if me ron vic jason all fit in 3 xl nicely,,im sure you all can too,,,
there is no bad thing about being big beside being stared at at any gym i enter,,but i would be stared at even at 230lb,, you learn to live with the whores/homos,,,and pay no attention.
if you get too hot,, too wet,,,too sweaty with out doing any activity,,cant move with out stopping for rest,,,you are a fatzo my friend,,and fatzo does not = big.
you gotta actually be 12-14% when you step on the scale at 290 and not 20+%,,,then you wont have any problems what so ever