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Title: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 07, 2016, 02:19:34 PM
....I haven't had sex in 5 years


btw- that's not hyperbole of any sorts......I'm not gonna reveal the exact date on here because I don't want it to be a "GB holiday"

I will say that the last time was in August of 2010

I just took myself out of the game.....

This all legit and I feel that this is some breaking news for all the bb'ing forums because lets be honest I really am one of the bigger personalities  

also I know I open myself up to "but when was the last time you had sex with a man?" replies





also, I know just opened myself up to some sort of witty replies that are a play on the "open myself up" verbiage I just used



EDIT: I'm also sharing this not so much for the "news worthiness" or buzz it will create.  I mean- this is just as big as when zyzz died.
I'm sharing this because I don't think anyone in my real life knows this and I don't see a therapist so I can't tell him...it would be a "him" btw because how could woman here me talk about my childhood when the dishwasher is running and a baby is screaming

I think I became a "sexy anorexic" "sexual anorexic"
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Kwon_2 on March 07, 2016, 02:23:59 PM
but when was the last time you had sex with a man?



JK Salvatore :D

We all have slumps

Things were different when we were 20-35, then we had sex constantly.

But as you grow older, other things become more important, such as Getbig
Title: Re: confession
Post by: YngiweRhoads on March 07, 2016, 02:24:12 PM
Different 'strokes' for different folks.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: njflex on March 07, 2016, 02:27:08 PM
THAT INCLUDES TUGGING ON YOUR NOODLE...
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 07, 2016, 02:27:52 PM
has Jesus added any upgrades to women since the 2010 model?


Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 07, 2016, 02:30:15 PM
THAT INCLUDES TUGGING ON YOUR NOODLE...

honestly- I just beat off just to "take the edge off" or for "preventative measures" because it's prevents prostate cancer


frankly, i've grown bored of myself.....i know how some married couples feel now

maybe I should put a leather glove on my right hand and give bondage a try
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 07, 2016, 02:34:18 PM
The female beauty concept is the same. So is the male beauty concept.

People are just searching more than ever for a greater devine. PRetty much the same shit since 2010 overall, just lesss hype.

If I came across you in the gym and told you show me your abs, could you pull that off without looking like a total dumb ass ?
Title: Re: confession
Post by: njflex on March 07, 2016, 02:38:51 PM
honestly- I just beat off just to "take the edge off" or for "preventative measures" because it's prevents prostate cancer


frankly, i've grown bored of myself.....i know how some married couples feel now

maybe I should put a leather glove on my right hand and give bondage a try
OR A SEQUINED ONE LIKE MICHAEL JACKSON.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 07, 2016, 02:40:47 PM


If I came across you in the gym and todl you show me your abs, could you pull that off ;D ?

of course I could----I'm a little fatter now but I still have abs......i'm also fully tattooed from my stomach to chest but still have abs


the real culprit is kinda what the black guy said and that is i'm 37 now and.....well


......okay so there is good news and bad news about getting older when it comes to women for us fellas

the good news is that once you get a certain age you know what you want in a woman



the bad news is that once you get a certain age YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT IN A WOMAN

being 25 was awesome (at least back then it was) because i didn't care if you were as dumb as a rock...if you were skinny and fake tits then it was game over


37 year old me thinks 25 year old me needed to stop finding validation in having sex

Title: Re: confession
Post by: Radical Plato on March 07, 2016, 02:41:05 PM
....I haven't had sex in 5 years


btw- that's not hyperbole of any sorts......I'm not gonna reveal the exact date on here because I don't want it to be a "GB holiday"

I will say that the last time was in August of 2010

I just took myself out of the game.....

This all legit and I feel that this is some breaking news for all the bb'ing forums because lets be honest I really am one of the bigger personalities  

also I know I open myself up to "but when was the last time you had sex with a man?" replies





also, I know just opened myself up to some sort of witty replies that are a play on the "open myself up" verbiage I just used



EDIT: I'm also sharing this not so much for the "news worthiness" or buzz it will create.  I mean- this is just as big as when zyzz died.
I'm sharing this because I don't think anyone in my real life knows this and I don't see a therapist so I can't tell him...it would be a "him" btw because how could woman here me talk about my childhood when the dishwasher is running and a baby is screaming

I think I became a "sexy anorexic" "sexual anorexic"
It's been 3 1/2 years for me, I tell others I am a born again virgin.  Doesn't bother me too much, occasionally I put myself out there and chat up a girl at the gym but can't be fucked full time looking for some strange.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: drkaje on March 07, 2016, 02:43:21 PM
Lame.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 07, 2016, 02:43:42 PM
It's been 3 1/2 years for me


it makes you wonder...how many other men aren't having sex on the regular?

and i'm not talking about guys who can't get laid because they have no self confidence or whatever reason...

..i'm talking about men who, like I said previously, "took themselves out of the game"?

Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 07, 2016, 02:46:36 PM
i think the reason why is because i'm not a vegan
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 07, 2016, 02:48:28 PM
of course I could----I'm a little fatter now but I still have abs......i'm also fully tattooed from my stomach to chest but still have abs

37 year old me thinks 25 year old me needed to stop finding validation in having sex

Only worship your self home alone, never else. If you justify your failure, you will never allow yourself to get better.

I know exactly what you mean by not looking for validation in having sex.

This is what could happen when you ain't born in Liberia, people have differend set of traps they fall into here.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Radical Plato on March 07, 2016, 02:49:03 PM

it makes you wonder...how many other men aren't having sex on the regular?

and i'm not talking about guys who can't get laid because they have no self confidence or whatever reason...

..i'm talking about men who, like I said previously, "took themselves out of the game"?


Two of those years I actually had a partner, but she had let herself go so terribly, even the thought of fucking her forced my libdo from my soul, couple this with she had the shittiest attitude known to man, complete ball buster.  Apparently me not wanting to fuck whales was my problem and not hers, it was too much to ask to control calorie consumption and exercise 4 times a week.

I am 43 now and my ex is 40, and the saddest part is some fit 25 year old bloke started banging her after I left her, talk about having no standards, he must just have a powerful imagination and just close his eyes the whole time, poor bastard, just wait until she drops the act and she goes full psycho on his young dumb arse, he won't know what hit him.

And yeah, I just took myself out of the game after my last relationship, live on my own, it has it's moments, but for the most part I live a pretty good life, good friends, hobbies etc.  Still talk with women on the off chance but never really try to hard.  Plus porn is so good these days I can thoroughly enjoy myself on my own.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 07, 2016, 02:56:25 PM
Two of those years I actually had a partner, but she had let herself go so terribly, even the thought of fucking her forced my libdo from my soul, couple this with she had the shittiest attitude known to man, complete ball buster.  Apparently me not wanting to fuck whales was my problem and not hers, it was too much to ask to control calorie consumption and exercise 4 times a week.

I am 43 now and my ex is 40, and the saddest part is some fit 25 year old bloke started banging her after I left her, talk about having no standards, he must just have a powerful imagination and just close his eyes the whole time, poor bastard, just wait until she drops the act and she goes full psycho on his young dumb arse, he won't know what hit him.

And yeah, I just took myself out of the game after my last relationship, live on my own, it has it's moments, but for the most part I live a pretty good life, good friends, hobbies etc.  Still talk with women on the off chance but never really try to hard.  Plus porn is so good these days I can thoroughly enjoy myself on my own.

Perfection is a sense of satisfaction, that's all is.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 07, 2016, 02:58:23 PM
the idea of perfection is like the idea of 100 percent accuracy

there is no such thing as 100 percent accuracy.....99.9 percent is the closest you'll ever get


there is no such thing as symmetry--> everything is valid
Title: Re: confession
Post by: HTexan on March 07, 2016, 03:00:01 PM
....I haven't had sex in 5 years


btw- that's not hyperbole of any sorts......I'm not gonna reveal the exact date on here because I don't want it to be a "GB holiday"

I will say that the last time was in August of 2010

I just took myself out of the game.....

This all legit and I feel that this is some breaking news for all the bb'ing forums because lets be honest I really am one of the bigger personalities  

also I know I open myself up to "but when was the last time you had sex with a man?" replies





also, I know just opened myself up to some sort of witty replies that are a play on the "open myself up" verbiage I just used



EDIT: I'm also sharing this not so much for the "news worthiness" or buzz it will create.  I mean- this is just as big as when zyzz died.
I'm sharing this because I don't think anyone in my real life knows this and I don't see a therapist so I can't tell him...it would be a "him" btw because how could woman here me talk about my childhood when the dishwasher is running and a baby is screaming

I think I became a "sexy anorexic" "sexual anorexic"
Why haven't you had sex?
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 07, 2016, 03:00:52 PM
the idea of perfection is like the idea of 100 percent accuracy

there is no such thing as 100 percent accuracy.....99.9 percent is the closest you'll ever get


there is no such thing as symmetry--> everything is valid

I was giving plato a sense of verity, because the 25 year old was probably loving it. And plato's old woman as well. THey were both winning. Plato may say the dude is dellusional and has no standards in women, but we all know how nice it is to have a solid milf or a partner who's half your age. It was just an example, jj, be cool.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: HTexan on March 07, 2016, 03:03:39 PM
the idea of perfection is like the idea of 100 percent accuracy

there is no such thing as 100 percent accuracy.....99.9 percent is the closest you'll ever get


there is no such thing as symmetry--> everything is valid
There is prefect for YOU. It is called a soulmate.  ;)
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 07, 2016, 03:06:06 PM
There is prefect for YOU. It is called a soulmate.  ;)

It's also called a great fuck.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 07, 2016, 03:10:54 PM
i think the story is that we all get older and vapid sex with milfs and fake titted 19 year olds eventually gets really old


it's very odd I think but also kinda satisfying



seriously though i think this is a social phenomenon among men that the general public really isn't aware of
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 07, 2016, 03:13:30 PM
i think the story is that we all get older and vapid sex with milfs and fake titted 19 year olds eventually gets really old


it's very odd I think but also kinda satisfying



seriously though i think this is a social phenomenon among men that the general public really isn't aware of


No, it's women as well, trust me. You're not alone in this endevour. People stop caring to have sex. Then they all of a sudden have sex for 6 years worth in one day.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: HTexan on March 07, 2016, 03:16:50 PM
It's also called a great fuck.
are you 18 or something?
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 07, 2016, 03:18:51 PM
are you 18 or something?

You can search women for sexual/physical pleasure alone through out your life. What are you, mormon? JJ may have got bored of it but some of us aren't bored of it yet.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 07, 2016, 03:21:15 PM
No, it's women as well, trust me. You're not alone in this endevour. People stop caring to have sex. Then they all of a sudden have sex for 6 years worth in one day.

it's more understandable with women though imho

testosterone isn't as much of a passive, stagnant hormone as estrogen is so I can see where a woman can easily go a long time without dick
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 07, 2016, 03:26:58 PM
it's more understandable with women though imho

testosterone isn't as much of a passive, stagnant hormone as estrogen is so I can see where a woman can easily go a long time without dick

Depends on the woman ;D

so you just wanted to tell everyone you haven't had sex in 5 years, but that it's also a good thing? Why can't it be a neutral thing? You see, I think your brain still has memories that you like about sex with strangers, but your body isn't working with your mind. I think it's time to let go.

Or you can start using testosterone and viagra. I think letting go of the past is better, because it opens up your mind to start doing something new and find comfort from it.

Title: Re: confession
Post by: HTexan on March 07, 2016, 03:36:52 PM
You can search women for sexual/physical pleasure alone through out your life. What are you, mormon? JJ may have got bored of it but some of us aren't bored of it yet.
now you not making sense. ::)
you stated that you only value a women's vag. That is why you're a beta bitch and women walk all over you.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 07, 2016, 03:40:28 PM
now you not making sense. ::)
you stated that you only value a women's vag. That is why you're a beta bitch and women walk all over you.

LOL what a strong argument. I guess that's it you won the thread  ::) :D
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Parker on March 07, 2016, 05:54:21 PM
There is prefect for YOU. It is called a soulmate.  ;)
Souls don't mate. And my soul has matched up with quite a number of women, they just don't know it yet or didn't realize it at the time ;D
Title: Re: confession
Post by: wes on March 07, 2016, 07:08:26 PM
May I ask why Sal.


I`m certainly not judging,just very interested.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: HTexan on March 07, 2016, 07:09:46 PM
LOL what a strong argument. I guess that's it you won the thread  ::) :D
Nice comeback.  ::) :D
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Board_SHERIF on March 07, 2016, 07:10:42 PM
JN - is your libido at zero ?
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 07, 2016, 07:15:31 PM
May I ask why Sal.


