maybe im in denial, as i do feel that there are valid reasons for the things that bbers do onstage, as ive mentioned in this thread on a previous page.
can u tell me what parts of a bbing comp u think specifically target gays?
Where to start?

Go to a show, (overwhelming) majority of the audience is male.
The men flex for the crowd of men.
They pump up, for the crowd of men.
They oil up, for a crowd of men.
They wear the tiniest trunks available.
They hike up these tiny trunks, to show off their asses.
You have men going ape shit, when the above happens.
For some reason, the bigger the man, the bigger the cheer.
You ALWAYS have men there who DO NOT EVEN WORK OUT! (wtf do you think they are there for?)
You have guys humping the stage floor, as part of their routines.
You have men doing the splits.
There's pictures of men in tiny daisy dukes, as they lift heavy weights (clearly to satisfy someone's fetish).
Schmoes run the industry (Blekman, Weeda's).
G4P
Gay-4-charity
Gay-4-pleasure
Dude, I could be here all night typing this shit up. Then there's the stuff that BayGM mentions.......
I was once like you. Somethings just seemed odd, but I didn't really think about it. Slowly but surely, my eyes were opened.....

Don't get me wrong, I love bbing (training, lifestyle, discipline). But the comp. side of it, the pageantry (might as well call it what it is) is what it is.
Clearly geared towards gay men.
And no, I have NOTHING against gays (live and let live is my motto), but reality is what it is.