don't know.
QFT
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Relax man, all was saying is that there are better places for this. I wasn't saying delete your thread. Epic nonsense meltdown, when I was actually trying to help. :-\
If you can't see, I'm getting a TON of sound advice. Appreciate the looking out for me though brother ;).
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Yeah, but isn't it a bit obvious that I'm into her, by having told her that someone's thinking of her and that I'd like to see her tomorrow? She knows. She may be flattered INSIDE, but she sure didn't reciprocate the sentiment in her 2 texts.
Don't think I'll suggest dinner, seeing that's exactly what she may be doing tomorrow night with whomever she has plans with. I'll text her back in a couple of hours, saying "sure, afternoon works. Maybe we'll do ice cream (weather permitting)". Again, was looking for more of an enthused response. I'd understand if I called her, but this is a text where she can say or do anything. No one is monitoring them.
I agree it is obvious, but dont want to put words in your mouth. Again I thought it was a very sweet message. Id like to think some of women folk would love that, I know I would. Ask her out to dinner either this weekend or next. But can I let you in on a secret. Dont jump when she says (example) cant do dinner tonight but what about this afternoon, tell her you have plans. See if she is into you just as much. I agree noone is monitoring them, but like I said, she may not have the time for a longer message, so dont perceive it as being a closed message either.
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You are investing waaaaaaaaaay to much emotion on a bitch you don't know. Who gives a shit if she didn't respond this or that way, maybe she doens't like texting? Maybe she thought you were a pussy for not calling? Maybe she thought were creepy to send "Im thinking about you" texts after one date?
Shes going on several dates, you on the other hand are acting like she's all that after one date?. You should go on several dates and not just settle for the first and best thing.
My 2 cents. Take it or leave it.
I didn't call her out of respect, seeing she is at work. Been going on several dates since December. Actually, several is an understatement....haha. She impressed me. What can I say? All my long relationships (1-3 years) started out like this. Then again, dating sites weren't really that popular then, as they are now. Women didn't have dozens of men daily emailing them back in the day. They got too many options today. Anyway, back on topic.
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I agree it is obvious, but dont want to put words in your mouth. Again I thought it was a very sweet message. Id like to think some of women folk would love that, I know I would. Ask her out to dinner either this weekend or next. But can I let you in on a secret. Dont jump when she says (example) cant do dinner tonight but what about this afternoon, tell her you have plans. See if she is into you just as much. I agree noone is monitoring them, but like I said, she may not have the time for a longer message, so dont perceive it as being a closed message either.
Good point. Let her know the afternoon is no good for you and pick another night. be firm and have plans. Don't just say what are you doing this Friday. Tell her "I want to take you to ______ this Friday at 7:00" Be affirmative. If she brushes you off again then you know something is up.
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her response 'Have a good afternoon'
that worries me. that's what you say to a peer, not a dude she wants to get with.
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Why bother posting this thread if you're just going to get all defensive when anyone gives you advice? You don't want to go on some worthless afternoon "date", you want to take her out in the evening. So ask to take her out in the evening. Don't waste your time with this 4:00-in-the-afternoon shit, and don't settle for being someone's afternoon ice cream date so she can go carouse with some other dude in the evening.
QFT
I don't know if the afternoon date has to be worthless persay. She could have just said she's busy, maybe another day. We don't know if she has a date tomorrow night. It's speculation. If I'm coming across as defensive to certain posters, is because I'm getting a "fuck that" response. Trying to stay in a positive frame of mind.
I love you guys ;D
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Good point.
see Im good for some things around here huh
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I don't know if the afternoon date has to be worthless persay. She could have just said she's busy, maybe another day. We don't know if she has a date tomorrow night. It's speculation. If I'm coming across as defensive to certain posters, is because I'm getting a "fuck that" response. Trying to stay in a positive frame of mind.
I love you guys ;D
Danimal I for one dont think your coming off in a defensive way. Your just asking for opinions and insight.
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Danimal I for one dont think your coming off in a defensive way. Your just asking for opinions and insight.
Thanks Newmom,
So just to clarify, you think it's cool if I accept her afternoon proposal for tomorrow, but obviously don't make this a habit with her, working around her schedule? I think the fact that I'm waiting a few hours to respond to her question about tomorrow afternoon, by look like I'm looking over my schedule to see if I can work it out. Maybe I can even write back saying, yeah, I think I can squeeze you tomorrow afternoon for an ice cream.
What do you think of that line?
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Thanks Newmom,
So just to clarify, you think it's cool if I accept her afternoon proposal for tomorrow, but obviously don't make this a habit with her, working around her schedule? I think the fact that I'm waiting a few hours to respond to her question about tomorrow afternoon, by look like I'm looking over my schedule to see if I can work it out. Maybe I can even write back saying, yeah, I think I can squeeze you tomorrow afternoon for an ice cream.
What do you think of that line?
Sure its cool. No dont make it a habit, remember everything is 50/50 even if starting out, its setting the tone. Don't say squeeze, kind of dick like behavior IMO. Just say hey, tommorow afternoon works or tommorow afternoon works after all.
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her response 'Have a good afternoon'
that worries me. that's what you say to a peer, not a dude she wants to get with.
Dude, that made me feel the exact same way. What also worries me is that maybe her "afternoon" proposal is so that she can keep things on more of a "friendly" basis with me. I don't know. When a guy says they'd like to see you and you don't mirror that sentiment back his way AT ALL, well, not impressed by that. Just saying. She could be totally different in person with me.
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Dude, that made me feel the exact same way. What also worries me is that maybe her "afternoon" proposal is so that she can keep things on more of a "friendly" basis with me. I don't know. When a guy says they'd like to see you and you don't mirror that sentiment back his way AT ALL, well, not impressed by that. Just saying. She could be totally different in person with me.
You went one 1 date. Take it easy bro. She may like you but is worried of coming on too strong. She may not want to scare you away.
Please don't use the line "squeeze you in". That sounds arrogant and rude. Just say that.
"That works for me. I'll pick you up at 4:00. Let's grab a drink (ice cream is too teeny bopper) and talk, walk by the lake, beach whatever."
Then see how she feels. On your talk be genuine. Tell her that you had a great first date. it was refreshing, that your last few dates have been disasters. Thank her for joining you this afternoon and that you'd like to have a real date and then give her your plan. Don't ask her, just say this is what I want to do next. Be assertive.
Don't give up hope over one text message. On your afternoon date you'll be able to figure out if she does like you or not. She just might be a slow mover, has shit going on in her life (imagine that!) and wants to take things slow.
Just make sure you don't leave her to the friend zone. That is why you need to tell her about how you liked that first date and want more dates, that you clicked. Be a man, don't gush your feelings but let her know you are a serious man.
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I thought it was a very sweet message.
Ok, you're really bad at this! ;D Please stand clear while we get this guy laid!
"10:42 and someone's thinking of you, guess who?" BAARRRF!
If this question (thread title) was on your mind, you should have texted her point blank 3 seconds after she left the driveway, "How long should a guy wait to call a girl after a great first date?"
From your current position you should let 'er rip. Seriously. You seem to be nervous and second guessing yourself bigtime, resulting in some sort of bizarre, 1950's, hands over the eyes, guess who cutesy monster nonsense, which I'm sure you're not. Go meet up and don't be the guy you think she would like. Be you and she'll like it. Or not. Whatever.
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regardless of the situation....we need to see her spread eagle pics stat!!!
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regardless of the situation....we need to see her spread eagle pics stat!!!
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good god you testosterone lunk heads..
Whats the big deal, he likes the girl. Something about her. Give him a break
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good god you testosterone lunk heads..
Whats the big deal, he likes the girl. Something about her. Give him a break
when i am bored....i usually have a debate inside my head on wether to eat, or to just jerk off........its 50/50 on what i choose :D
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and if one of you post.."woman, kitchen now" its not gonna be pretty CAPEESH
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and if one of you post.."woman, kitchen now" its not gonna be pretty CAPEESH
When are you going to post pics? I have about 5 free minutes that I need to kill. :P
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good god you testosterone lunk heads..
Whats the big deal, he likes the girl. Something about her. Give him a break
Exactly. If he is looking forward to seeing her, say so. Wtf is he a latex salesman, "Hmmm lets see, yes that suits my busy schedule." Jesus!
"Well, I'd prefer to grab you for a full evening but I'll sweeten you up with an ice cream at 4 and see what I can talk you into. See you under the giant plastic cone then? (I'll be the good looking guy in the plaid jacket.)"