I`m certainly not judging,just very interested.

i think it started like this

in september of 2010 things were shit in my personal life ...llike really shit that particular month
the last thing on my mind was having sex or dating
while i was getting my shit together a "avalanche effect" started in the sense that the one month I decided not to care about getting laid or dating just kept snowballing and getting bigger and bigger

it's kinda like giving up something you like for lent.  you miss it at first but then after a while you actually get used to it


I got used to not having sex with anything....

also, the whole "i got too old for casual sex" thing happened where my fucking brain had matured to the point where I couldn't have sex with someone unless I got to know them first.....
the irony is i like my solitary life and really don't want to get to know anyone so it's a bit of a catch 22

JN - is your libido at zero ?

I can't get hard for myself but mostly I'm so jaded and bored with myself that it doesn't get me excited

i do however get hard at times whenever I talk to a woman I'm somewhat attracted to so I know my plumbing is still good



PS---I'm pretty sure my mom has something to do with this...she didn't beat me or abuse me when I was a kid but I know a lot of jews and they will probably lead me to believe that this is my mother's fault

honestly though---no woman can replace my mom
Title: Re: confession
Post by: NickEdge779 on March 07, 2016, 07:19:46 PM
I'm only in my mid 20's but I went through this phase in the second half of college. In high school, I got tons of attention from girls, but in college I just didn't give a shit about getting laid, i made no attempt at talking to women, never went out, just stayed in my apartment working on bettering myself with education and doing hobbies and stuff. If a woman was trying to flirt with me in class or something, I'd immediately shut it down and ignore them after that and their further advances. Now that I'm done with college, I made an effort to talk to women again and it's worked out well.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 07, 2016, 07:24:45 PM
I'm only in my mid 20's but I went through this phase in the second half of college. In high school, I got tons of attention from girls, but in college I just didn't give a shit about getting laid, i made no attempt at talking to women, never went out, just stayed in my apartment working on bettering myself with education and doing hobbies and stuff. If a woman was trying to flirt with me in class or something, I'd immediately shut it down and ignore them after that and their further advances. Now that I'm done with college, I made an effort to talk to women again and it's worked out well.

with all due respect but at your age i was fucking easy fat chicks on the weekends just so I could keep the sperm flowing out of my dick because I was afraid it would stop working if I didn't let the poison out

and yes--that is my advice to all young men----have sex with everything
Title: Re: confession
Post by: wes on March 07, 2016, 07:25:52 PM
i think it started like this

in september of 2010 things were shit in my personal life ...llike really shit that particular month
the last thing on my mind was having sex or dating
while i was getting my shit together a "avalanche effect" started in the sense that the one month I decided not to care about getting laid or dating just kept snowballing and getting bigger and bigger

it's kinda like giving up something you like for lent.  you miss it at first but then after a while you actually get used to it


I got used to not having sex with anything....

also, the whole "i got too old for casual sex" thing happened where my fucking brain had matured to the point where I couldn't have sex with someone unless I got to know them first.....
the irony is i like my solitary life and really don't want to get to know anyone so it's a bit of a catch 22

I can't get hard for myself but mostly I'm so jaded and bored with myself that it doesn't get me excited

i do however get hard at times whenever I talk to a woman I'm somewhat attracted to so I know my plumbing is still good



PS---I'm pretty sure my mom has something to do with this...she didn't beat me or abuse me when I was a kid but I know a lot of jews and they will probably lead me to believe that this is my mother's fault

honestly though---no woman can replace my mom
Here`s one for you my friend,I have no clue if there is actually a thing called a sex addict,but if there was,I would qualify.


then at times,and I`m not talking about dry spells with no pussy available,I could go months withouyt even jerking off.......no desire whatsover,then it would be back to as much sex as I could possibly handle and then some.


If I can remember,I`ll PM yiou tomorrow about a sort of dilemna I`m presently in.  ;)
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 07, 2016, 07:29:48 PM
Here`s one for you my friend,I have no clue if there is actually a thing called a sex addict,but if there was,I would qualify.


then at times,and I`m not talking about dry spells with no pussy available,I could go months withouyt even jerking off.......no desire whatsover,then it would be back to as much sex as I could possibly handle and then some.


If I can remember,I`ll PM yiou tomorrow about a sort of dilemna I`m presently in.  ;)

thanks brother


btw- I threw around the term "sexual anorexia" early in this thread.......I don't think I have it because I'm not forcing myself into being non sexual....it just enjoy this unusually long stretch of not having sex


and i'm not a ugly man....I know I'm adequate looking and I know I still can charm a woman....I just don't see much out there quality wise for me to even give a shit
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Board_SHERIF on March 07, 2016, 07:36:36 PM
maybe your bored of the same old same old ?

Im bored of all the traditional sex..the last few years I become addicted to womens arseholes..licking them gets me rock hard..sounds vile I know.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Grape Ape on March 07, 2016, 08:57:27 PM
JN - you need to take some infield practice and get some swings in the cage.

It will clear some things up.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: BIG ACH on March 07, 2016, 09:45:08 PM
Here`s one for you my friend,I have no clue if there is actually a thing called a sex addict,but if there was,I would qualify.


then at times,and I`m not talking about dry spells with no pussy available,I could go months withouyt even jerking off.......no desire whatsover,then it would be back to as much sex as I could possibly handle and then some.


If I can remember,I`ll PM yiou tomorrow about a sort of dilemna I`m presently in.  ;)

No no no... There's no "I'll PM you a personal dilemma"... You can't tease us like this.... Spill the goods!!
Title: Re: confession
Post by: ritch on March 07, 2016, 10:33:49 PM
how can you go months without jerking off?
Title: Re: confession
Post by: wes on March 08, 2016, 01:15:54 AM
thanks brother


btw- I threw around the term "sexual anorexia" early in this thread.......I don't think I have it because I'm not forcing myself into being non sexual....it just enjoy this unusually long stretch of not having sex


and i'm not a ugly man....I know I'm adequate looking and I know I still can charm a woman....I just don't see much out there quality wise for me to even give a shit
I hear ya` there Sal!   :(
Title: Re: confession
Post by: wes on March 08, 2016, 01:16:58 AM
how can you go months without jerking off?
My wife lends a helping hand!   LOL  ;D
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 08, 2016, 03:10:23 AM
Here`s one for you my friend,I have no clue if there is actually a thing called a sex addict,but if there was,I would qualify.


then at times,and I`m not talking about dry spells with no pussy available,I could go months withouyt even jerking off.......no desire whatsover,then it would be back to as much sex as I could possibly handle and then some.

My personal best is 3 weeks with no jerking off or sex, but I craved it every day, every day I would wake up to my anaconda and at night it wouldn't allow me to sleep. It was ridiculous. When I saw women, I saw fuck boxes and flirted and talked to women that were complete strangers almost daily and dying to fuck them.

But a lot of people also say that they wouldn't feel any difference wether they jerk off or not. People are differend, some have more test, some less. Depression/anxiety/etc usually is a major player with libido. And when you get older, how interesting can sex really be?
Title: Re: confession
Post by: oldschoolfan on March 08, 2016, 03:29:20 AM
maybe your bored of the same old same old ?

Im bored of all the traditional sex..the last few years I become addicted to womens arseholes..licking them gets me rock hard..sounds vile I know.



yo board sherif i suggest you make them dirty whores lick your asshole to  be like ill fuck yours after you lick mine !!

its kinda like making a bargain with them.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Bulgarian_enforcer on March 08, 2016, 03:30:24 AM
Appetite comes with eating. Not having sex is bad for your mind and body.

Get some booty asap!
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Yamcha on March 08, 2016, 03:47:13 AM
shizzo thread reeks of shizzo
Title: Re: confession
Post by: da_vinci on March 08, 2016, 04:03:45 AM

PS---I'm pretty sure my mom has something to do with this...she didn't beat me or abuse me when I was a kid but I know a lot of jews and they will probably lead me to believe that this is my mother's fault

honestly though---no woman can replace my mom


This is very insigtful actually. The time I got deeply in love with a female was when she resembled my mother so much (I realized that after a fact).

I can't go without sex for longer than few months. Well I can, but I would not like to. Have been fukking like a rabbit since 17yo and it only gets better I must say. I don't have much addictions in life, I guess addiction to sex is a substitute for me.

Interesting point about not being able to have sex without getting to know the female. I was like that from a get go, idk why, maybe because I was too mature in that sense, I still can't. Have had pnety of chances for ONS and used just a few, it's just not the same.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 08, 2016, 04:41:19 AM
the last woman I fell in love in with was just like my mother

stubborn
beautiful
Italian (EDIT- not "off the boat" but of italian descent rather)

my mom doesn't have a full sleeve though


the only problem was that I never asked her to leave her boyfriend because I knew that this was a woman who wanted to be married and I wasn't ready to be any woman's husband no matter how perfect they are for me

that would be unfair to both of us....

but I live my life for me and not the pursuit of woman

you don't go looking for women....you find women on your way.....whatever that "way" is
Title: Re: confession
Post by: drkaje on March 08, 2016, 04:47:09 AM
I got laid yesterday and it feels like a long time ago. I'll never get situations where guys get depressed, or angry enough at women, to the where their brain figures out how to rationalize not getting laid.

There's no cooter shortage.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: da_vinci on March 08, 2016, 04:50:09 AM
the last woman I fell in love in with was just like my mother

stubborn
beautiful
Italian (EDIT- not "off the boat" but of italian descent rather)

my mom doesn't have a full sleeve though


the only problem was that I never asked her to leave her boyfriend because I knew that this was a woman who wanted to be married and I wasn't ready to be any woman's husband no matter how perfect they are for me

that would be unfair to both of us....

but I live my life for me and not the pursuit of woman

you don't go looking for women....you find women on your way.....whatever that "way" is

The more I live, the more I'm dissapointed with the whole "love" concept and it's manifestations in reality. It seems just around the corner (the perfect situation), but it's so elusive at the same time.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Tapeworm on March 08, 2016, 04:50:47 AM
I find most people just aren't worth the trouble.  Doesn't mean I disassociate from them altogether.  I strive for friendly acquaintanceship with a razor wire boundary.  Don't ask me no favors, don't tell me no woes.  I also, therefore, am not riding the hobby horse of intercourse.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: spiro on March 08, 2016, 04:55:00 AM
Jesus what's the matter with you. Are you still taking care of yourself? Are you using gear at all?
Title: Re: confession
Post by: affeman on March 08, 2016, 04:57:08 AM
What about hookers for a lil escape, JNN? Not your thing? ???
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 08, 2016, 05:01:36 AM
What about hookers for a lil escape, JNN? Not your thing? ???

I'll say this: I've NEVER used a hooker and never will ever use a hooker

i'm not morally against it but it would be way too much of a blow to my ego


btw----I know how to get laid....I know how to talk to woman...I honestly could go to a mall today and "pick up" a woman (like those creeps on youtube) and have sex with her and never call her again........I'm just at the age where I don't want to

so don't confuse my celibacy with me having "no game" or being homely


I just got older and REALLY REALLY picky

so picky that it' been half a decade
Title: Re: confession
Post by: affeman on March 08, 2016, 05:05:23 AM
I'll say this: I've NEVER used a hooker and never will ever use a hooker

i'm not morally against it but it would be way too much of a blow to my ego


btw----I know how to get laid....I know how to talk to woman...I honestly could go to a mall today and "pick up" a woman (like those creeps on youtube) and have sex with her and never call her again........I'm just at the age where I don't want to

so don't confuse my celibacy with me having "no game" or being homely


I just got older and REALLY REALLY picky

so picky that it' been half a decade

Dude, it has nothing to do with having "game" or not, u think guys like Charlie Sheen or Tiger Woods couldn't get laid. They bang hookers for the sake of convenience, clear rules and wasting no time.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: oldtimer1 on March 08, 2016, 05:21:31 AM
No sex for 5 years?  No sex drive from steroid use?  How can a man not want sex? It's not normal.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 08, 2016, 05:30:58 AM
I got laid yesterday and it feels like a long time ago. I'll never get situations where guys get depressed, or angry enough at women, to the where their brain figures out how to rationalize not getting laid.

There's no cooter shortage.

I can agree with this.

jj is constantly trying to rationalize his lack of getting pussy which has made him only wanting to survive without pussy, more or less.

His need to get pussy is weak, but his need to convince us that he doesn't mind that he's not getting laid is very strong.

