well, i don't really see this as the same.
oliva's wife shot him. it is something very serious that happened to him in the past and he is not currently in a relationship with her.
what nasser is bringing is purely smut and without any class whatsoever. he is thumbing his nose at milos, saying publically, 'i fucked your wife.' with the sole intention of hurting milos and attemtping to disrupt his family (don't forget, milos and milamar are married with children).
this type of thing should never be played out for public knowledge. i mean, what will milos' kids think of all this if/when someone presents this smut to them on the school playground or something?
apart from the pathetic and very desperate attempt at whoring for attention, this event occurred prior to milos and milimar getting married.