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and if one of you post.."woman, kitchen now" its not gonna be pretty CAPEESH
i would never say that....cause women cant cook for shit, they are much more usefull at cleaning house, and having babies :D
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i would never say that....cause women cant cook for shit, they are much more usefull at cleaning house, and having babies :D
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oh go eat a gummy bear..you did tell me once to get in the kitchen, and trust me I can cook..so STFU :-*
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oh go eat a gummy bear..you did tell me once to get in the kitchen, and trust me I can cook..so STFU :-*
sure you can ;)
women being good cooks is just one of those positive stereotypes.....kinda like Asians are good at math, and really smart.....but they really aren't ;D
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sure you can ;)
women being good cooks is just one of those positive stereotypes.....kinda like Asians are good at math, and really smart.....but they really aren't ;D
bench
really ask calvin how many canollis he scarfed down that I made for him Saturday..DICKMUNCH :-*
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When are you going to post pics? I have about 5 free minutes that I need to kill. :P
HELLO are you new here (lmao, kidding) they have been posted, the good, the bad and the ugly
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Fuckin' Cyrano de Bergerac, over here.
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Fuckin' Cyrano de Bergerac, over here.
omg LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, my tummy hurts after seeing your post. Brilliant and well played
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Oh man, you were relegated to an afternoon date! No good! If your last date was at night, and she wants to get together in the afternoon, that is not a good sign! :( :(
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omg LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, my tummy hurts after seeing your post. Brilliant and well played
(http://image.guardian.co.uk/sys-images/Arts/Arts_/Pictures/2007/11/13/SteveMartin460new.jpg)
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Oh man, you were relegated to an afternoon date! No good! If your last date was at night, and she wants to get together in the afternoon, that is not a good sign! :( :(
I've fucked many bitches on afternoon dates. Weddings, pool parties, beach get togethers, picnics etc.... Hot afternoon sex trumps boring night sex.
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two things
1)never ask for this type of shit on the main board...take it to the female board and get a good answer...
2)why in the hell didnt you ask her out on a 2nd date at the end of your 1st date with her ???
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I agree it is obvious, but dont want to put words in your mouth. Again I thought it was a very sweet message. Id like to think some of women folk would love that, I know I would. Ask her out to dinner either this weekend or next. But can I let you in on a secret. Dont jump when she says (example) cant do dinner tonight but what about this afternoon, tell her you have plans. See if she is into you just as much. I agree noone is monitoring them, but like I said, she may not have the time for a longer message, so dont perceive it as being a closed message either.
This.
You should have "business" to attend to during the afternoon. I wouldn't miss a workout even, from the response you got. Politely brush aside the afternoon suggestion and propose Friday night. If she ain't going out with YOU on Friday, she IS going out with SOMEONE.
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from what ive read its already looking bad danimal.
chances are shes already got some other 'exciting' dude in her mind already that shes giddily making plans with...then she gets a 'nice guy' little text from you... and shes thinking of a way to still be nice to you and let you down easy.
may as well go ahead and get it over with and buy a window-less white van and start hanging out with vince basile.
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Well, it's done. We're seeing each other tomorrow at 3:00pm. I'm going to take her for a walk on the mountain (weather permitting). I'll plan a nice little make-out on the mountain and maybe even throw her down on the ground (in a playful way) and get her nice clothes all dirty..haha...
I've made plans to meet a female friend of mine for dinner and a movie tomorrow night. So, when she offers to drive me home, I'll thank her, but will let her know I have some place to go. If she asks, I'll tell her the truth, that I'm meeting someone for dinner. I'll also tell her I'd like to see her this weekend (IF things are going well) and ask her out for either Friday, or Saturday night. I'll do it properly this time around. Thanks guys and New Mom ;).
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I've fucked many bitches on afternoon dates. Weddings, pool parties, beach get togethers, picnics etc.... Hot afternoon sex trumps boring night sex.
Weddings and picnics................P lease elaborate :D :D
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regardless of the situation....we need to see her spread eagle pics stat!!!
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Alright, I'll post a pic TOMORROW night ;)
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when i am bored....i usually have a debate inside my head on wether to eat, or to just jerk off........its 50/50 on what i choose :D
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haha, Nice one. You forgot, post on getbig.
Alright, I'll post a pic TOMORROW night Wink
Just tell her you need to get a shot to post on getbig, when she asks, "What is getbig?" You'll have a wide open avenue to impress her with how you post on an "exclusive" internet forum where everyone is at least 220lbs of lean mass, rich, and has everything in life figured out.
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Good luck Danimal. I think you are in danger of entering the Friend Zone by accepting this date, so tread carefully.
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Good luck Danimal. I think you are in danger of entering the Friend Zone by accepting this date, so tread carefully.
bench
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bench..not nice
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haha, Nice one. You forgot, post on getbig.Just tell her you need to get a shot to post on getbig, when she asks, "What is getbig?" You'll have a wide open avenue to impress her with how you post on an "exclusive" internet forum where everyone is at least 220lbs of lean mass, rich, and has everything in life figured out.
wait you mean Getbig isn't like that
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congrats danimal
however, i want to reiterate a point for everyone on here:
stop playing by "the rules"
call a girl you like whenever you want
remember ALL girls, no matter how "hot" or how "average" they are, are easy come, easy go. So, if you fuck up with a girl, another one is always on the way
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congrats danimal
however, i want to reiterate a point for everyone on here:
stop playing by "the rules"
call a girl you like whenever you want
remember ALL girls, no matter how "hot" or how "average" they are, are easy come, easy go. So, if you fuck up with a girl, another one is always on the way
Go to her door, call her fomthat spot. If she says, " I'm busy", ring the doorbell, if she says "I'm available", ring the doorbell.
As soon as she opens the door, put a bag over head, and fluffy hancuffs, tell her some sweet nothings...gauranteed you will make a impression---a lasting one. End of story
Or you can do it JNN's way, if you do it my way, you will have something to tell the grandkids, while you are in jail
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Good luck Danimal. I think you are in danger of entering the Friend Zone by accepting this date, so tread carefully.
Thanks bro. Not worried about being pegged into the friend zone. There was sexual chemistry on Sunday. I will be continuing along that path with her, even if I have to do it in public in broad daylight. I'll make it known that we're NOT just friends, through body language. The name Danimal was given to me by a girl in the Outer Banks after I fucked the shit out of her on the beach ;)... Sure, I'm a decade older now, but hell, I've recently shed 35 pounds. She won't be able to handle this man 8)
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Go to her door, call her fomthat spot. If she says, " I'm busy", ring the doorbell, if she says "I'm available", ring the doorbell.
As soon as she opens the door, put a bag over head, and fluffy hancuffs, tell her some sweet nothings...gauranteed you will make a impression---a lasting one. End of story
Or you can do it JNN's way, if you do it my way, you will have something to tell the grandkids, while you are in jail
either way , it is all "right" there is no "wrong"
remember when you got the "unlimited lives" cheat on your favorite video games and you did whatever you wanted to do cuz you knew you would live forever in the game?
well, apply that theory to dating
like i said, all girls (including hot ones) are easy come, easy go so why not do whatever you want when you date (within in certain reason that is). If you "fuck up", don't worry- another girl will be on the way
am i crazy for thin\king this way?
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either way , it is all "right" there is no "wrong"
remember when you got the "unlimited lives" cheat on your favorite video games and you did whatever you wanted to do cuz you knew you would live forever in the game?
well, apply that theory to dating
like i said, all girls (including hot ones) are easy come, easy go so why not do whatever you want when you date (within in certain reason that is). If you "fuck up", don't worry- another girl will be on the way
am i crazy for thin\king this way?
Nope, not crazy, just pragmatic. Fundamentally today's man, overthinks things. But we needed to learn about women (meeting them) we learned in third grade-- Do the opposite of what they want us to do. Pretend you are not that interested, therefore they must must work to gain our interest. And when in doubt, play with your Transformers-a man who is having fun on his own, is more attractive than a man looking for someone to have fun with.
Now, if only i can follow what I just wrote...
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either way , it is all "right" there is no "wrong"
remember when you got the "unlimited lives" cheat on your favorite video games and you did whatever you wanted to do cuz you knew you would live forever in the game?
well, apply that theory to dating
like i said, all girls (including hot ones) are easy come, easy go so why not do whatever you want when you date (within in certain reason that is). If you "fuck up", don't worry- another girl will be on the way
am i crazy for thin\king this way?
No you're not... I hooked up with a girl yesterday when I was buying clothes.. never seen her before ever, and we went for ONE drink, I'm gonna go to her place tomorrow :P, so you're right
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bench..not nice
admit it....you laughed a little ;D
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admit it....you laughed a little ;D
bench
no I didn't. Its not funny to me, the r word.