Am I wrong jj? did I completely missinterpet you?
Title: Re: confession
Post by: drkaje on March 08, 2016, 05:52:41 AM
I can agree with this.

jj is constantly trying to rationalize his lack of getting pussy which has made him only wanting to survive without pussy, more or less.

His need to get pussy is weak, but his need to convince us that he doesn't mind that he's not getting laid is very strong.

Am I wrong jj? did I completely missinterpet you?

It's all bullshit. Even he knows it.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Radical Plato on March 08, 2016, 05:56:02 AM
I got laid yesterday and it feels like a long time ago. I'll never get situations where guys get depressed, or angry enough at women, to the where their brain figures out how to rationalize not getting laid.

There's no cooter shortage.
It depends on your standards, as you get older the cooter quality diminishes dramatically.  I am 43 and take really good care of myself, try finding single women of the same age in equal shape.  Hard to do.  Most of the women my age in my area look horrible, even the ones at the gym aren't much better.  Women don't seem to age well, and they seem to become cuntier with age, couple this with the fact they are usually divorced/separated, bitter and dragging around some morons kids, can tend to have an effect on the willingness to put time into them..
Title: Re: confession
Post by: drkaje on March 08, 2016, 06:02:23 AM
It depends on your standards, as you get older the cooter quality diminishes dramatically.  I am 43 and take really good care of myself, try finding single women of the same age in equal shape.  Hard to do.  Most of the women my age in my area look horrible, even the ones at the gym aren't much better.  Women don't seem to age well, and they seem to become cuntier with age, couple this with the fact they are usually divorced/separated, bitter and dragging around some morons kids, can tend to have an effect on the willingness to put time into them..

New cooter cures boredom.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Yamcha on March 08, 2016, 06:05:23 AM
So marriage is bad.
Children are bad.
Religion is bad.
Women after 30 are bad.


What do you old fuckers live for???
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 08, 2016, 06:08:30 AM
It depends on your standards, as you get older the cooter quality diminishes dramatically.  I am 43 and take really good care of myself, try finding single women of the same age in equal shape.  Hard to do.  Most of the women my age in my area look horrible, even the ones at the gym aren't much better.  Women don't seem to age well, and they seem to become cuntier with age, couple this with the fact they are usually divorced/separated, bitter and dragging around some morons kids, can tend to have an effect on the willingness to put time into them..

A solid case can be made from this. 18 year old hoe getting kids, marries a hot doctor in his late 20's, then one day she's forty something years old and gets divorced and then starts to go out in the town with her other forty something year old divorced single mom friends. Yeah, I'm dying from lust.

Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 08, 2016, 06:14:41 AM
I think if anything this thread should serve as a PSA of sorts for those of you in your 20's


there will be a day when "getting pussy" is everything


granted---I don't think it will be taken to a extreme like I have but honestly I'm not "getting any" not because I'm some sort of autustic YT commentator who wants to stomp babies and will be irrellevant in a year's time


I just don't really care as much as I used to

I mean---sex was fun (from what I remember) but then I realize that I love sleep and I love having the whole bed to myself

this is shit I would have never have even fathomed in my 20's


Title: Re: confession
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on March 08, 2016, 06:16:53 AM
I just got older and REALLY REALLY picky

so picky that it' been half a decade

let us say you are a 6 (combined looks, money, personality etc.) and you are looking for a 9. Not gonna happen.

Be realistic and good things will happen.  :)
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 08, 2016, 06:20:02 AM
I think if anything this thread should serve as a PSA of sorts for those of you in your 20's


there will be a day when "getting pussy" is everything


granted---I don't think it will be taken to a extreme like I have but honestly I'm not "getting any" not because I'm some sort of autustic YT commentator who wants to stomp babies and will be irrellevant in a year's time


I just don't really care as much as I used to

I mean---sex was fun (from what I remember) but then I realize that I love sleep and I love having the whole bed to myself

this is shit I would have never have even fathomed in my 20's

 People stop craving for sex. You're not the only one freaking out about it, after all you've already used about 40% of your entire life obsessin about pussy, so of course you wonder why you don't now.

You're older and have high standards. But your "oldhood" doesn't have the charm your "younghood" did, no where near, so you have to accept that for one because it's just real. It's real, so accept it.

circle of life, get on with it. Your "emotions" are not important. Neither are mine or anybody elses.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: drkaje on March 08, 2016, 06:24:26 AM
let us say you are a 6 (combined looks, money, personality etc.) and you are looking for a 9. Not gonna happen.

Be realistic and good things will happen.  :)

Are you saying JNN's pickiness is a way to BS himself into believing he can still pull better pussy?
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 08, 2016, 06:29:06 AM
Are you saying JNN's pickiness is a way to BS himself into believing he can still pull better pussy?

Nothing worse than a depressed and anxious man in his mid thirties who constantly thinks about wishing to be young again, standing alone in the corner at some club holding a drink, pretending to look around, wearing clothes made for teenage metrosexuals, tanned as FUCK, watching as hotties dance their asses off and looking insecure as shit.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: falco on March 08, 2016, 06:32:41 AM
OP should travel to Ibiza, and get the girls.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on March 08, 2016, 06:36:07 AM
Nothing worse than a depressed and anxious man in his mid thirties who constantly thinks about wishing to be young again, standing alone in the corner at some club holding a drink, pretending to look around, wearing clothes made for teenage metrosexuals, tanned as FUCK, watching as hotties dance their asses off and looking insecure as shit.

I know some insecure / slightly depressed people my age and their dating game is shit. They can't even pull the fatties.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: da_vinci on March 08, 2016, 06:43:12 AM
It depends on your standards, as you get older the cooter quality diminishes dramatically.  I am 43 and take really good care of myself, try finding single women of the same age in equal shape.  Hard to do.  Most of the women my age in my area look horrible, even the ones at the gym aren't much better.  Women don't seem to age well, and they seem to become cuntier with age, couple this with the fact they are usually divorced/separated, bitter and dragging around some morons kids, can tend to have an effect on the willingness to put time into them..

Well the positive side is that plenty of women like older guys. At your age, if in shape and able to have a decent convo - 30-32yo should be the highest you'd go IMHO
Title: Re: confession
Post by: da_vinci on March 08, 2016, 06:47:14 AM
I think if anything this thread should serve as a PSA of sorts for those of you in your 20's


there will be a day when "getting pussy" is everything


granted---I don't think it will be taken to a extreme like I have but honestly I'm not "getting any" not because I'm some sort of autustic YT commentator who wants to stomp babies and will be irrellevant in a year's time


I just don't really care as much as I used to

I mean---sex was fun (from what I remember) but then I realize that I love sleep and I love having the whole bed to myself

this is shit I would have never have even fathomed in my 20's




Have you any thoughts about marrying some time in the future or they completely dissapeared? I'm asking because I have a feeling it may be very difficult for me to imagine being married after five more years or so, because it's very diffcult already. Not that I sweat it tho', just thinking about stuff.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: da_vinci on March 08, 2016, 06:49:21 AM
People stop craving for sex. You're not the only one freaking out about it, after all you've already used about 40% of your entire life obsessin about pussy, so of course you wonder why you don't now.

You're older and have high standards. But your "oldhood" doesn't have the charm your "younghood" did, no where near, so you have to accept that for one because it's just real. It's real, so accept it.

circle of life, get on with it. Your "emotions" are not important. Neither are mine or anybody elses.

You seem to think that 35 or so is "old". I don't get it... Mature? Yes... old? Well unless genetic lottery and lifestyle was not exactly the big success.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 08, 2016, 06:56:05 AM
You seem to think that 35 or so is "old". I don't get it... Mature? Yes... old? Well unless genetic lottery and lifestyle was not exactly the big success.

Oh please. 20 year old can be mindless and still have that sexy charm. It's not charming after 30, much earlier than that it loses it's charm, actually.

Scorpio and JJ are the same age. Scorpio is drowning in pussy, loves life, loves himself, and the women love him... the problems JJ has are obvious. He has a boys body, mid thirties, still emotionally unstable and clueless, he's not brave. It's not attractive to the 9's and 10's, not even to 7's. Even for 6's jj would need to step up his game at this point.

Title: Re: confession
Post by: da_vinci on March 08, 2016, 07:02:16 AM
Oh please. 20 year old can be mindless and still have that sexy charm. It's not charming after 30, much earlier than that it loses it's charm, actually.

Scorpio and JJ are the same age. Scorpio is drowning in pussy, loves life, loves himself, and the women love him... the problems JJ has are obvious. He has a boys body, mid thirties, still emotionally unstable and clueless, he's not brave. It's not attractive to the 9's and 10's, not even to 7's. Even for 6's jj would need to step up his game at this point.



Ok now I get what you wanted to say. I don't know what issues JJ has, but I think he has some (who doesn't tho?).. I'm sure he'll figure it out as the time goes by. Not having sex may be a way to direct energy to more valuable stuff.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 08, 2016, 07:08:50 AM
Ok now I get what you wanted to say. I don't know what issues JJ has, but I think he has some (who doesn't tho?).. I'm sure he'll figure it out as the time goes by. Not having sex may be a way to direct energy to more valuable stuff.

I have asked jj am I right or not, jj is yet to answer. He seems to ignore my posts and only focuse on you guys who tap his back

He can't be focusing his energy to anything because if he was, he wouldn't be whining here. JJ can tell me am I wrong but I doubt I am
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 08, 2016, 07:35:17 AM
I can modestly say that I KNOW i can still pull pussy if I wanted to


I'm no Jeff Speakman in the looks department but believe you me---if I wanted to slut out I could get laid TODAY if I wanted to


the fuck outta here with me being a "6"....who said that.....I look like a Israeli Soap Opera star lately


Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 08, 2016, 07:36:33 AM
I can modestly say that I KNOW i can still pull pussy if I wanted to


I'm no Jeff Speakman in the looks department but believe you me---if I wanted to slut out I could get laid TODAY if I wanted to


the fuck outta here with me being a "6"....who said that.....I look like a Israeli Soap Opera star lately

that's all you had to say :D, I've been asking.

Alright. So you ARE bored of sex, and it has nothing to do with anything I said it did, fine. You just had a depressing melody while I read your posts. Okhaaay
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 08, 2016, 07:37:00 AM
Btw- i made a realization of sorts

in order for me to really start wanting to be with a woman again (either in a emotional or sexual level) my mother will have to die


I'd like to thank the jews for making me realize this
Title: Re: confession
Post by: drkaje on March 08, 2016, 07:37:19 AM
I can modestly say that I KNOW i can still pull pussy if I wanted to


I'm no Jeff Speakman in the looks department but believe you me---if I wanted to slut out I could get laid TODAY if I wanted to


the fuck outta here with me being a "6"....who said that.....I look like a Israeli Soap Opera star lately




He was being generous because of your fitness level. :)
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Tapeworm on March 08, 2016, 07:47:30 AM

He looks like what would be shat out 9 months later, if Dave Palumbo went on a lads holiday to Europe, got shitfaced and raped a turkish migrant. Huge nose, recessed chin, poor quality cheek bones....No wonder he hasn't had sex in ages  ;D

Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 08, 2016, 07:49:52 AM
old photo...I was doing alot of recs at the time and I think i may have been a clinical anorexic...not fair

that photo was in 08-09 and I was having sex on the regular then...no guys..........stop laughing



btw----I'm not angry or gonna lose my shit or flip out or anything like that...i'm fine



...I just discovered a new hole in my apartments wall.....and for some reason that new hole has my FUCKING LAPTOP INIT.....

i hate posting from my soon to be broeken phone
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 08, 2016, 07:51:35 AM
i'm not crying...it's just sweating under my eyes
Title: Re: confession
Post by: drkaje on March 08, 2016, 07:51:55 AM
Btw- i made a realization of sorts

in order for me to really start wanting to be with a woman again (either in a emotional or sexual level) my mother will have to die


I'd like to thank the jews for making me realize this

You want to have sex with your mother?
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 08, 2016, 07:53:55 AM
not really ...I mean---she had sex with my dad......I have to follow THAT....eww
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 08, 2016, 07:57:44 AM
okay....why that pic........THERE HAVE BEEN HUNDREDS OF PICS OF ME POSTED ON THIS FORUM


BEAUTIFUL PICTURES.......but you all had to post THAT pic
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 08, 2016, 08:00:54 AM
Got to agree. JNN is a funny guy, but judging by this photo:
(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=271529.0;attach=310786;image)

He looks like what would be shat out 9 months later, if Dave Palumbo went on a lads holiday to Europe, got shitfaced and raped a turkish migrant. Huge nose, recessed chin, poor quality cheek bones....No wonder he hasn't had sex in ages  ;D

 ;D



seriously, that photo of jj is like 7-8 years old... he has to be bald by now. JJ tell me you cut that shit off :D

Title: Re: confession
Post by: Bulgarian_enforcer on March 08, 2016, 08:01:13 AM
whats up with the duck lips? :D
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 08, 2016, 08:02:48 AM
;D



seriously, that photo of jj is like 7-8 years old... he has to be bald by now. JJ tell me you cut that shit off :D



I actually have but i still have hair......see when you don't eat and do "certain things" your hair will thin.....i stopped doing those things and started eating again
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 08, 2016, 08:05:51 AM
I actually have but i still have hair......see when you don't eat and do "certain things" your hair will thin.....i stopped doing those things and started eating again

"I still have hair" sounds like you should go bald and renew your self with new sense of being.

show us your self, you know you want to ;D
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 08, 2016, 08:07:42 AM
no ....I still have hair....sometimes I grow it out...sometimes I shave it....right now I shaved it...i'm bi like that



have fun with that

EDIT: at the time I was doing "certain recs" and not eating......hence the thinning
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 08, 2016, 08:14:24 AM
no ....I still have hair....sometimes I grow it out...sometimes I shave it....right now I shaved it...i'm bi like that



have fun with that

ur hairline is waaaaay up there. When your forehead looks like an airfield, you need to just razor cut your hair.

look at brendan's hairline, that is when you can grow your hair and get hairstyles. You? Just cut it all out dude

Title: Re: confession
Post by: spiro on March 08, 2016, 08:25:52 AM
Your 30s and 40s should still be the prime of your life and you are fucking blowing it makes me sad for you. You should try living up to your potential. Don't waste your life man when you get old you are going to want to blow your brains out for acting like such a loser.

If I was you I would right away hop on 300-500 test and 150-300 masteron throw in some cialis once or twice a week you will get your sex drive back to full swing. You can get liquid cialis from a million places just take a tiny amount. You can run this stack almost indefinitely you won't hurt yourself. You will look great too.

Start training again and eating right. Force yourself to go out and meet some women. Find someone cool and start having sex with her. It's not rocket science.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on March 08, 2016, 08:33:37 AM
(http://s22.postimg.org/3ozlpx67l/11222.jpg)
Title: Re: confession
Post by: falco on March 08, 2016, 08:34:53 AM
....I haven't had sex in 5 years


btw- that's not hyperbole of any sorts......I'm not gonna reveal the exact date on here because I don't want it to be a "GB holiday"

I will say that the last time was in August of 2010

I just took myself out of the game.....

This all legit and I feel that this is some breaking news for all the bb'ing forums because lets be honest I really am one of the bigger personalities  

also I know I open myself up to "but when was the last time you had sex with a man?" replies





also, I know just opened myself up to some sort of witty replies that are a play on the "open myself up" verbiage I just used



EDIT: I'm also sharing this not so much for the "news worthiness" or buzz it will create.  I mean- this is just as big as when zyzz died.
I'm sharing this because I don't think anyone in my real life knows this and I don't see a therapist so I can't tell him...it would be a "him" btw because how could woman here me talk about my childhood when the dishwasher is running and a baby is screaming

I think I became a "sexy anorexic" "sexual anorexic"

Does your girlfriend notice the absence of sex?
Title: Re: confession
Post by: CalvinH on March 08, 2016, 08:35:38 AM
This is one fucked up thread.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: da_vinci on March 08, 2016, 08:35:44 AM
Btw- i made a realization of sorts

in order for me to really start wanting to be with a woman again (either in a emotional or sexual level) my mother will have to die


I'd like to thank the jews for making me realize this


Well you know what you have to do...................... ..........















(http://static2.businessinsider.com/image/511d104a69bedd1f7c000012/grumpy-cat-still-hates-everyone-at-south-by-southwest.jpg)
Title: Re: confession
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on March 08, 2016, 08:39:30 AM
Btw- i made a realization of sorts

in order for me to really start wanting to be with a woman again (either in a emotional or sexual level) my mother will have to die


I'd like to thank the jews for making me realize this

just go back to letting men suck you off, like you did in the past.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Yamcha on March 08, 2016, 08:40:30 AM
If you feel like having sex again, pay me and I'll kill your mother.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 08, 2016, 08:41:49 AM
just go back to letting men suck you off, like you did in the past.

i wasn't hard, on drugs, it was for money.....and it was all *cringe* teeth


it was so cold that day
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 08, 2016, 08:45:22 AM
This is one fucked up thread.

the fucked up thing was that I was hoping this was gonna be big enough news that all the YT fitness commentators were gonna talk about this


I was hoping that that Jerry guy with the Rock's tattoo or sam's fitness factory would have this up as some sort of breaking news

I mean- let's be honest--I am legit a big time figure in the bb'ing forum thing
Title: Re: confession
Post by: drkaje on March 08, 2016, 08:48:30 AM
not really ...I mean---she had sex with my dad......I have to follow THAT....eww

Get over the mommy/daddy issues and stop being life's bitch, JNN.

There's no reason a guy like you should be a bitch.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on March 08, 2016, 08:53:12 AM
i wasn't hard, on drugs, it was for money.....and it was all *cringe* teeth


it was so cold that day

being sucked off by a man for cash is not an ideal situation. I hope your life is better now.  :)
Title: Re: confession
Post by: da_vinci on March 08, 2016, 09:07:35 AM
being sucked off by a man for cash is not an ideal situation. I hope your life is better now.  :)


Ideal situation is to suck a man for cash.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Simple Simon on March 08, 2016, 09:10:34 AM
uncle junior trolling hard in this thread.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: CalvinH on March 08, 2016, 09:11:17 AM
the fucked up thing was that I was hoping this was gonna be big enough news that all the YT fitness commentators were gonna talk about this


I was hoping that that Jerry guy with the Rock's tattoo or sam's fitness factory would have this up as some sort of breaking news

I mean- let's be honest--I am legit a big time figure in the bb'ing forum thing


Do you still live in Albany?
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Tapeworm on March 08, 2016, 09:14:34 AM
Albany.  You wouldn't think there'd be much else to do in Albany.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: ritch on March 08, 2016, 09:17:11 AM
This is one fucked up thread.

without the actual "fuckin"...
Haha...
Title: Re: confession
Post by: njflex on March 08, 2016, 09:19:08 AM
(http://s22.postimg.org/3ozlpx67l/11222.jpg)
WHAT I WOULD LIKE IS ALL YOU FAT,GREASY,DINER EATING ,SWAMP LIVING ,LOSERS SIT DOWN WHILE I GIVE YOUR LADIES A TASTE OF RAVISHING SALVATORE RUDE ,,,CUE THE MUSIC ...
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Tapeworm on March 08, 2016, 09:24:13 AM
This is nothing.  Who remembers the 'how to tie off' thread?
Title: Re: confession
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on March 08, 2016, 09:27:02 AM
This is nothing.  Who remembers the 'how to tie off' thread?

I don't remember it. Please do tell.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: ritch on March 08, 2016, 09:28:25 AM
WHAT I WOULD LIKE IS ALL YOU FAT,GREASY,DINER EATING ,SWAMP LIVING ,LOSERS SIT DOWN WHILE I GIVE YOUR LADIES A TASTE OF RAVISHING SALVATORE RUDE ,,,CUE THE MUSIC ...

They gotta bring back that gimmick. Too damn funny...
Title: Re: confession
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on March 08, 2016, 09:45:44 AM
WHAT I WOULD LIKE IS ALL YOU FAT,GREASY,DINER EATING ,SWAMP LIVING ,LOSERS SIT DOWN WHILE I GIVE YOUR LADIES A TASTE OF RAVISHING SALVATORE RUDE ,,,CUE THE MUSIC ...

dr. fist ?
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Yamcha on March 08, 2016, 09:51:27 AM
This thread...













(http://i0.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/000/966/461/c3b.jpg)
Title: Re: confession
Post by: pellius on March 08, 2016, 03:47:50 PM
I can modestly say that I KNOW i can still pull pussy if I wanted to


I'm no Jeff Speakman in the looks department but believe you me---if I wanted to slut out I could get laid TODAY if I wanted to


the fuck outta here with me being a "6"....who said that.....I look like a Israeli Soap Opera star lately




Jeff Speakman? Man you are getting old. So is Speakman.

BTW, it's "Believe ME, YOU."

I had to reduce my TRT to 100mg/wk. Now I feel more like you. At 200mg/wk it was annoying because I was like a 16 year old. Even fat chicks looked good.

You should get a blood test just to rule out any physical/hormonal issues.

(http://jeffspeakman.com.au/wp-content/uploads/jeff-speakman-australian-tour-2014.jpg)
Title: Re: confession
Post by: pellius on March 08, 2016, 03:49:59 PM
Got to agree. JNN is a funny guy, but judging by this photo:
(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=271529.0;attach=310786;image)

He looks like what would be shat out 9 months later, if Dave Palumbo went on a lads holiday to Europe, got shitfaced and raped a turkish migrant. Huge nose, recessed chin, poor quality cheek bones....No wonder he hasn't had sex in ages  ;D

What are you talking about?

Why don't you post a pic?
Title: Re: confession
Post by: pellius on March 08, 2016, 03:51:29 PM
hahaha, Sorry JNN....i was genuinely just trolling anyway, to see if i could provoke a massive meltdown. You're a good looking guy (no homo)

Never mind. Ignore my previous post.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: pellius on March 08, 2016, 03:55:32 PM
;D



seriously, that photo of jj is like 7-8 years old... he has to be bald by now. JJ tell me you cut that shit off :D



Love that photo. It reminds me of Mike O'hearn's hair. Not style but that it looks like he's wearing a toupe that looks like a hair cap.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: ritch on March 08, 2016, 03:57:56 PM
This thread...














(http://i0.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/000/966/461/c3b.jpg)


Hahaha!!!!
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Wiggs on March 08, 2016, 04:09:16 PM
Pinocchio, I mean Pee-Wee Herman on Spice, I mean Sal, the self loathing shtick is old.  Not sure if you know yet but it's 2016 not 2012. Get a new act.   

I still love you "Angry Johnny".

Title: Re: confession
Post by: mazrim on March 08, 2016, 04:14:40 PM


Scorpio and JJ are the same age. Scorpio is drowning in pussy, loves life, loves himself, and the women love him... the problems JJ has are obvious. He has a boys body, mid thirties, still emotionally unstable and clueless, he's not brave. It's not attractive to the 9's and 10's, not even to 7's. Even for 6's jj would need to step up his game at this point.


Wow, using Scorpio as an example. He likes to make you think he gets a lot of women (and apparently you fell for it) and even if he did (some were very manly so not sure if they could be called "women") he is way behind Johnny in maturity levels from what I've seen lately. Didn't really know too much about him in the past but seems to have learned a lot throughout his absence from back in the day to now. Scorpio is trailer trash with his supposed antics and doesn't love himself or would not have to validate himself on these forums as much as he desperately tried to do.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 08, 2016, 04:19:15 PM
Wow, using Scorpio as an example. He likes to make you think he gets a lot of women (and apparently you fell for it) and even if he did (some were very manly so not sure if they could be called "women") he is way behind Johnny in maturity levels from what I've seen lately. Didn't really know too much about him in the past but seems to have learned a lot throughout his absence from back in the day to now. Scorpio is trailer trash with his supposed antics and doesn't love himself or would not have to validate himself on these forums as much as he desperately tried to do.

Your post reeks of logic, so I can't really disagree with you.

I don't really know what skorpio is about really. But I can't know what j is REALLY about neither. So, both jj and skorpion  could be bullshiters, or they could be both for real. This goes for all of us really.

It's just that according to the evidence we have...

And pellius, if your hair line is that high, the hair needs to go. His hairstyle reeks of dwelling in the past just like the man himself, lol

Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 08, 2016, 04:57:42 PM
fucking really

okay--so I shave my head and I sport the bald look.....women still want to fuck me....I just don't fuck them back as much as I wanted to when i was in my 20's

(http://i.imgur.com/DjiAyCv.jpg)


and also i'm still kinda sorta skinny.....my physique is very, ummmm, "European"

(http://i.imgur.com/dqhtMqY.jpg)



people don't get me...okay!!!