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cool- I'm not crazy
like I said, if a girl doesn't like you, so what- another one is on the way
so, if another "one" is on the way then why not be bold- call a bitch a day after you get her number, tell her how sexy she is on the first date, whatever
however, use some tact...not so much you are afraid of rejection but because you want to be somewhat suave
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cool- I'm not crazy
like I said, if a girl doesn't like you, so what- another one is on the way
so, if another "one" is on the way then why not be bold- call a bitch a day after you get her number, tell her how sexy she is on the first date, whatever
however, use some tact...not so much you are afraid of rejection but because you want to be somewhat suave
I allways compliment the girls, allways... it's just not avoidable. However I've made a mistake sometimes that makes the girl talk sex because she assumes I'm a sex addict (in a positive way) so we talk sex all day.... and... what's the point having sex when you allready know "how good it is", it's like; "Yeah you say uuh, I say uuh and then we'll search eachothers underwear, big deal". not that sex is the most important thing in the world, or even 7th most important...
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I allways compliment the girls, allways... it's just not avoidable. However I've made a mistake sometimes that makes the girl talk sex because she assumes I'm a sex addict (in a positive way) so we talk sex all day.... and... what's the point having sex when you allready know "how good it is", it's like; "Yeah you say uuh, I say uuh and then we'll search eachothers underwear, big deal". not that sex is the most important thing in the world, or even 7th most important...
cool but fact of the matter is you can do whatever you want
listen, guys- i'm looking to start a "Fight Club-like" revolution when it comes to how men approach/mate with women
stop playing by the rules and do whatever you want- TAKE BACK YOUR DICK GODDAMMIT
"do whatever you want" within reason and with tact, that is. I'm not saying that you should spit in a girl's face and use that as a opening line. I just want men to stop with the "formalities"....don't be afraid to be bold
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cool but fact of the matter is you can do whatever you want
listen, guys- i'm looking to start a "Fight Club-like" revolution when it comes to how men approach/mate with women
stop playing by the rules and do whatever you want- TAKE BACK YOUR DICK GODDAMMIT
this is true... dipends what you want rly... but it's easyer to be yourself and go by your desires.
Go with the black dynamite/don fry style, combine the two and you have anything, but most of all, you will have your dignity and your own world.
Secondly... why is there a thread about this? ;D
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Secondly... why is there a thread about this? ;D
exactly
no disrespect to the threadstarter. It is absolutely normal for most men to play by "the rules". Hell, we were taught our whole lives to play by the rules in everything so why wouldn't that extend to how we date.
but eventually you will find out that if you have enough self confidence and swagger you can play without "the rules"
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Just call her whenever you want.
If she reject you because of it, totaly no worth to be with her.
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exactly
no disrespect to the threadstarter. It is absolutely normal for most men to play by "the rules". Hell, we were taught our whole lives to play by the rules in everything so why wouldn't that extend to how we date.
but eventually you will find out that if you have enough self confidence and swagger you can play without "the rules"
men are subjects, women are objects,
men get laid, women get screwed,
end thread ;D
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men are subjects, women are objects,
men get laid, women get screwed,
end thread ;D
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... I disagree... women aren't sluts just because they spread their legs to gazillion men... they are sluts allready by trying to look their best to make men want to put their slong inside them ;D,
seriously, don't tell me you're one of these dudes who think like that ::)
women should be encouraged to be more "slutty" in my oppinion
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don't play the "waiting game" and don't follow "the rules"
call her when you want
Didn't read the whole thread .... JNN has it right here
If it's mutual she will be happy to hear from you.
Did you give the the "had a really good time" text a little while after she left?
That's what pimps do
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I agree with JNN & DS.
Also I try not to think of women as whores if they have had sex with many guys. I try to reframe it in my head and think "If they are not sleeping with many men, they are prudes." When you think of their endless options it makes sense.
Western men are used to not being the first at the door, we just don't how many have wiped their feet.
As I said before, would you pay full price for a 2010 Mercedes SL550 that had 100K on the clock? No, you would not. Chicks who sleep around invariably have tons of issues, and their self esteem is tied to their "mileage". DS is 19, but once he sees the same girls at 28-33, and they are high mileage chicks, he will see, the "don't buy, walk away quicky signs".
Dealing with these women is odd, yet predictable, they want a square who will solve all their problems, take care of their baggage and their out of wedlock kids, pay for their therapy bills, while in their youth, they wanted the guy who wanted to test drive the hell out of them.
Men, by nature, every 75 days produce new sperm, women have a set number of eggs...its set that way, because women must be selective in who they have kids with, whereas men, are suppose to sow their oats
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Didn't read the whole thread .... JNN has it right here
If it's mutual she will be happy to hear from you.
Did you give the the "had a really good time" text a little while after she left?
That's what pimps do
the fact that you agree with what i said confirms its validity
btw, i need to back track on my "easy come, easy go" theory.
i don't want guys to become modern day "bezerkers".
Be bold but don't be stupid
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the fact that you agree with what i said confirms its validity
btw, i need to back track on my "easy come, easy go" theory.
i don't want guys to become modern day "bezerkers".
Be bold but don't be stupid
You have it figured out JNN.
PS i went to a club in Scottsdale called the "W' that you would have cleaned up at...all very thin,very stylish, very pretty people parading around with "fuck you....but please look at me" expressions on their face ;D ;D
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Western men are used to not being the first at the door, we just don't how many have wiped their feet.
As I said before, would you pay full price for a 2010 Mercedes SL550 that had 100K on the clock? No, you would not. Chicks who sleep around invariably have tons of issues, and their self esteem is tied to their "mileage". DS is 19, but once he sees the same girls at 28-33, and they are high mileage chicks, he will see, the "don't buy, walk away quicky signs".
Dealing with these women is odd, yet predictable, they want a square who will solve all their problems, take care of their baggage and their out of wedlock kids, pay for their therapy bills, while in their youth, they wanted the guy who wanted to test drive the hell out of them.
Men, by nature, every 75 days produce new sperm, women have a set number of eggs...its set that way, because women must be selective in who they have kids with, whereas men, are suppose to sow their oats
You're right...
but trust me, I'm not gonna fall inlove too quickly anymore... tomorrow I'm gonna go to this girls place I just hooked up with, she seems very intelligent and I feel like I can talk anything with her and act however I want, we joked alot and talked about everything and we felt rly passionate... but...
I won't buy it... it's gonna collapse... I have a bit of a cold heart... after sex I have allways felt kinda akward... even the girl's are good looking.
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PS i went to a club in Scottsdale called the "W' that you would have cleaned up at...all very thin,very stylish, very pretty people parading around with "fuck you....but please look at me" expressions on their face ;D ;D
that club sounds like a dream (after you deal with all the stuck up people that is)
in a situation like that, I wouldn't put the pussy on the pedestal and just, simply, talk to girls. Like everything with women, you have to be bold but you have to feel out the situations.
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You're right...
but trust me, I'm not gonna fall inlove too quickly anymore... tomorrow I'm gonna go to this girls place I just hooked up with, she seems very intelligent and I feel like I can talk anything with her and act however I want, we joked alot and talked about everything and we felt rly passionate... but...
I won't buy it... it's gonna collapse... I have a bit of a cold heart... after sex I have allways felt kinda akward... even the girl's are good looking.
That's natural. After you blow one, the "quest" is over, you realize that hell, I don't really like this chick, I only wanted sex. You see, our society is quick fix central, or instant gratification is the must, the norm. SO we go from one endorphin rise to the next,a nd what happens is that their is a emptiness, or coldness. You used the situation for the endorphin rise, now you are looking for the next one, and the next, but you in essence don't really want that actual person, you want what they provide...
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If the date is a success she will be making you breakfast in the morning and won't need to call
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That's natural. After you blow one, the "quest" is over, you realize that hell, I don't really like this chick, I only anted sexYou see, our society is quick fix central, or instant gratification is the must, the norm. SO we go from one endorphin rise to the next,a nd what happens is that their is a emptiness, or coldness. You used the situation for the endorphin rise, now you are looking for the next one, and the next, but you in essence don't really want that actual person, you want they provide...
like charlie sheen said "i dont pay them for sex. i pay them to leave after sex"... ;D
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that club sounds like a dream (after you deal with all the stuck up people that is)
in a situation like that, I wouldn't put the pussy on the pedestal and just, simply, talk to girls. Like everything with women, you have to be bold but you have to feel out the situations.
I was there with my GF...but yup, that's what i do...just open your fucking mouth..what's the worst that can happen?
PS I was by far the biggest dude in there...one of the bouncers laughed and asked me if i wanted a job
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Nothing beats the new pussy feeling though.
the new pussy taste is better sometimes....
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PS I was by far the biggest dude in there...one of the bouncers laughed and asked me if i wanted a job
i'm not asskissing but i'm willing to bet you always get that
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That's natural. After you blow one, the "quest" is over, you realize that hell, I don't really like this chick, I only anted sexYou see, our society is quick fix central, or instant gratification is the must, the norm. SO we go from one endorphin rise to the next,a nd what happens is that their is a emptiness, or coldness. You used the situation for the endorphin rise, now you are looking for the next one, and the next, but you in essence don't really want that actual person, you want they provide...
true true, sometimes the sex lasts for days but... you know....