I'm willing to bet I'd be huge in Berlin though......I'd be on one of those talk shows that black german people are on, yo.....I could be as big as Seal in germany
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 08, 2016, 05:07:52 PM
fucking really

okay--so I shave my head and I sport the bald look.....women still want to fuck me....I just don't fuck them back as much as I wanted to when i was in my 20's

(http://width=504 height=550]http://i.imgur.com/DjiAyCv.jpg)


ok, so you just don't give a damn about pussy anymore

that's fine
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 08, 2016, 05:08:28 PM
Jeff Speakman? Man you are getting old. So is Speakman.

BTW, it's "Believe ME, YOU."

he's still that fresh faced, hairy chested construction worker who does American Kenpo Katas in his hotel room that i remembered from the Perfect weapon :)
Title: Re: confession
Post by: pellius on March 09, 2016, 02:17:07 AM
he's still that fresh faced, hairy chested construction worker who does American Kenpo Katas in his hotel room that i remembered from the Perfect weapon :)

lol @ "katas in the hotel room."
Title: Re: confession
Post by: nzmusclemonster on March 09, 2016, 02:20:37 AM
Another phaggot out of the closet.

Par for the course on getbig.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on March 09, 2016, 02:28:46 AM
Wow, using Scorpio as an example. He likes to make you think he gets a lot of women (and apparently you fell for it) and even if he did (some were very manly so not sure if they could be called "women") he is way behind Johnny in maturity levels from what I've seen lately. Didn't really know too much about him in the past but seems to have learned a lot throughout his absence from back in the day to now. Scorpio is trailer trash with his supposed antics and doesn't love himself or would not have to validate himself on these forums as much as he desperately tried to do.

perhaps not trailer trash, but Scorpio had a strong desire to be admired online.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: phreak on March 09, 2016, 02:54:20 AM
Inconceivable! If I don't have sex daily I go crazy!







Sorry, I go broke. That's what I meant.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: SuperTed on March 09, 2016, 02:59:38 AM
JNN could easily get tons of pussy if he wanted. In fact, I'd argue that he has a look that's better than Scorp1o from a pussy pulling perspective.
Unfortunately, JNN is just mentally screwed up. Smart guy, but not stable.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on March 09, 2016, 03:11:16 AM
JNN could easily get tons of pussy if he wanted. In fact, I'd argue that he has a look that's better than Scorp1o from a pussy pulling perspective.
Unfortunately, JNN is just mentally screwed up. Smart guy, but not stable.

the drugs (rec drugs?) he took in the past probably didn't help his psyche either.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 09, 2016, 04:01:48 AM
the drugs (rec drugs?) he took in the past probably didn't help his psyche either.

he needs some mildronate, everybody takes mildronate, it's natural
Title: Re: confession
Post by: njflex on March 09, 2016, 04:52:22 AM
he needs some mildronate, everybody takes mildronate, it's natural
approved by the professional tennis association...
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Ronnie Rep on March 09, 2016, 05:21:41 AM
Here`s one for you my friend,I have no clue if there is actually a thing called a sex addict,but if there was,I would qualify.


then at times,and I`m not talking about dry spells with no pussy available,I could go months withouyt even jerking off.......no desire whatsover,then it would be back to as much sex as I could possibly handle and then some.


If I can remember,I`ll PM yiou tomorrow about a sort of dilemna I`m presently in.  ;)
Wes, just part of an addictive personality. I feel ya.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: da_vinci on March 09, 2016, 07:37:36 AM
Your post reeks of logic, so I can't really disagree with you.

I don't really know what skorpio is about really. But I can't know what j is REALLY about neither. So, both jj and skorpion  could be bullshiters, or they could be both for real. This goes for all of us really.

It's just that according to the evidence we have...

And pellius, if your hair line is that high, the hair needs to go. His hairstyle reeks of dwelling in the past just like the man himself, lol



His post reeks of jealousy a lot more than logic. I guess if I'd introduce some of my friends who are about Scorps age and their lifestyle - dude would off himself (realizing that some people really live in "heaven" while still being alive).

I guess anyone who posts here about real life success and has means to prove it - is like a sore thumb for plenty of jobless steroid addicted losers who lurk here. And having fun while sharing your success stories online is "seeking for validation". Yeah, I get it, sharing stories about suicidal thoughts and depression makes everyone feel a lot better than someone who is flaunting money, hot bitches and expensive trips around the world. I feel sick of this kind of two-sided animal nature in humans. Everyone enjoy seeing someone suffer, very rare enjoy seeing someone kicking ass, esp. when that someone is seemingly "one of us".
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 09, 2016, 07:40:35 AM
approved by the professional tennis association...

I feel like the one guy in the matrix movie serie, that light skin black dude who lived in zion, that scene where he bragged about being 100% home grown original human and wasn't born in some machine factory with a power socket in the back of his head like everybody else was. He was never connected to the matrix, he was completely independant from the system.

If you can't have motivation, courage, joy and focus without taking some pill or hormone injection that was created in a lab.. then I think you take life too seriously.

 This bullshit I hear that "I want to be the best I can be physically, psychologically and financially" is a double moral, because people like that are teaching that it's not possible to live amazing life without artificial enhancement, that being natural is something people did in the old times. Because after all challenging your mind will improve your mind.

It does form a false sense of reality imo, or at least create a new sense of reality where everyone is battling who has the best pills, the best injections and the best technologies,  but nobody even trying to use their head without outside assistance like that. Then people like me are called human 1.0 and the people with the newest brain drugs, micro chips and injections are human 2.0.

I guess it is what it is.

Title: Re: confession
Post by: njflex on March 09, 2016, 07:47:04 AM
I feel like the one guy in the matrix movie serie, that light skin black dude who lived in zion, that scene where he bragged about being 100% home grown original human and wasn't born in some machine factory with a power socket in the back of his head like everybody else was. He was never connected to the matrix, he was completely independant from the system.

If you can't have motivation, courage, joy and focus without taking some pill or hormone injection that was created in a lab.. then I think you take life too seriously.

 This bullshit I hear that "I want to be the best I can be physically, psychologically and financially" is a double moral, because people like that are teaching that it's not possible to live amazing life without artificial enhancement, that being natural is something people did in the old times. Because after all challenging your mind will improve your mind.

It does form a false sense of reality imo, or at least create a new sense of reality where everyone is battling who has the best pills, the best injections and the best technologies,  but nobody even trying to use their head without outside assistance like that. Then people like me are called human 1.0 and the people with the newest brain drugs, micro chips and injections are human 2.0.

I guess it is what it is.


the old times who knows i'm sure the drugs then derived from various sources same as today from herbs/plants were a 'drug'and used and abused for the quality of life then.carnivals had all the 'bottled'potion hucksters touted the benefits of there brews..
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 09, 2016, 07:53:56 AM
the old times who knows i'm sure the drugs then derived from various sources same as today from herbs/plants were a 'drug'and used and abused for the quality of life then.carnivals had all the 'bottled'potion hucksters touted the benefits of there brews..

True, but I'm pro super foods. I think whatever grows from the ground should be alright to consume for anybody. There are real superfoods. But the medicince industry doesn't like that idea.

I have started to eat ginger, it gives me a lot of focus, makes me more "hype" and whatever. I can get it without prescription tho.

But, if everyone is using, and if it's normal to use stuff, it should be in everyones knowledge. Kids need to know that getting to pro level needs more than heart and skills these days
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Yamcha on March 09, 2016, 07:56:07 AM
you ever get splinters from hugging trees?  :D
Title: Re: confession
Post by: njflex on March 09, 2016, 07:59:42 AM
True, but I'm pro super foods. I think whatever grows from the ground should be alright to consume for anybody. There are real superfoods. But the medicince industry doesn't like that idea.

I have started to eat ginger, it gives me a lot of focus, makes me more "hype" and whatever. I can get it without prescription tho.


oh I agree,,real food is the best especially on one who trains for any particular event/sport/rec lifting ,who want to achieve a top physique 'individually speaking'ones physique.next level as you would say 'super food'the extras and organic versions of foods will give you a better sense of possible well being,then theres supplementation natural and non natural that push the body to its fullest ..
Title: Re: confession
Post by: mazrim on March 09, 2016, 08:01:55 AM
perhaps not trailer trash, but Scorpio had a strong desire to be admired online.
Yeah, perhaps. I just know it irritated him when I said that about him, lol. Moreso has to do with what he thought was appropriate to do in public places (if he actually did them) which were low IQ/immature level type stuff, imo.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: mazrim on March 09, 2016, 08:10:16 AM
His post reeks of jealousy a lot more than logic. I guess if I'd introduce some of my friends who are about Scorps age and their lifestyle - dude would off himself (realizing that some people really live in "heaven" while still being alive).
Keep watching your teen angst movies you get all of your deep thoughts from....

I'd probably off myself in prevention of meeting any friends of yours because I couldn't handle so much drama masquerading as deep thinkers in the same room.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: da_vinci on March 09, 2016, 08:19:21 AM
Keep watching your teen angst movies you get all of your deep thoughts from....

I'd probably off myself in prevention of meeting any friends of yours because I couldn't handle so much drama masquerading as deep thinkers in the same room.

Regardless of whay you say here, your formert post still reeks of blind jealousy and anger that someone dares to tell and show publicly their lavish lifestyle and success with opposite sex.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: da_vinci on March 09, 2016, 08:21:30 AM
Yeah, perhaps. I just know it irritated him when I said that about him, lol. Moreso has to do with what he thought was appropriate to do in public places (if he actually did them) which were low IQ/immature level type stuff, imo.

What, he touched girls pussy in public? Omg, how dare he!








You must be boring as fuck.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 09, 2016, 08:26:37 AM
His post reeks of jealousy a lot more than logic. I guess if I'd introduce some of my friends who are about Scorps age and their lifestyle - dude would off himself (realizing that some people really live in "heaven" while still being alive).

I guess anyone who posts here about real life success and has means to prove it - is like a sore thumb for plenty of jobless steroid addicted losers who lurk here. And having fun while sharing your success stories online is "seeking for validation". Yeah, I get it, sharing stories about suicidal thoughts and depression makes everyone feel a lot better than someone who is flaunting money, hot bitches and expensive trips around the world. I feel sick of this kind of two-sided animal nature in humans. Everyone enjoy seeing someone suffer, very rare enjoy seeing someone kicking ass, esp. when that someone is seemingly "one of us".

No you missed my point. I dont know nothing about skorpio or what he is really about. I only know about his getbig persona, I only know about him what is portrayed here, which has never made me sense jealousy or insecurity btw
Title: Re: confession
Post by: da_vinci on March 09, 2016, 08:42:49 AM
No you missed my point. I dont know nothing about skorpio or what he is really about. I only know about his getbig persona, I only know about him what is portrayed here, which has never made me sense jealousy or insecurity btw

I don't talk about you, it's obvious you don't think anything negative him. I know Scorp only from this online personna too, may very well be a completely different person or a gimmick (liek Ergo was), but at the same time I just can't see anything negative in his behavior either, only a lucky fella who is having a great time. I can only be happy that some people in this life actually have fun and not only suffer or feel like life is an everyday chore/slavery or whatever that you mostly can hear around. If he'd be one of people who write how difficult his life is, how wife is a bitch, how tough financially it is, how he sometimes doesn't want to live anymore - he'd get lots of affection, praises, chin ups, pats on the back, but it's a sin to say that life is pretty fukkin awesome and to enjoy it publicly. There's a good saying that big success and big money love silence (just because there always are these around who will hate you for being stronger).
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 09, 2016, 08:48:39 AM
I don't talk about you, it's obvious you don't think anything negative him. I know Scorp only from this online personna too, may very well be a completely different person or a gimmick (liek Ergo was), but at the same time I just can't see anything negative in his behavior either, only a lucky fella who is having a great time. I can only be happy that some people in this life actually have fun and not only suffer or feel like life is an everyday chore/slavery or whatever that you mostly can hear around. If he'd be one of people who write how difficult his life is, how wife is a bitch, how tough financially it is, how he sometimes doesn't want to live anymore - he'd get lots of affection, praises, chin ups, pats on the back, but it's a sin to say that life is pretty fukkin awesome and to enjoy it publicly. There's a good saying that big success and big money love silence (just because there always are these around who will hate you for being stronger).

well, this reeks of logic as well, I can't but agree with what you said there as well.

back to jnn for a bit, because what I want to know is what is he on about. Because jnn convinced me that he could easily get pussy, women want him... but he doesn't care about pussy. So, after that I kind of missed what is his problem eXActly.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: _aj_ on March 09, 2016, 08:50:48 AM
I have a pretty good life and mostly just want to STFU about it. Most of you wouldn't believe me anyway.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: njflex on March 09, 2016, 09:01:20 AM
I have a pretty good life and mostly just want to STFU about it. Most of you wouldn't believe me anyway.
reading your posts and job description ,your car choices and age .you deserve what your making and shouldn't be ashamed plus you never brag,other than describing yourself as a salt and pepper demi-god who gets looked at by younger women and has peaked biceps and physique for your age that would make most envy plus can fire a weapon like a marksmen..other than that humble dude.. ;D
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Grape Ape on March 09, 2016, 09:02:16 AM
I don't talk about you, it's obvious you don't think anything negative him. I know Scorp only from this online personna too, may very well be a completely different person or a gimmick (liek Ergo was), but at the same time I just can't see anything negative in his behavior either, only a lucky fella who is having a great time. I can only be happy that some people in this life actually have fun and not only suffer or feel like life is an everyday chore/slavery or whatever that you mostly can hear around. If he'd be one of people who write how difficult his life is, how wife is a bitch, how tough financially it is, how he sometimes doesn't want to live anymore - he'd get lots of affection, praises, chin ups, pats on the back, but it's a sin to say that life is pretty fukkin awesome and to enjoy it publicly. There's a good saying that big success and big money love silence (just because there always are these around who will hate you for being stronger).