I've had a one year love relationship with a 9 years older woman, she even has 2 kids and we were rly spiritually bond, also with the kids, hence it was rly special that a "waaay tooo young dude" has such a deep and motional relationship with a woman who has prety much seen it all... i have never met a person that is such a mirror reflect of my self, we loved each other very much but.... it's in the past... and it's rly good it is
anyhuu.... I looooove sex... alot... I love it... but having sex with the same girl you don't like, as you said, is not rly worth it, and you just don't see her hot anymore.
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the new pussy taste is better sometimes....
bench
Taste, feel, touch...I wish that thir could be a "new pussy" experience that one could experience in VR, or before one goes to work. ON DEMAND.
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Nothing beats the new pussy feeling though.
Unless it's a wide one.
I was there with my GF...but yup, that's what i do...just open your fucking mouth..what's the worst that can happen?
PS I was by far the biggest dude in there...one of the bouncers laughed and asked me if i wanted a job
I guess all the drug use finally paid off. Nothing like getting praise from club bouncers.
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Here's my take... if I am ever single again... I KNOW how i'll be handling this shit.
You go and pick her up for the date.
You know the voice and casual demeanor you'd use to ask the girl to use her bathroom? "Hey, you mind if I use your bathroom real quick"?
Well, you use that same casual mode and ask her "Hey, do you want to suck my dick before we go out? I'd love to take the edge off". Then just look at her with the pregnant pause.
At that very moment, you will know if she's your kind of girl. If she smiles, says "what the hell" and drops to her knees, then you're about to have the best date ever. If she laughs and declines and still gets her coat for the date, then you know she'll be sucking it later. If she gets offended or tells you to leave, then you save the $ you would have spent on the date.
So that's my advice. START every date by receiving a BJ. Offer to return the favor if she needs to take that edge off. I think a lot of girls would see your honesty and motherfoooking confidence and be impressed.
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Just call her whenever you want.
If she reject you because of it, totaly no worth to be with her.
x2, except I would say it in English.
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HA HA HA HA HA HA HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Best reply ever
PS Croatch i am a lifetime natty.....unlike you
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Here's my take... if I am ever single again... I KNOW how i'll be handling this shit.
You go and pick her up for the date.
You know the voice and casual demeanor you'd use to ask the girl to use her bathroom? "Hey, you mind if I use your bathroom real quick"?
Well, you use that same casual mode and ask her "Hey, do you want to suck my dick before we go out? I'd love to take the edge off". Then just look at her with the pregnant pause.
At that very moment, you will know if she's your kind of girl. If she smiles, says "what the hell" and drops to her knees, then you're about to have the best date ever. If she laughs and declines and still gets her coat for the date, then you know she'll be sucking it later. If she gets offended or tells you to leave, then you save the $ you would have spent on the date.
So that's my advice. START every date by receiving a BJ. Offer to return the favor if she needs to take that edge off. I think a lot of girls would see your honesty and motherfoooking confidence and be impressed.
Sounds good. When is your dating book coming out? Funny thing is, you're probably right here. A girl knows pretty quick if she wants your dick or not. Nothing you say will really improve your standing.
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HA HA HA HA HA HA HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Best reply ever
PS Croatch i am a lifetime natty.....unlike you
Impressive. I stand corrected.
9x out of 10, that comment works. :D
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sometimes the sex lasts for days but... you know....
I've had a one year love relationship with a 9 years older woman, she even has 2 kids and we were rly spiritually bond, also with the kids, hence it was rly special that a "waaay tooo young dude" has such a deep and motional relationship with a woman who has prety much seen it all... i have never met a person that is such a mirror reflect of my self, we loved each other very much but.... it's in the past... and it's rly good it is :P :P :P
anyhuu.... I looooove sex... alot... I love it... but having sex with the same girl you don't like, as you said, is not rly worth it, and you just don't see her hot anymore.
Eff That! Right now at 33, I would NOT date a woman with two kids, maybe one, and the kid has to be little. Because a woman is looking for a husband to pawn off her kids...because the "test driver" knew better, he's on to another model.
But, that good that you had that experience. Often i kick myself for not having a relationship with this woman i worked with with who had a lil one. I was 23, and she was bangin woman, just bangin, she was my age as well. And we always gave each other the eye, until she actually brought lil man to work, that scared me away.
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Here's my take... if I am ever single again... I KNOW how i'll be handling this shit.
You go and pick her up for the date.
You know the voice and casual demeanor you'd use to ask the girl to use her bathroom? "Hey, you mind if I use your bathroom real quick"?
Well, you use that same casual mode and ask her "Hey, do you want to suck my dick before we go out? I'd love to take the edge off". Then just look at her with the pregnant pause.
At that very moment, you will know if she's your kind of girl. If she smiles, says "what the hell" and drops to her knees, then you're about to have the best date ever. If she laughs and declines and still gets her coat for the date, then you know she'll be sucking it later. If she gets offended or tells you to leave, then you save the $ you would have spent on the date.
So that's my advice. START every date by receiving a BJ. Offer to return the favor if she needs to take that edge off. I think a lot of girls would see your honesty and motherfoooking confidence and be impressed.
This is a very exciting theory!
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Eff That! Right now at 33, I would NOT date a woman with two kids, maybe one, and the kid has to be little. Because a woman is looking for a husband to pawn off her kids...because the "test driver" knew better, he's on to another model.
But, that good that you had that experience. Often i kick myself for not having a relationship with this woman i worked with with who had a lil one. I was 23, and she was bangin woman, just bangin, she was my age as well. And we always gave each other the eye, until she actually brought lil man to work, that scared me away.
I say no thanks to that, as well. We got it, you got fucked without a rubber, I'm not impressed or really want to hear about that kid all the time. :-*
When will these women get it, take it in the butt. It may hurt, but will certainly save you 20 years of going back and forth arguing over child payments.
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"Sounds good. When is your dating book coming out? Funny thing is, you're probably right here. A girl knows pretty quick if she wants your dick or not. Nothing you say will really improve your standing."
I think it would immediately take the poon off the pedestal. She's an equal at that point. She has the ability to say no... at which point she risks letting the boldest, most confident man she's ever met walk right out of her apartment. She might just do it out of shock. She might love a guy who takes charge - most girls do.
So that's my theory. life's too short. If I"m single again, I will try this on the first 20 girls I date, and I'll report the findings to getbig. We'll see if it works.
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Eff That! Right now at 33, I would NOT date a woman with two kids, maybe one, and the kid has to be little. Because a woman is looking for a husband to pawn off her kids...because the "test driver" knew better, he's on to another model.
But, that good that you had that experience. Often i kick myself for not having a relationship with this woman i worked with with who had a lil one. I was 23, and she was bangin woman, just bangin, she was my age as well. And we always gave each other the eye, until she actually brought lil man to work, that scared me away.
yeah well.... we reaaaally loved eachother... the kids weren't a problem for me at all.... ofocurse I didn't see them in first 4-5 weeks but then... and then it was like a one happy family we were together constantly so no problem...
but it's in the past... when you fall inlove you don't care... you're blind. And it's kind of an illusion because you think your partner is this godly being...
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Epic wanting to be single again, haha.
Brutal only a fool gets married :)
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You could test-drive this theory on Mrs. 240.
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lol...
Q: Why does a woman smile as she walks down the aisle at her wedding?
A: She knows she has given her last blowjob.
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Epic wanting to be single again, haha.
Brutal only a fool gets married :)
i'll drink to that 8)
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Dating when kids are involved is a whole nother ballgame....it gets tricky real fast.
In my case that goes both ways because I have a kid too. what happens more often tban not is the woman im dating gets jealous of my daughter, because i make it very clear that they are number 2 on the food chain.l
They say they "respect that you are a good father" but once they realize that you really are and it wasnt just lip service, they start whining they never see you
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If the date is a success she will be making you breakfast in the morning and won't need to call
BECAUSE I liked her, I wasn't angling for her to sleep over. Taking my time at this man.
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BECAUSE I liked her, I wasn't angling for her to sleep over. Taking my time at this man.
good for you danimal
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good for you danimal
Thanks New Mom..
Looks like my thread has been hijacked by a bunch of big talkers. Real men don't need to talk. They just act.
Kind of puts this all into perspective for me...
New Mom and Mesomorph have been the most helpful in this thread. All these so called big time players are just trying to impress and outdo each on here. In the real world if you tell a chick to suck your dick before the date begins, it's just....hahaha...Anyways, no comment.