You're pretty much spot on.

Skorp is self aware and knows what he posted got some people's nuts in knot.  He wasn't pretending.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 09, 2016, 09:04:39 AM
reading your posts and job description ,your car choices and age .you deserve what your making and shouldn't be ashamed plus you never brag,other than describing yourself as a salt and pepper demi-god who gets looked at by younger women and has peaked biceps and physique for your age that would make most envy plus can fire a weapon like a marksmen..other than that humble dude.. ;D

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA :D
Title: Re: confession
Post by: njflex on March 09, 2016, 09:04:59 AM
You're pretty much spot on.

Skorp is self aware and knows what he posted got some people's nuts in knot.  He wasn't pretending.
skorp was an interesting dude ,had a rich lifestyle and traveled the world .I wish that part I could do...
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 09, 2016, 09:05:51 AM
skorp was an interesting dude ,had a rich lifestyle and traveled the world .I wish that part I could do...

so did skorpio address why he left? because I missed it
Title: Re: confession
Post by: njflex on March 09, 2016, 09:08:57 AM
so did skorpio address why he left? because I missed it
don't recall.it was a while back though.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: da_vinci on March 09, 2016, 09:09:39 AM
well, this reeks of logic as well, I can't but agree with what you said there as well.

back to jnn for a bit, because what I want to know is what is he on about. Because jnn convinced me that he could easily get pussy, women want him... but he doesn't care about pussy. So, after that I kind of missed what is his problem eXActly.

I think problem may be lack of motivation to do anything. Using drugs often affects various brain regions irreversibly. I have friends who heavily used rec drugs in the past and they have quite some issues with mood, thought process, motivation, etc... now. Jnn is a smart guy, he'll figure it out and pussy once again will be enjoyable.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: da_vinci on March 09, 2016, 09:11:52 AM
reading your posts and job description ,your car choices and age .you deserve what your making and shouldn't be ashamed plus you never brag,other than describing yourself as a salt and pepper demi-god who gets looked at by younger women and has peaked biceps and physique for your age that would make most envy plus can fire a weapon like a marksmen..other than that humble dude.. ;D

Pretty much a definition of a humbleness in these days. Having multiple IG and FB accounts to flaunt it would be pushing it, but I'm sure aj has no more than one IG account and posts his physique from various angles every other day at best (aj I will follow you if you follow me back!).
Title: Re: confession
Post by: njflex on March 09, 2016, 09:14:15 AM
Pretty much a definition of a humbleness in these days. Having multiple IG and FB accounts to flaunt it would be pushing it, but I'm sure aj has no more than one IG account and posts his physique from various angles every other day at best (aj I will follow you if you follow me back!).
true,,aj is a great guy.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 09, 2016, 09:15:34 AM
I think problem may be lack of motivation to do anything. Using drugs often affects various brain regions irreversibly. I have friends who heavily used rec drugs in the past and they have quite some issues with mood, thought process, motivation, etc... now. Jnn is a smart guy, he'll figure it out and pussy once again will be enjoyable.

right, we'll have to wait for jnn's take on this

Pretty much a definition of a humbleness in these days. Having multiple IG and FB accounts to flaunt it would be pushing it, but I'm sure aj has no more than one IG account and posts his physique from various angles every other day at best (aj I will follow you if you follow me back!).

lmao how did pellius said it.. something like; "I will be with my flash light searching for an honest man" ;D
Title: Re: confession
Post by: dr.chimps on March 09, 2016, 09:19:45 AM
Meh. A cursory look at some of the G&O threads suggests that a lot of posters haven't been laid in a long time, either. 
Title: Re: confession
Post by: _aj_ on March 09, 2016, 10:36:29 AM
reading your posts and job description ,your car choices and age .you deserve what your making and shouldn't be ashamed plus you never brag,other than describing yourself as a salt and pepper demi-god who gets looked at by younger women and has peaked biceps and physique for your age that would make most envy plus can fire a weapon like a marksmen..other than that humble dude.. ;D

It's good to see that my humble shyness is appreciated. Thanks dude.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: njflex on March 09, 2016, 10:49:01 AM
 :)
It's good to see that my humble shyness is appreciated. Thanks dude.
:),NO PROBLEM.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on March 09, 2016, 12:30:09 PM
so did skorpio address why he left? because I missed it

fucking sad. He just left with no goodbye message. He was last online october 2015.


Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 09, 2016, 03:27:25 PM
i'm honestly trying to put a summation of sorts to this weird thread but I actually have no words (with the exception of "i'm honestly trying to put a summation of sorts to this weird thread but I actually have no words (with the exception of ")

I think the only thing I can say is that I can still "get laid".....I just have grown used to the fact that I've become a *gulp* "reborn virgin"...

I've had my time in the sun so to say and i'm just not for "fucking some hot 10, yo"

still I think it's pretty amazing for me that I've gone 5 years without it......

also, I don't know if I'm a "sexual anorexic"......I am a "sexy anorexic" though :)

.....well, okay--I'm not that "sexy"
Title: Re: confession
Post by: pellius on March 09, 2016, 08:18:42 PM
I feel like the one guy in the matrix movie serie, that light skin black dude who lived in zion, that scene where he bragged about being 100% home grown original human and wasn't born in some machine factory with a power socket in the back of his head like everybody else was. He was never connected to the matrix, he was completely independant from the system.

If you can't have motivation, courage, joy and focus without taking some pill or hormone injection that was created in a lab.. then I think you take life too seriously.

 This bullshit I hear that "I want to be the best I can be physically, psychologically and financially" is a double moral, because people like that are teaching that it's not possible to live amazing life without artificial enhancement, that being natural is something people did in the old times. Because after all challenging your mind will improve your mind.

It does form a false sense of reality imo, or at least create a new sense of reality where everyone is battling who has the best pills, the best injections and the best technologies,  but nobody even trying to use their head without outside assistance like that. Then people like me are called human 1.0 and the people with the newest brain drugs, micro chips and injections are human 2.0.

I guess it is what it is.



I'm not sure if I am following  you. Are you saying that the more "natural" you live your life the better? The more you eschew any time of "help" from artificial means the less "pure" or "real" you are?

 
Title: Re: confession
Post by: pellius on March 09, 2016, 08:21:35 PM
Keep watching your teen angst movies you get all of your deep thoughts from....

I'd probably off myself in prevention of meeting any friends of yours because I couldn't handle so much drama masquerading as deep thinkers in the same room.

Holy shit! That was hilarious! I legit loled!
Title: Re: confession
Post by: pellius on March 09, 2016, 08:26:02 PM
I don't talk about you, it's obvious you don't think anything negative him. I know Scorp only from this online personna too, may very well be a completely different person or a gimmick (liek Ergo was), but at the same time I just can't see anything negative in his behavior either, only a lucky fella who is having a great time. I can only be happy that some people in this life actually have fun and not only suffer or feel like life is an everyday chore/slavery or whatever that you mostly can hear around. If he'd be one of people who write how difficult his life is, how wife is a bitch, how tough financially it is, how he sometimes doesn't want to live anymore - he'd get lots of affection, praises, chin ups, pats on the back, but it's a sin to say that life is pretty fukkin awesome and to enjoy it publicly. There's a good saying that big success and big money love silence (just because there always are these around who will hate you for being stronger).

You think ergo was a gimmick even though he has posted picture, used to be very active on several boards again with pictures and has a YouTube channel under his online name "ergo" where he's demonstrating various bbing exercises?

Title: Re: confession
Post by: pellius on March 09, 2016, 08:26:57 PM
I have a pretty good life and mostly just want to STFU about it. Most of you wouldn't believe me anyway.

I would.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: pellius on March 09, 2016, 08:33:50 PM
right, we'll have to wait for jnn's take on this

lmao how did pellius said it.. something like; "I will be with my flash light searching for an honest man" ;D


LMAO! You're a kook but I love reading your take on things! You have a good mind I just think it's a little scattered like all of ours is. As time goes on things will order themselves more and things will fall into place. At least, as much as can be possible in the constant chaos we find ourselves in.

Edit: I just realized I read your post wrong. I thought you said "flesh light" rather than flash light. I don't know what that says about your or me and I don't think I want to know.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: pellius on March 09, 2016, 08:34:41 PM
Meh. A cursory look at some of the G&O threads suggests that a lot of posters haven't been laid in a long time, either. 

Hey! I heard that!  >:(
Title: Re: confession
Post by: SF1900 on March 09, 2016, 08:42:45 PM
right, we'll have to wait for jnn's take on this

lmao how did pellius said it.. something like; "I will be with my flash light searching for an honest man" ;D


Close, but it was more like Diogenes of Sinope.

(https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/b/b6/Diogenes_looking_for_a_man_-_attributed_to_JHW_Tischbein.jpg)
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Pray_4_War on March 09, 2016, 08:48:56 PM
Johnny, are you sure this is a sexual issue and not just some generalized depression or other mental disorder that is just manifesting itself sexually?

It sounds like you hit that age where you realize that there is no point to life.  Most people usually figure this out sometime in their 30's.  I believe that the only meaning to life is the meaning that you give it.  Find what makes you happy.  When you are happy then maybe this sexual boredom will pass.  Find something that stimulates you mentally.  Maybe give your time to other people.  Do some charity work or something.  Living only for ourselves is a dead end and it often leads to boredom, depression, sadness, etc.  I don't know you so I'm not trying to pass judgement or pretend that I have you all figured out.  I'm just trying to throw some shit at the wall to see if something sticks.  

There is no rule that requires you have to have sex if you don't want to.  Nothing wrong with just jacking off every once in a while.  It's your life.  The key is to make sure you aren't bullshitting yourself about what is really at the root of this issue.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 10, 2016, 04:19:02 AM

It sounds like you hit that age where you realize that there is no point to life.  Most people usually figure this out sometime in their 30's.  I


i kinda sorta think I'm at that point....

it's that time after a very wild and tumultous time in my life....a time where i didn't worry at all about anything because I was too busy being wild, young and invincible

see--if I remained "dumb" then I would never have the issues I have

people shake there head at guys like Rich Piana and say "how can he live like that"

fact is---he looks at us and says the same thing.....

getting older makes made me mature...but becoming "mature" leaves you vulnerable to a lot of feelings you've neglected to nurture in your wild 20's (and even early 30's)

two summers have passed and both summers I had panic attacks in august...oh, and btw- august is the month of my birthday.......coinciden ce?

everytime I cough or feel a little tired or even a little constipated or something mundane like that my first thought is "omg--I have cancer" (when i reality I don't...my brain is just creating a sickness in order to distract me from the boredom of my current life....brains do shit like that....google "Dr. Sarno")

this is all a quarter life crisis.....the weird thing I KNOW that this is a quarter life crisis and it will pass


also, i've been reading through this thread and there is no way that this devilsmile guy is over the age of 25


no disrespect to the guy but his posts read like someone who already "knows it all" but hasn't exactly walked many figurative miles....

it's funny...I was young and a bit cocky but I never went through that know it all phase
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Tapeworm on March 10, 2016, 04:46:16 AM
Find a nice Jewish girl and settle down.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Ronnie Rep on March 10, 2016, 05:25:16 AM
i'm honestly trying to put a summation of sorts to this weird thread but I actually have no words (with the exception of "i'm honestly trying to put a summation of sorts to this weird thread but I actually have no words (with the exception of ")

I think the only thing I can say is that I can still "get laid".....I just have grown used to the fact that I've become a *gulp* "reborn virgin"...

I've had my time in the sun so to say and i'm just not for "fucking some hot 10, yo"

still I think it's pretty amazing for me that I've gone 5 years without it......

also, I don't know if I'm a "sexual anorexic"......I am a "sexy anorexic" though :)

.....well, okay--I'm not that "sexy"
Someone needs TRT.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: drkaje on March 10, 2016, 05:50:21 AM
Find a nice Jewish girl and settle down.

That'd be pretty easy to do in Albany.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: spiro on March 10, 2016, 05:59:34 AM
A guy like you should go spend sometime in a third world shithole somewhere maybe you will appreciate your life a little bit more. Life is great and you have already wasted a good chunk of your prime. It's only going to get worse for guys like you as you get older. You think you don't care about sex now wait until your 45 lol.  This thread made me feel a lot better about my current situation.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: drkaje on March 10, 2016, 06:02:41 AM
Spiro drops wisdom, JNN.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Tapeworm on March 10, 2016, 06:09:44 AM
I volunteer at a soup kitchen in Afghanistan for wayward pandas.  It's so rewarding.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 10, 2016, 06:10:03 AM
A guy like you should go spend sometime in a third world shithole somewhere

you need to add "...but this time do it without doing a lot of recs when you were there"


I don't even remember Valenzuela ....I do however remember when I got back lying to girls telling them I went there to be a part of the "anti chavez movement"

I then SMH at how guillible some people are

then years later I smh at myself for having to lie to women to have sex with me


as for the TRT comment---I've become somewhat straight edge....i'm not a prick about it like others ...i just don't do any drugs or alcohol
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 10, 2016, 06:17:50 AM
we all live inside of our own bubbles and no matter how well rounded (no pun) we are it is sometimes for us to see things about ourselves that are very clear to people outside of our bubbles

now--I've stated a fact about my current sexual situation....

I've stated that it doesn't bother me and have gotten used to it

but that's what I see and feel within my bubble

the question I pose to the strangers on this forum is this--as people outside of my bubble, what do you think when a non-homely, non autistic man with the means to have a sex life hasn't had a sex life in 5 years?
Title: Re: confession
Post by: drkaje on March 10, 2016, 06:20:51 AM
you need to add "...but this time do it without doing a lot of recs when you were there"


I don't even remember Valenzuela ....I do however remember when I got back lying to girls telling them I went there to be a part of the "anti chavez movement"

I then SMH at how guillible some people are

then years later I smh at myself for having to lie to women to have sex with me


as for the TRT comment---I've become somewhat straight edge....i'm not a prick about it like others ...i just don't do any drugs or alcohol

That explains everything: Instead of doing the mature thing (learning from past mistakes and growing), you've let fear of repeating them again turn you into a gigantic douche who think's no chick's pussy is good enough. You're like someone who gave up smoking, found Jesus, quit drugs, hit cock bottom, etc... whose ego/faith/resolve can't tolerate any situation reminiscent of their old self.

Why not just start out by telling us you were hiding from your old self?
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 10, 2016, 06:28:37 AM
regarding being "straight edge" and my past

in retrospect I know that I wasn't a addict....I had a phase I went through ...I sincerly have no drug cravings or triggers, never had to go to meetings or whatever

I got bored of it, never got phsically or even mentally addicted and just stopped

at the time (like around 2010) i liked using the word "addict"  

why? because (and this sounds weird) but the word "addict" was interesting and "romantic"...

my drug phase was basically the drug phase I should have gone through in my teenage years that everyone went through.  However my teenage years were kinda, sorta sheltered so rather than having out growing it in my twenties, I started it in my mid 20's and ended it in my early 30's

now, I cringe at all that stuff kinda like some of us cringe at the clothes and fads we went through when we were 15

I look at *insert random rec drug* the same way I looked at the "Morrissey" poster that was hanging on my wall when I was a sophmore in high school


EDIT: the tl/dr version is basically "I should go to a shrink and admit that I probably am really mad at my dad for not being there for me but since he is a emotionally a dead person even if I were to tell him off he wouldn't react and just be deadpan"

EDIT 2: so by me saying that I'm "straight edge" what I really mean is that i'm now that "normal" person I was before I went through "that phase" because before that I was very anti drug and anti alcohol.....I'm not a vegan though and I don't listed to hardcore bands or have a "X" tattoo anywhere on my body
Title: Re: confession
Post by: bigmc on March 10, 2016, 06:31:37 AM
some good honesty from johnzilla in this thread

must be great not being a slave to the vagina

maybe it was the legit kigs

Title: Re: confession
Post by: drkaje on March 10, 2016, 06:50:26 AM
Re: Edit 2. Normal people enjoy things in moderation.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on March 10, 2016, 09:37:48 AM
the question I pose to the strangers on this forum is this--as people outside of my bubble, what do you think when a non-homely, non autistic man with the means to have a sex life hasn't had a sex life in 5 years?

it seems like you have not read what people have already posted in this thread. It is not normal to not have any kind of sex drive for 5 years. You could likely be affected by one or more of these things:
- depression
- unwillingness to accept same-sex attraction
- too high standards for the kind of partner you are looking for

in any case, I think you should see a psychotherapist or a psychologist. Your willingness to post questions of this nature to strangers on Getbig is bad is several ways.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Earl1972 on March 10, 2016, 01:21:31 PM
you're depressed, johnny

it's especially obvious because you're a very funny guy, the best comedians always have major baggage

E
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Rudee on March 10, 2016, 01:49:40 PM
you're depressed, johnny

it's especially obvious because you're a very funny guy, the best comedians always have major baggage



A top comedian said something along those lines...   Saying comedy is born out of pain.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 10, 2016, 02:06:48 PM
seems like jnn hasn't changed at all since 6 years ago, other than for his deteriorated corpus amygdaloideum, his hairline backing way up and also being physically smaller plus softer.

Of course my opinion of his physicality is just mere speculation, because jnn is concinved that he looks awesome.. but uh..



Title: Re: confession
Post by: drkaje on March 10, 2016, 03:29:49 PM
A top comedian said something along those lines...   Saying comedy is born out of pain.

Comedy is tragedy plus time.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: cephissus on March 10, 2016, 09:34:03 PM
Re: Edit 2. Normal people enjoy things in moderation.

johnny's story seems to irk you

why is that
Title: Re: confession
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on March 11, 2016, 01:49:58 AM
seems like jnn hasn't changed at all since 6 years ago, other than for his deteriorated corpus amygdaloideum, his hairline backing way up and also being physically smaller plus softer.

Of course my opinion of his physicality is just mere speculation, because jnn is concinved that he looks awesome.. but uh..

being a waiter in a big American city does not leave money for the good things in life. Not hating on JNN, but it is just a fact. With his personal life also being a mess, it is no wonder he is depressed. My grandfather always said that you need good food, sex and job to have a perfect life.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: drkaje on March 11, 2016, 04:01:17 AM
johnny's story seems to irk you

why is that

Because good guys shouldn't be wallowing in self-pity and making excuses.

If he were a loser I'd have no problem with the behavior.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 11, 2016, 04:19:40 AM
being a waiter in a big American city does not leave money for the good things in life. Not hating on JNN, but it is just a fact. With his personal life also being a mess, it is no wonder he is depressed. My grandfather always said that you need good food, sex and job to have a perfect life.

he's a waiter? I couldn't pull that off unless someone threatened my life. On a busy day I would probably smash a plate on someone's head.

I'm not hating him neither, I've been whining in this board about the same stuff. That's why I can't tap his shoulder and tell him everything's going to be alright, because everything won't be alright. They will never be alright. Unless he swims upstream in the river of apathy.

Because good guys shouldn't be wallowing in self-pity and making excuses.

If he were a loser I'd have no problem with the behavior.

exactly
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 11, 2016, 05:05:01 AM
truth be told I don't have any "self pity".....then again, I'm inside my own "bubble and don't see things from other people's eyes

and I'm not a good guy---I'm a sexy, bad boy who plays by his own rules........and if you don't believe me I will tell you that i'm a sexy, bad boy who plays by his own rules



btw---I'm open about my current situation.....so just because I'm open about it means i'm the only one?


can you fathom how many other men are going through this phase in silence?

also, albany is not a big city lol....it's a nice city though especially in the fall but it isn't a big city.....seriously thought- fall here is beautiful
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 11, 2016, 05:22:23 AM
ok,

but to me it's strange when people start to think they are special and that their feelings are unique. Next thing you know they shout it out loud to everyone, which is even stranger.

you're not nearly as irritating as wiggs with his bullshit macho mama boy swag, with his bad vocabulary and his terrible ability to explain concepts. You're all good like that.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Grape Ape on March 11, 2016, 05:23:14 AM
truth be told I don't have any "self pity".....then again, I'm inside my own "bubble and don't see things from other people's eyes

and I'm not a good guy---I'm a sexy, bad boy who plays by his own rules........and if you don't believe me I will tell you that i'm a sexy, bad boy who plays by his own rules



btw---I'm open about my current situation.....so just because I'm open about it means i'm the only one?


can you fathom how many other men are going through this phase in silence?

also, albany is not a big city lol....it's a nice city though especially in the fall but it isn't a big city.....seriously thought- fall here is beautiful

Baseball can cure your pain.

Also, ignoring DS will help - he's sort of a loon.  Nice enough guy, but tweaked a bit.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 11, 2016, 06:18:01 AM
Baseball can cure your pain.

Also, ignoring DS will help - he's sort of a loon.  Nice enough guy, but tweaked a bit.

and then he's gonna be the same at 42
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Mitch on March 11, 2016, 06:25:57 AM
so basically you didn't have sex since you got your tattoos?  ;D
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 11, 2016, 06:39:38 AM
so basically you didn't have sex since you got your tattoos?  ;D

since I got a majority of my tattoos :)

I was getting laid on the regular with a backpiece and small pieces on my arms but yeah I've gotten A LOT of work done since that august of 2010


hmmmm...overcompensating ?
Title: Re: confession
Post by: drkaje on March 11, 2016, 06:44:02 AM
since I got a majority of my tattoos :)

I was getting laid on the regular with a backpiece and small pieces on my arms but yeah I've gotten A LOT of work done since that august of 2010


hmmmm...overcompensating ?

It's well know that depressed people body-modify to make themselves less attractive. It's like people overeating to build a protective wall of fat.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 11, 2016, 06:47:37 AM
It's well know that depressed people body-modify to make themselves less attractive. It's like people overeating to build a protective wall of fat.

I thought people get tattoos to appear more bad ass, so that their depression wouldn't leak out in the open so easily?
Title: Re: confession
Post by: drkaje on March 11, 2016, 06:50:30 AM
I thought people get tattoos to appear more bad ass, so that their depression wouldn't leak out in the open so easily?


One or two is different than a campaign to disguise one's entire body.

True badasses have few needs.  :)
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 11, 2016, 07:02:08 AM
One or two is different than a campaign to disguise one's entire body.

True badasses have few needs.  :)

what's the limitation to say we're dealing with a big head case? u think conor mcgregor has a small man complex? I don't see any tattoos on jon bones junior
Title: Re: confession
Post by: drkaje on March 11, 2016, 07:12:45 AM
^ Seems like Jones has his own demons to fight.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: bigmc on March 11, 2016, 08:40:01 AM
It's well know that depressed people body-modify to make themselves less attractive. It's like people overeating to build a protective wall of fat.

bro science of peace
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 11, 2016, 08:43:25 AM
tattoo's for me were always something that fascinated me back to when I saw Sailor Jerry Anchor on Rick Rude's bicep when i was a kid

the only thing that stopped me from getting more sooner were money, time and the fact that I wanted to be a queer ass fitness model and if I was inked up i wouldn't get jobs


....then I learned that I didn't care about being a fitness model and just decided to do something that would make me happy

however, I am in the fact that "non-colored" folk will have there cliche's about us....
Title: Re: confession
Post by: epic_alien on March 11, 2016, 08:43:37 AM
does he have aids
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Tapeworm on March 11, 2016, 05:20:08 PM

btw---I'm open about my current situation.....so just because I'm open about it means i'm the only one?