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Thanks New Mom..
Looks like my thread has been hijacked by a bunch of big talkers. Real men don't need to talk. They just act.
Kind of puts this all into perspective for me...
New Mom and Mesomorph have been the most helpful in this thread. All these so called big time players are just trying to impress and outdo each on here. In the real world if you tell a chick to such your dick before the date begins, it's just....hahaha...Anyways, no comment.
I really hope it goes well, and hopefully she can see you seem like a nice guy
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I really hope it goes well, and hopefully she can see you seem like a nice guy
which is why it will never work ;D
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which is why it will never work ;D
bench
dont piss me off again
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I really hope it goes well, and hopefully she can see you seem like a nice guy
I wonder at what point during our short afternoon outing I should bring up wanting to take her out on an "official" second date? If it's going well, I wonder if it will be too much too soon to ask her out for this weekend? If this were a real proper date, I wouldn't be asking this question. Also, should the subject of what she's doing and who she's doing it with later on that night be brought up at all?
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which is why it will never work ;D
bench
Yeah, you're right. I've never gotten a woman in my life. I'm not in your league bro.
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Yeah, you're right. I've never gotten a woman in my life. I'm not in your league bro.
settle down tiger....its only the internet 8)
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the important thing is when do finally get in her drawers, you have to give her a thourogh boning...if you don't "brings the ruckus" as my main man Leon says, you are toast....if you are saddled with a small penis this can be tough
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the important thing is when do finally get in her drawers, you have to give her a thourogh boning...if you don't "brings the ruckus" as my main man Leon says, you are toast....if you are saddled with a small penis this can be tough
this is true....he might have to become proficient in "fisting"...
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settle down tiger....its only the internet 8)
bench
go eat a gummy bear
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this is true....he might have to become proficient in "fisting"...
bench
::) ::) ::) ::) ::) ::) to you and Groink
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should the subject of what she's doing and who she's doing it with later on that night be brought up at all?
Ask yourself what you gain by knowing this information. Anything? I would say no. If she's like "oh I've got a date" which is likely the case, you're just going to fret about it. Or she'll make up some bullshit and you'll go in circles trying to analyze it. Why stress yourself? Just enjoy your get-together, and hopefully plan your own date.
Does it bother you that she's dating other people? I generally don't bother with girls that aren't into me enough to immediately make me their top choice.
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Thanks Newmom.....im in asshole mode today
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go eat a gummy bear
i am eating them as i type this!!!
actually i am eating gummy hamburgers.....
http://www.retrocandyonline.com/gummiburgers.html
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Thanks Newmom.....im in asshole mode today
good cuz im in raging bitch mode right now
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I've never gotten a woman in my life.
^That’s believable.
How long would you wait and how would you ask her out for a second date? Just direct?
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I like a woman with a little backbone...makes for spirited boning sessions
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I like a woman with a little backbone...makes for spirited boning sessions
Any more shots of your current lady, Groink?
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I like a woman with a little backbone...makes for spirited boning sessions
now that is true
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Any more shots of your current lady, Groink?
agreed...
face down, ass up if you could....
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Wait until she calls you.
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nope....she aint stupid....she said "the only reason you want naked pics of me is to show your stupid friends on that dumb site" She's got a point.
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nope....she aint stupid....she said "the only reason you want naked pics of me is to show your stupid friends on that dumb site" She's got a point.
Smart lady
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nope....she aint stupid....she said "the only reason you want naked pics of me is to show your stupid friends on that dumb site" She's got a point.
Got any more pics of that long hair big titty chick in the dress? Or a repost?
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nope....she aint stupid....she said "the only reason you want naked pics of me is to show your stupid friends on that dumb site" She's got a point.
Eh, if she will not let you take pics of her.. there are problems.
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Ask yourself what you gain by knowing this information. Anything? I would say no. If she's like "oh I've got a date" which is likely the case, you're just going to fret about it. Or she'll make up some bullshit and you'll go in circles trying to analyze it. Why stress yourself? Just enjoy your get-together, and hopefully plan your own date.
Does it bother you that she's dating other people? I generally don't bother with girls that aren't into me enough to immediately make me their top choice.
Does it bother me she's dating other people? Well, I met her on a single chat line, designed for that very purpose. We've had a total of one date. Do I expect her to be the virgin mary until she knows that I'm the one for her? Fact of the matter is, I could have asked her out when I was with her on Sunday night. I didn't and so someone else did. Dude, she could have blown me off entirely for tomorrow. I think have a good standing chance with this chick if I play my cards right.
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Yes....because all women are obligated to let their man show naked pics of them to the world LOLOL
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nope....she aint stupid....she said "the only reason you want naked pics of me is to show your stupid friends on that dumb site" She's got a point.
did you tell her they were for benchmstr.....she might understand if you mention my name.....im kind of a big deal 8)
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i'm not even telling her i know you dude....i'm not stupid
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i'm not even telling her i know you dude....i'm not stupid
hahahaha.....i love lamp....
bench
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benchmaster has many leather-bound books.
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benchmaster has many leather-bound books.
and my apartment smells of rich mahogany........"i want to be on you" ;D
bench
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Serious reply to Danimal...it sounds like you are putting this girl on a pedestal already bro....i'm not a "game player" and think you need to be an asshole, but you do need to remember that she is just a girl you like at this point
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Had a really good first date with this girl last night. Best one I've had in over 2 years. Broke up with my ex of 1.5 years last October. Been on this single chat line since December and I've had one and after another shitty dates with a string of different girls. So, last night, I went in with an open/positive attitude, but with NO expectations and DAMN son, I was blown the fuck away. We have a lot in common and the chemistry was there. It really felt 2-sided. I was the second guy she met off the site. She said she saw this other guy a few days earlier, but is having a lot more fun with me. She wanted to be honest and you know what? I respected her for it...
Anyway, it was fun, chill and easy going. She even came up to my place at the end of the date, but because I liked her, I made out with her and that was that, confident that there'll be more in the future..
Alright, so I'm here tonight, wondering what you guys think in regards to how long YOU would wait to call her? She is definitely the kind of girl who likes the guy to take the lead and initiate. Having spent 4 hours with her last night, I got that impression. So, the next move has to be from me. I want to see her again. I was thinking of this Wednesday night. Is calling the day of, for that night, too short notice? It's either that, or I call her tomorrow, asking her for Wednesday. Is waiting 2 days too eager?
Anyways, give me your thoughts guys. How long would you wait and how would you ask her out for a second date? Just direct? This girl has quality and gf material written all over her.
sounds like she is a player, she laid some game down on you who sounds desperate, and you ate it all up. Fuck her before she moves on to the next guy and don't take her too seriously.
jt
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Serious reply to Danimal...it sounds like you are putting this girl on a pedestal already bro....i'm not a "game player" and think you need to be an asshole, but you do need to remember that she is just a girl you like at this point
Exactly
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I eagerly await an update tomorrow 8)
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Serious reply to Danimal...it sounds like you are putting this girl on a pedestal already bro....i'm not a "game player" and think you need to be an asshole, but you do need to remember that she is just a girl you like at this point
I agree with you man. when I was with her on Sunday night, I was busting on her and was a cool cat. How can I put this? I saw something in her (even in the short amount of time we spent together) that I haven't seen in all the women I've gone on dates with since December combined. That is why I am taking this shit a little more seriously.
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good for you dude....seriously.
Just be cool, don't act like a douche and you should be good. A woman, especially a quality woman who gets plenty of offers, can smell desperation a mile away....and desperation is pussy repellant
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I agree with you man. when I was with her on Sunday night, I was busting on her and was a cool cat. How can I put this? I saw something in her (even in the short amount of time we spent together) that I haven't seen in all the women I've gone on dates with since December combined. That is why I am taking this shit a little more seriously.
Buy a diamond ring and propose to her , It should be the most precious and unforgettable moment of her life - the moment when you are promising to love her and take care of her eternally. The timing must be perfect; the place must be perfect; the ambience must be perfect; and the ring must be truly exceptional! It should be everything she has ever wanted in an engagement ring - all her dreams come true. It should melt her heart because, once she accepts it, you will both start planning for your wedding, your honeymoon.
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remember that she's 27. and a teacher.
She's probably itching to find Mr Right. She's looking at 30, has no man and no kids, and no prospects if she's on match.com hitting on getbiggers.
So while she holds the vajj power, you hold the power of being a single 32 year old (with standard getbigger qualities). Treat her as an equal 100%, and you might get some place. At this point, maybe she's looking for a partner with whom to take on the great challenges of life. She wants a MAN she can show off to the other teachers.
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There are some fine ass women on dating sites Roberto J wigglefrapp
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remember that she's 27. and a teacher.
She's probably itching to find Mr Right. She's looking at 30, has no man and no kids, and no prospects if she's on match.com hitting on getbiggers.
So while she holds the vajj power, you hold the power of being a single 32 year old (with standard getbigger qualities). Treat her as an equal 100%, and you might get some place. At this point, maybe she's looking for a partner with whom to take on the great challenges of life. She wants a MAN she can show off to the other teachers.
Yup. Women love to show off their man to their friends. Especially if the man is good looking, well educated, and has a good job. Its almost like a competition.
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remember that she's 27. and a teacher.
She's probably itching to find Mr Right. She's looking at 30, has no man and no kids, and no prospects if she's on match.com hitting on getbiggers.
So while she holds the vajj power, you hold the power of being a single 32 year old (with standard getbigger qualities). Treat her as an equal 100%, and you might get some place. At this point, maybe she's looking for a partner with whom to take on the great challenges of life. She wants a MAN she can show off to the other teachers.
It's funny, but most of her girlfriends are other teachers she works with and she called me Sunday afternoon (to firm up plans for that night) while having brunch with 5 of them. They all knew she was seeing me. She lost her mom to cancer recently. She doesn't talk to her Dad. It's just her and her brother and honestly, she seems like a genuinely nice girl. She didn't have a hint of sarcasm in her. Just NICE. That impressed me, seeing I've been on dates with condescending and patronizing twats since Christmas..
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Yup. Women love to show off their man to their friends. Especially if the man is good looking (CHECK), well educated (CHECK), and has a good job (CHECK). Its almost like a competition.
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I was a teacher for 7 years. Elementary ed major. I dated a lot of teachers. Married one.
If she's like 99% of elementary school teachers, she is looking for CONSISTENCY. She wants a guy who looks good, but won't cheat. She absoltely does NOT want to get played, dumped, divorced, etc.
She loves kids - she is 27 so her body's clock is saying she's probably ready for babies of her own.
You need to present yourself as intelligent, stable, clean, professional - someone who won't embarass her at a PTA meeting with a prison tat, dipping tobacco, concealing a weapon, looking at the slutty young teachers, or playing the fool. You sound a little timid, but that might work well for you here.
Keep us posted on your progress. She's probably a little run off because you don't have a car. Impress her with your plans for the future, the path you plan to take, etc. I was a teacher earning my masters, teaching night school, and running the schools' computer lab. I drove a piece o shit car and lived in a trailer - and I did very well becuase they saw future potential with me.
Good luck brah.
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Still with this shit? ::)
LOL at all the casanova getbiggers giving advice over the internet to some geek that can't get laid. ;D
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Whoever falls in love first loses! If a gal wants you she will let you know. When they are no longer interested they even stop forwarding jokes!
Guys with not much experience wouldn't know good advice from bad.
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Whoever falls in love first loses! If a gal wants you she will let you know. When they are no longer interested they even stop forwarding jokes!
Guys with not much experience wouldn't know good advice from bad.
A wise man has spoken. Great post Vince.
jt
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A wise man has spoken. Great post Vince.
jt
Shut the fuck up, idiot.
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I was a teacher for 7 years. Elementary ed major. I dated a lot of teachers. Married one.
If she's like 99% of elementary school teachers, she is looking for CONSISTENCY. She wants a guy who looks good, but won't cheat. She absoltely does NOT want to get played, dumped, divorced, etc.
She loves kids - she is 27 so her body's clock is saying she's probably ready for babies of her own.
You need to present yourself as intelligent, stable, clean, professional - someone who won't embarass her at a PTA meeting with a prison tat, dipping tobacco, concealing a weapon, looking at the slutty young teachers, or playing the fool. You sound a little timid, but that might work well for you here.
Keep us posted on your progress. She's probably a little run off because you don't have a car. Impress her with your plans for the future, the path you plan to take, etc. I was a teacher earning my masters, teaching night school, and running the schools' computer lab. I drove a piece o shit car and lived in a trailer - and I did very well becuase they saw future potential with me.
Good luck brah.
She definitely loves kids. When she was up in my apartment, I had a photo album on the coffee table. My sister had dropped it off recently. Anyways, she looked at some pics and as soon as she got to the ones where I was a kid, she was oogling and awing all over them....
She said she knew she wanted to work with kids since she's been a kid herself. She teaches grades 3 and 5.
I'm debating what to wear when she passes by tomorrow at 3:00pm. I told her I'll meet her outside of my building at that time. Am I going jeans and a shirt, or dress pants and a shirt? I've only ever had afternoon dates with actual girlfriends. Kind of out of my element on this one. Not sure if this should be treated as DATE #2 or not.
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i'd wear jeans. then over the date, dazzle her with your plans for the future
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Dan:
I think you’ve analyzed and speculated every single possible scenario that could happen.
Therefor, you should be ready for anything.
Don’t worry about what to “call” tomorrow‘s rendezvous.
Just meet with her.
You can both get to know each other a little more by - hopefully - being yourselves.
And, by the end, you’ll both know if you want to move forward to date #2 (or #2: subset - a, or whatever you want to call it).
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The thing is you need a good brain. No one can tell you what to do or say. Later you can think about it and wonder if you could have done things differently.
If she enjoyed herself being with you then you know you are okay and attractive to some women and let her give you some feedback. Sometimes
ignoring a woman is effective. Most of the time talking is the best thing to do. Play by ear and make her feel you think she is special. Good luck.
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load up ;D ;D
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DAMN, the weather is CRAP outside today. It will definitely rain within the next 3 hours. I was planning on taking her for a walk on a mountain. Anything outdoors will have to be ruled out now. I didn't want a sitdown coffee thing this afternoon. Any suggestions on where I could take her for the 2 hour get together (probably from 3-5pm)?
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DAMN, the weather is CRAP outside today. It will definitely rain within the next 3 hours. I was planning on taking her for a walk on a mountain. Anything outdoors will have to be ruled out now. I didn't want a sitdown coffee thing this afternoon. Any suggestions on where I could take her for the 2 hour get together (probably from 3-5pm)?
High brow: Gallery or museum
Low brow: The mall
Or you could take her to the zoo, Rock.
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High brow: Gallery or museum
Low brow: The mall
Or you could take her to the zoo, Rock.
I have 2 hours, door to door. Museum is a cool thing for a weekend afternoon, when there is more time to kill.
The zoo is another great idea, but again, it's a 30 minute drive from me. Again, I have 2 hours door to door.
The mall? Not going to even touch that one..
Any other suggestions?
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I have 2 hours, door to door. Museum is a cool thing for a weekend afternoon, when there is more time to kill.
The zoo is another great idea, but again, it's a 30 minute drive from me. Again, I have 2 hours door to door.
The mall? Not going to even touch that one..
Any other suggestions?
Jesus you men and your testosterone.
Danimal, take her to a nice cafe or the like for coffee or tea, or whatever she may like to drink in that line. How about just getting to know her better.
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Jesus you men and your testosterone.
Danimal, take her to a nice cafe or the like for coffee or tea, or whatever she may like to drink in that line. How about just getting to know her better.
Our first date we spoke for 4 hours non-stop. It was great and easy to talk to her. I wanted this 2 hour date to be short and FUN. Thinking of suggesting either shooting some pool or maybe going bowling. I'll give her the option of the two.
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Our first date we spoke for 4 hours non-stop. It was great and easy to talk to her. I wanted this 2 hour date to be short and FUN. Thinking of suggesting either shooting some pool or maybe going bowling. I'll give her the option of the two.
hmmmmm pretty good ideas, but if she has freshly manicured nails then bowling is NOT BUENO. But of the two, I think bowling
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You have anyplace like Dave and Buster's around you ?
I'd play air hockey or darts before bowling .. juss sayin' :)
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You have anyplace like Dave and Buster's around you ?
I'd play air hockey or darts before bowling .. juss sayin' :)
thank god more estrogen to the rescue
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You have anyplace like Dave and Buster's around you ?
I'd play air hockey or darts before bowling .. juss sayin' :)
Yeah and air hockey is fun. It's really competitive...
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What happened on the second date? Just show her this thread and you will be fine!
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Our first date we spoke for 4 hours non-stop. It was great and easy to talk to her. I wanted this 2 hour date to be short and FUN. Thinking of suggesting either shooting some pool or maybe going bowling. I'll give her the option of the two.
naw fuck that.. take her to a park somewhere.. or to a trail.. just get outdoors and by yourselves.. free, easy, perfect for whateveryou wanted to do... gett o know her better/get frisky..
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It seems my type and yours, are different. The less a female talks, usually the better. Not a mute, but chances are, her stories will bore me. I usually like to spend about 60% of the time on the first date going over my gains in the gym and what my diet is like, my cool car, and how my balls are large because I don't take steroids.
10% of the time, I'll let her talk about xyz, listening to about 3% of it.