No, not alone.  Like I said - I find most people to be a pain in the ass.  "I'm not single, I'm busy."  But it's true.  A full-time woman?  Family functions, holidays, walks on the fucking beach?  Brunch?  There's no way.  I'm booked working every day, seven days, for the next couple months, during which time yet more work will arrive.  Then I've got 10 years of backburnered projects to get on with, and new but overdue stuff like buying a goddamn property of my own and building a house and workshop on it so I can have some say in my destiny instead of being moved on, along with my 80 tons of equipment, whenever someone decides to sell their house that I rent.  ::)

My wife was right to be shitty with me.  I am always working, every weekend, Christmas Day, New Year's Day, you name it.  Well... I was there every day after work, which I still think is an a-ok compromise, because that's what people do - go to work and then come home - but she didn't feel the same.  Of course, she's unhappier now that she hasn't got a penny to her name but that's not really my problem.  And other women's problems aren't my problem.  Rescuing someone from her lame ass situation of her own making is not my function.  Not even if you hope it is.  So good luck with your dramas, which are not mine.  I ain't got time for anyone's stupid crap.  I've got plenty of my own.  We're all full up with stupid crap here, thanks very much.

A libido which is... persistent... doesn't change the fact that I'm selfish about my time and simply don't have room for anyone.  Certainly not for anyone who is a full time project unto herself, which as far as I can tell is everyone.  Life fills up.  I guess I dropped the ball somehow.  'I must have died alone/a long, long time ago.'  Most people managed to form relationships, have kids, pay a mortgage, etc.  I don't know how they did it.  Frankly, I think they did it by accident and by inertia but I digress.  I'm 43.  I still get propositioned which is nice but nevertheless - if I don't say fuck it and inseminate someone in the next few months, just hoping for the best that she's not going to be an ever-flowing font of eternal shittiness,  it's pretty much over and I'm gonna live and die alone and never have kids.  Seems awful likely.  Guess I should have gone the other road but I did that for awhile and it was raw misery, so what can I tell you.

I trust this helps.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: wes on March 12, 2016, 01:23:49 AM
Wes, just part of an addictive personality. I feel ya.
I hear RR,I can get addicted to anything...........espec ially good sex.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: wes on March 12, 2016, 01:30:56 AM
Don`t fret none Sal,I`ll attempt to get as much pussy as humanly possible just to pick up your slack!   LOL   ;)
Title: Re: confession
Post by: MAXX on March 12, 2016, 02:18:07 AM
jeez depressing thread   :-X
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Radical Plato on March 12, 2016, 05:44:52 AM
No, not alone.  Like I said - I find most people to be a pain in the ass.  "I'm not single, I'm busy."  But it's true.  A full-time woman?  Family functions, holidays, walks on the fucking beach?  Brunch?  There's no way.  I'm booked working every day, seven days, for the next couple months, during which time yet more work will arrive.  Then I've got 10 years of backburnered projects to get on with, and new but overdue stuff like buying a goddamn property of my own and building a house and workshop on it so I can have some say in my destiny instead of being moved on, along with my 80 tons of equipment, whenever someone decides to sell their house that I rent.  ::)

My wife was right to be shitty with me.  I am always working, every weekend, Christmas Day, New Year's Day, you name it.  Well... I was there every day after work, which I still think is an a-ok compromise, because that's what people do - go to work and then come home - but she didn't feel the same.  Of course, she's unhappier now that she hasn't got a penny to her name but that's not really my problem.  And other women's problems aren't my problem.  Rescuing someone from her lame ass situation of her own making is not my function.  Not even if you hope it is.  So good luck with your dramas, which are not mine.  I ain't got time for anyone's stupid crap.  I've got plenty of my own.  We're all full up with stupid crap here, thanks very much.

A libido which is... persistent... doesn't change the fact that I'm selfish about my time and simply don't have room for anyone.  Certainly not for anyone who is a full time project unto herself, which as far as I can tell is everyone.  Life fills up.  I guess I dropped the ball somehow.  'I must have died alone/a long, long time ago.'  Most people managed to form relationships, have kids, pay a mortgage, etc.  I don't know how they did it.  Frankly, I think they did it by accident and by inertia but I digress.  I'm 43.  I still get propositioned which is nice but nevertheless - if I don't say fuck it and inseminate someone in the next few months, just hoping for the best that she's not going to be an ever-flowing font of eternal shittiness,  it's pretty much over and I'm gonna live and die alone and never have kids.  Seems awful likely.  Guess I should have gone the other road but I did that for awhile and it was raw misery, so what can I tell you.

I trust this helps.
I have similar story, I am 43, never married, no kids.  Had a few long term relationships with cunty women that I stayed too long with.  Kind of over it now, although I wouldn't mind a fuck buddy.  I have just started dating again and meeting plenty of women but Jesus H Christ they do my head in. Most are dumb as door knobs, can only small talk and have a head full of inane jibberish.  The joke that goes "If women didn't have pussies they would be ten high at the dump" resonates as true with me.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: drkaje on March 12, 2016, 06:03:28 AM
bro science of peace

LOL!
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 12, 2016, 06:56:44 AM
Don`t fret none Sal,I`ll attempt to get as much pussy as humanly possible just to pick up your slack!   LOL   ;)

I'll live vicariously through you wes :)
Title: Re: confession
Post by: _aj_ on March 12, 2016, 06:57:33 AM
I have similar story, I am 43, never married, no kids.  Had a few long term relationships with cunty women that I stayed too long with.  Kind of over it now, although I wouldn't mind a fuck buddy.  I have just started dating again and meeting plenty of women but Jesus H Christ they do my head in. Most are dumb as door knobs, can only small talk and have a head full of inane jibberish.  The joke that goes "If women didn't have pussies they would be ten high at the dump" resonates as true with me.

Bad, but made me lol.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 12, 2016, 06:58:55 AM
No, not alone.  Like I said - I find most people to be a pain in the ass.  "I'm not single, I'm busy."  But it's true.  A full-time woman?  Family functions, holidays, walks on the fucking beach?  Brunch?  There's no way.  I'm booked working every day, seven days, for the next couple months, during which time yet more work will arrive.  Then I've got 10 years of backburnered projects to get on with, and new but overdue stuff like buying a goddamn property of my own and building a house and workshop on it so I can have some say in my destiny instead of being moved on, along with my 80 tons of equipment, whenever someone decides to sell their house that I rent.  ::)

My wife was right to be shitty with me.  I am always working, every weekend, Christmas Day, New Year's Day, you name it.  Well... I was there every day after work, which I still think is an a-ok compromise, because that's what people do - go to work and then come home - but she didn't feel the same.  Of course, she's unhappier now that she hasn't got a penny to her name but that's not really my problem.  And other women's problems aren't my problem.  Rescuing someone from her lame ass situation of her own making is not my function.  Not even if you hope it is.  So good luck with your dramas, which are not mine.  I ain't got time for anyone's stupid crap.  I've got plenty of my own.  We're all full up with stupid crap here, thanks very much.

A libido which is... persistent... doesn't change the fact that I'm selfish about my time and simply don't have room for anyone.  Certainly not for anyone who is a full time project unto herself, which as far as I can tell is everyone.  Life fills up.  I guess I dropped the ball somehow.  'I must have died alone/a long, long time ago.'  Most people managed to form relationships, have kids, pay a mortgage, etc.  I don't know how they did it.  Frankly, I think they did it by accident and by inertia but I digress.  I'm 43.  I still get propositioned which is nice but nevertheless - if I don't say fuck it and inseminate someone in the next few months, just hoping for the best that she's not going to be an ever-flowing font of eternal shittiness,  it's pretty much over and I'm gonna live and die alone and never have kids.  Seems awful likely.  Guess I should have gone the other road but I did that for awhile and it was raw misery, so what can I tell you.

I trust this helps.

i does help.....we all get older and our priorities change

truth be told my situation has less to do with depression or libido and more to do with certain things (like getting laid) aren't as important as they used to be

Title: Re: confession
Post by: Tapeworm on March 12, 2016, 06:59:23 AM
I have similar story, I am 43, never married, no kids.  Had a few long term relationships with cunty women that I stayed too long with.  Kind of over it now, although I wouldn't mind a fuck buddy.  I have just started dating again and meeting plenty of women but Jesus H Christ they do my head in. Most are dumb as door knobs, can only small talk and have a head full of inane jibberish.  The joke that goes "If women didn't have pussies they would be ten high at the dump" resonates as true with me.

Occurs to me that the only way to form a relationship is by accident.  You can't go asking questions like "Is this someone I want around everyday?  Is she going to annoy me?  Am I seeing big red flags?"  You don't ask these things when you're young.  But, at some point, you can't help but ask them.  And then you're where we are.  

Like JNN, I've way outgrown the casual thing.  Which is too bad since all these divorced ones just want to get their slut on.  Ugh.  Old & slutty doesn't fire my pistons.  Outlook bleak.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 12, 2016, 07:06:05 AM
 Which is too bad since all these divorced ones just want to get their slut on.  Ugh.  Old & slutty doesn't fire my pistons.  Outlook bleak.


you don't know (or, you actually do know lol) how TRUE this is

I'm no Lorenzo Lamas in the looks department but I know when a older woman (whether she be divorced or single) wants me to take them into the restaurant bathroom and just fuck the shit out of them......and btw- I'm not being arrogant by saying that--being my age I know when a woman gives off that sincere "please fuck me" vibe

the irony is I really don't care so much to actually fuck them on the job.....I do flirt back though because I work on tips
Title: Re: confession
Post by: wes on March 12, 2016, 07:09:10 AM
I'll live vicariously through you wes :)
Most folks do !  LOL  ;D
Title: Re: confession
Post by: dr.chimps on March 12, 2016, 07:20:23 AM
Most folks do !  LOL  ;D
Slut.       ;D
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Tapeworm on March 12, 2016, 07:23:42 AM

you don't know (or, you actually do know lol) how TRUE this is

I'm no Lorenzo Lamas in the looks department but I know when a older woman (whether she be divorced or single) wants me to take them into the restaurant bathroom and just fuck the shit out of them......and btw- I'm not being arrogant by saying that--being my age I know when a woman gives off that sincere "please fuck me" vibe

the irony is I really don't care so much to actually fuck them on the job.....I do flirt back though because I work on tips

No amount of NO HOMO is going to excuse this:

I'm looking for something more substantial.  Actual quote.  I should probably have my head examined.


Slut.       ;D


BAM!
Title: Re: confession
Post by: Board_SHERIF on March 12, 2016, 07:25:00 AM
I have similar story, I am 43, never married, no kids.  Had a few long term relationships with cunty women that I stayed too long with.  Kind of over it now, although I wouldn't mind a fuck buddy.  I have just started dating again and meeting plenty of women but Jesus H Christ they do my head in. Most are dumb as door knobs, can only small talk and have a head full of inane jibberish.  The joke that goes "If women didn't have pussies they would be ten high at the dump" resonates as true with me.

LOL..spot on especially when you talking women over the age of 40..they are basically idiots talking nonsense and annoying as hell.
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 12, 2016, 07:28:55 AM
to tag what RP said about dating at a older age

when I was 25, I didn't care about "compatiblity" or anything like that--if you were "hot" then I was gonna ask you out

fast forward 12 years---well, I'll put it to you this way: at my current age I totally understand that there is a difference between "hot" and "attractive"

a can recognize that is a girl is "hot" but i might not be "attracted" to her.....I need to be attracted to a person more and more as I get older
Title: Re: confession
Post by: devilsmile on March 12, 2016, 07:37:30 AM
to tag what RP said about dating at a older age

when I was 25, I didn't care about "compatiblity" or anything like that--if you were "hot" then I was gonna ask you out

fast forward 12 years---well, I'll put it to you this way: at my current age I totally understand that there is a difference between "hot" and "attractive"

a can recognize that is a girl is "hot" but i might not be "attracted" to her.....I need to be attracted to a person more and more as I get older

Where do you hang out If you haven't found anyone attractive to fuck in 5 years?
Title: Re: confession
Post by: dr.chimps on March 12, 2016, 08:04:32 AM
Get laid already and put this sad thread to sleep.   :)
Title: Re: confession
Post by: johnnynoname on March 12, 2016, 08:20:07 AM
Get laid already and put this sad thread to sleep.   :)

lol is this thread akin to what black catholics felt like when Lou Alcindor became Kareem abdul jabaar :)  ?
Title: Re: confession
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on March 12, 2016, 09:55:49 AM
johnnynoshame, are you content about your current sex hiatus?
Title: Re: confession
Post by: wes on March 12, 2016, 10:36:57 AM
Slut.       ;D
DOC!!!

Love ya` buddy........even if it does sound blantantly homoerotic!  :D