The last 30% of time, I spend getting a good visual image of her locked in my brain. In case I don't hit it, I can use the embedded ram to bring up her rack as I'm beating it later.
How'd it go Dan?
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It seems my type and yours, are different. The less a female talks, usually the better. Not a mute, but chances are, her stories will bore me. I usually like to spend about 60% of the time on the first date going over my gains in the gym and what my diet is like, my cool car, and how my balls are large because I don't take steroids.
10% of the time, I'll let her talk about xyz, listening to about 3% of it.
The last 30% of time, I spend getting a good visual image of her locked in my brain. In case I don't hit it, I can use the embedded ram to bring up her rack as I'm beating it later.
How'd it go Dan?
Sounds like you strike out with trannies quite a lot!
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"its 10:42, and guess whos thinking of you!!" . .. . ROFL
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"its 10:42, and guess whos thinking of you!!" . .. . ROFL
hey it's newmom approved. You're obviously a douche.
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Take her to karaoke and sing "Endless Love" to her. Maybe make it a duet.
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Ok...Dan
Buy a bottle of grey goose ... get 2 in case she can hold her liquor. Get some tomato juice and green olives..and some crushed mixed pepper. Ice cubes also.
Set up a nice comfy area... not too clean and neat yet still decent.
when you feel she's really buzzed .. whip your cock out and stand up in front of her. She is a smart girl and can take a hint. After she starts sucking you, pull it outof her mouth...grab her like a man...manhandle her...turn her around and fuck her rough doggystyle.. do not make her cum ( she won't anyway cause you'll feel like busting out after 21 thrusts anyway ). When you feel ready...pull out....turn her around and tell her to stick her tongue out. Spray her face nicely. You should feel like Rembrand after finishing a master piece ... Get naked .... light a ciggie and with a cocktail lay relaxed sprawled on the floor leaning against the couch. Tell her " come sit ..let's watch the movie "
She should lean over midway through and start to blow you. Make sure you thank Jeebus for a nice slut.
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( she won't anyway cause you'll feel like busting out after 21 thrusts anyway ).
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hey it's newmom approved. You're obviously a douche.
lol copter :D
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lol copter :D
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you look like a cross eyed retard in your avatar
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you look like a cross eyed retard in your avatar
yeah :D
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you look like a cross eyed retard in your avatar
Honestly and no gay involved, devilsmile have much more chiseled man like features than you do.
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Honestly and no gay involved, devilsmile have much more chiseled man like features than you do.
bullshit
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bullshit
Hey it's only gay if you want it to be, right?
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If that's devilsmile, I gotta give props. He's not a basement dwelling troll. Well, maybe he is, but he doesn't need to be. Good looking guy. No homo.
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If that's devilsmile, I gotta give props. He's not a basement dwelling troll. Well, maybe he is, but he doesn't need to be. Good looking guy. No homo.
Good grief !
They got to you too ! :-\
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Take her to taco bell for your next date. Get that protein!
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If that's devilsmile, I gotta give props. He's not a basement dwelling troll. Well, maybe he is, but he doesn't need to be. Good looking guy. No homo.
how many pics u need.... and trolling? Everything I have said I stand tall and won't bend.
I think I have posted even more pics than sevastase... that sayes alot... sheesh...
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Relax man he was actually giving you a compliment ??? ;D :D
well I didn't ask for it and he said if that's him ;D, unlike some people *cough cough* (no not pointing at u, xerx... but SOME people... COUUUGH COUGH)
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i swear if i took a pic right now noone believed it was me; "Oh yeah, ur hair is bigger, noway that's you" * but dud it's my face ???* "well it's photoshopped... has to be, nobody posts their pictures."
fucking tirred of it
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how many pics u need.... and trolling? Everything I have said I stand tall and won't bend.
I think I have posted even more pics than sevastase... that sayes alot... sheesh...
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Dude, don't EVER do that with your lips EVER AGAIN!!! :-X :-X
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Dude, don't EVER do that with your lips EVER AGAIN!!! :-X :-X
gimme some slack, I'm trying to do the don't give a shit pose of alex23 ;D
naah xerxes.. those girls aren't good... those are one of the worst I'm afraid :-\
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LOL yeah, just some random finnish girl that was commenting on a friends picture, not really that hot but hey, they're finnish
I'm just saying that, for example this is better... not even a model, just a regular working class..
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I'm just saying that, for example this is better... not even a model, just a regular working class..
I wanna see a cameltoe so badly in the first pic.
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Take her to taco bell for your next date. Get that protein!
Great advices. ;D
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well I didn't ask for it and he said if that's him ;D, unlike some people *cough cough* (no not pointing at u, xerx... but SOME people... COUUUGH COUGH)
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i swear if i took a pic right now noone believed it was me; "Oh yeah, ur hair is bigger, noway that's you" * but dud it's my face ???* "well it's photoshopped... has to be, nobody posts their pictures."
fucking tirred of it
Meltdown.
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Our first date we spoke for 4 hours non-stop. It was great and easy to talk to her. I wanted this 2 hour date to be short and FUN. Thinking of suggesting either shooting some pool or maybe going bowling. I'll give her the option of the two.
lol wtf sounds like a bunch of girls got together to gossip, talking for 4 hours straight is gay, get the fuck on and start doing some physical shit.
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Call her right after to tell her you had a great time. Don't waste time playing games.
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Lmao at all these dudes who worry about "how long to call a girl" and "how to act".
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Did he call her yet?
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Did he call her yet?
not sure ???
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well I didn't ask for it and he said if that's him ;D, unlike some people *cough cough* (no not pointing at u, xerx... but SOME people... COUUUGH COUGH)
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i swear if i took a pic right now noone believed it was me; "Oh yeah, ur hair is bigger, noway that's you" * but dud it's my face ???* "well it's photoshopped... has to be, nobody posts their pictures."
fucking tirred of it
Chill Hombre I was giving you a compliment. Don't epic meltdown, sir.
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don't play the "waiting game" and don't follow "the rules"
call her when you want
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Just text her something funny
Not a picture of your cock though...its a bit early
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Not a picture of your cock though...its a bit early
unless you have a big cock, though
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Just send her a text the next day,..something like "I had a nice time with you last night''
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Just send her a text the next day,..something like "I had a nice time with you last night''
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I never call back the burden is on them.
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lol wtf sounds like a bunch of girls got together to gossip, talking for 4 hours straight is gay, get the fuck on and start doing some physical shit.
This thread is so old news it makes me laugh. I cracked the girl WIDE OPEN like 3 weeks ago.. Seeing her tomorrow night for the 8th time...
I do have to take the lead A LOT with her though. She's as shy as shit, but it's all good.
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This thread is so old news it makes me laugh. I cracked the girl WIDE OPEN like 3 weeks ago.. Seeing her tomorrow night for the 8th time...
I do have to take the lead A LOT with her though. She's as shy as shit, but it's all good.
Shy as shit my eye. You started this thread about May 17, and it is June 8th, you said you hit it 3 weeks ago...she ain't shy, the girl is "used car salesman", she just wanted you to think the "car" (cooter) had that new car smell...Playing that "Oh oh, I'll wait to get to know you....oh, blah, blah"
You bought the car now..enjoy it, but watch out, there is no warranty...she's shy remember...
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Shy as shit my eye. You started this thread about May 17, and it is June 8th, you said you hit it 3 weeks ago...she ain't shy, the girl is "used car salesman", she just wanted you to think the "car" (cooter) had that new car smell...Playing that "Oh oh, I'll wait to get to know you....oh, blah, blah"
You bought the car now..enjoy it, but watch out, there is no warranty...she's shy remember...
It's the oldest trick in the book. ;D
Women who get down like this irritate me. Just do what you do and get it done. I don't believe in playing games. If I want it, then I'm just going to say it.
HOWEVER if I'm REALLY feeling you then I will hold off and try to build a relationship first. if it's purely physical and I don't care about your mind and all that....let's get it moving
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God forbid you be nice to a girl ::)
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God forbid you be nice to a girl ::)
LMAO true indeed
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call her? if you're not throwing her smegma stained panties in her face and telling her to get the fuck out the next morning cuz you gotta lift it really wasn't a success now ,was it?
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so what ended up happening danimal?
she went with the 'other guy' didnt she
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never text a girl within a week of meeting her, i wait around 10 days, i actually call though.
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never text a girl within a week of meeting her, i wait around 10 days, i actually call though.
I hate texts too. Even if she texts me, I CALL HER BACK...
The only time I use texts are when I'm running late to say I'll be there in 20.
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I hate texts too. Even if she texts me, I CALL HER BACK...
The only time I use texts are when I'm running late to say I'll be there in 20.
I agree, but I would text to kind of feel the waters after a first date by saying, "I had a great time". If she texts back well then call and get going.
But I can't stand the endless texting. Seems kinda phony.
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I agree, but I would text to kind of feel the waters after a first date by saying, "I had a great time". If she texts back well then call and get going.
But I can't stand the endless texting. Seems kinda phony.
NAh, fuck "the great time" when you send her that she has power, a girl that really enjoyed her time will text you.
Dont text her after a date, if ur keen on her wait a week, but to text her the next day "i had a great time" sounds like a fucken bitch...I have never done that.
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I agree, but I would text to kind of feel the waters after a first date by saying, "I had a great time". If she texts back well then call and get going.
But I can't stand the endless texting. Seems kinda phony.
Yeah, I once knew a girl who didn't stop texting me. Literally every 5 minutes telling me about what she was doing at that particular minute. I mean, what the hell can you write back and God for bid you don't write back, they freak and ask you if you got their text and if everything's alright.. It's just annoying...
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NAh, fuck "the great time" when you send her that she has power, a girl that really enjoyed her time will text you.
Dont text her after a date, if ur keen on her wait a week, but to text her the next day "i had a great time" sounds like a fucken bitch...I have never done that.
Waiting a week's a bit excessive. A few days is money. It shows her you're not too anxious.
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NAh, fuck "the great time" when you send her that she has power, a girl that really enjoyed her time will text you.
Dont text her after a date, if ur keen on her wait a week, but to text her the next day "i had a great time" sounds like a fucken bitch...I have never done that.
I totally disagree. Women (not girls) HATE game playing. If you have a really good time then tell her. That's not a punk move. Sending flowers after the date is a bitch move.
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Yeah, I once knew a girl who didn't stop texting me. Literally every 5 minutes telling me about what she was doing at that particular minute. I mean, what the hell can you write back and God for bid you don't write back, they freak and ask you if you got their text and if everything's alright.. It's just annoying...
FUCK, the dumb bitches that text you minute by minute updates
"Hi, went shopping, bought a red dress, hmmmm maybe should of taken the yellow one lol , hope your well :)"
"Hey, the sun is out today, great day to catch a tan hahaah, have a nice day"
or the dumb bitch that replies to her own message when you dont.
"Hi, how are you today :)" after half hour she sends another one "Im well, works so busy, chat soon babe"
Fuck off bitch.
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I totally disagree. Women (not girls) HATE game playing. If you have a really good time then tell her. That's not a punk move. Sending flowers after the date is a bitch move.
I think instead of you telling her you had a good time, you ask her out again and your actions will say more than your words do...
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I totally disagree. Women (not girls) HATE game playing. If you have a really good time then tell her. That's not a punk move. Sending flowers after the date is a bitch move.
I send my wife flowers sometimes, just for sport.
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Ofcourse there is no right or wrong, you have to do actions that suit you and make you comfortable, Im a prick, it works for me.
at the same time im not attached to my mobile phone (cellphone) i hate people trying to contact me all the time.
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I send my wife flowers sometimes, just for sport.
That's sweet! I knew there were *SOME* decent men on this board ;)
Married is different from first date!
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Im seeing a girl named bethany on tuesday, i can almost predict the ending, i have it visualised as if it just happened, i just have to wait to that night.
Friendly convo
glass of red/white wine
back rub
penetration.
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That's sweet! I knew there were *SOME* decent men on this board ;)
Married is different from first date!
I hope you got tits, if not you=Outed.
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I send my wife flowers sometimes, just for sport.
Before or after you do the ironing, Marty?
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I totally disagree. Women (not girls) HATE game playing. If you have a really good time then tell her. That's not a punk move. Sending flowers after the date is a bitch move.
When does one send flowers...One time, for a picnic date i planned, I had blue flowers (everything was blue, the plates, fork handles,etc), she said I gained mad points for the flowers.
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When does one send flowers...One time, for a picnic date i planned, I had blue flowers (everything was blue, the plates, fork handles,etc), she said I gained mad points for the flowers.
You got time flowers just right if its wrong timing a girl will get pissed by them, suprise is the best tactic out of nowhere = The Art of war.
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everything was blue
Even your balls by the sound of it.
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You got time flowers just right if its wrong timing a girl will get pissed by them, suprise is the best tactic out of nowhere = The Art of war.
and you need to send them to her job
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I like sex
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I like sex
Excellent post!
Now, all of you need to go view JNN"s new thread and learn a thing or 2.
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and you need to send them to her job
What if she had no job?
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What if she had no job?
then to her house. Listen ladies like flowers I think its in our DNA or something
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Glad there are so many experts here on GB ::)
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At Getbig, we're all about getting you laid!
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When does one send flowers...One time, for a picnic date i planned, I had blue flowers (everything was blue, the plates, fork handles,etc), she said I gained mad points for the flowers.
That's cute, but I wouldn't send flowers after the first date. I think it's a little much. At that point, most women are still trying to gauge how they came across.
But flowers for a picnic date is really cute. ;D
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That's cute, but I wouldn't send flowers after the first date. I think it's a little much. At that point, most women are still trying to gauge how they came across.
But flowers for a picnic date is really cute. ;D
Yeah, she thought that it was the shit, and let me tell you, she was the shit...but, unfortunately, I am not a baller, so Parker Lewis, did lose...
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Yeah, she thought that it was the shit, and let me tell you, she was the shit...but, unfortunately, I am not a baller, so Parker Lewis, did lose...
Oh well....On to the next.
We as women can be so stupid sometimes! A guy who is THAT caring and considerate is hard to come by.
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Oh well....On to the next.
We as women can be so stupid sometimes! A guy who is THAT caring and considerate is hard to come by.
Not only stupid but nuts as well...and yes nice guys like that very tough to come by
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Not only stupid but nuts as well...and yes nice guys like that very tough to come by
You got it.
Sometimes I look at all the stupid stuff I did and think WTF was I thinking! It's something though...the guys that have all that flash and everyone wants cause he is a baller...look him up in 10 years.
In most cases, I'm happy I dodged a bullet. :-X
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do you know her?
does she like over-tanned,big nosed douchebags?
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Had a really good first date with this girl last night. Best one I've had in over 2 years. Broke up with my ex of 1.5 years last October. Been on this single chat line since December and I've had one and after another shitty dates with a string of different girls. So, last night, I went in with an open/positive attitude, but with NO expectations and DAMN son, I was blown the fuck away. We have a lot in common and the chemistry was there. It really felt 2-sided. I was the second guy she met off the site. She said she saw this other guy a few days earlier, but is having a lot more fun with me. She wanted to be honest and you know what? I respected her for it...
Anyway, it was fun, chill and easy going. She even came up to my place at the end of the date, but because I liked her, I made out with her and that was that, confident that there'll be more in the future..
Alright, so I'm here tonight, wondering what you guys think in regards to how long YOU would wait to call her? She is definitely the kind of girl who likes the guy to take the lead and initiate. Having spent 4 hours with her last night, I got that impression. So, the next move has to be from me. I want to see her again. I was thinking of this Wednesday night. Is calling the day of, for that night, too short notice? It's either that, or I call her tomorrow, asking her for Wednesday. Is waiting 2 days too eager?
Anyways, give me your thoughts guys. How long would you wait and how would you ask her out for a second date? Just direct? This girl has quality and gf material written all over her.
i'd wait at least five years that way she won't find out what an asshole you really are. hope this helps.
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Funny how Danimal's attitude has changed now that he "cracked that wide open'.......he was crying a like a schoolgirl
Quickerblade is just soooo cool as well, he's my hero the way he handles the bitches
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Oh well....On to the next.
We as women can be so stupid sometimes! A guy who is THAT caring and considerate is hard to come by.
Yes, she moved in with a fat fvck 20+ yrs her senior, cause he had a big house. A few yrs and a couple of beatings later, she's a raving drunk...
It's funny, most of the women that I have delt with, have
ended up in relationships that would make Dr. Phil cry. And I
say to them now, "uh, uh not me..."
thank you for the compliment, Azure and Groink.
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Funny how Danimal's attitude has changed now that he "cracked that wide open'.......he was crying a like a schoolgirl
exactly
if "Danimal" embraced "Easy Come, Easy Go", this thread wouldn't even exist
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Danimal's relationship troubles take a back seat now that a pic of this Goddess has been posted.
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exactly
if "Danimal" embraced "Easy Come, Easy Go", this thread wouldn't even exist
BTW JNN, how much you wann bet that Supergirl is a superfreak, who hasn't met her "kryptonite" yet?
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BTW JNN, how much you wann bet that Supergirl is a superfreak, who hasn't met her "kryptonite" yet?
hard to say just by her pic honestly.
fact of the matter is i wouldn't care what she would do cuz i'm just looking to gets mine