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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #200 on: January 02, 2010, 04:03:28 PM »
Big L dawg have u been married?

nope...had a few girls ask me & have been in a long term relationship 4 quite a while.but I let a hoe know from the jump marriage ain't for me....All it does is make the state a third party in your affairs & it never works out financially for the male regardless as to wether you divorce or not....It's a government & religious program designed to get people to conform & obey..which in turn makes them easier to manipulate....
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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #201 on: January 02, 2010, 04:04:50 PM »
what you are feeling are your natural genetic predisposition-ed urges to spread your seed...It's ingrained in your DNA.even if you have kids and had a vasectomy and don't want or plan to have any more...the uneasy feeling you have is your body's primal scream for freedom...you are likely not an alpha male if you have let your wife keep you in a box and must get into arguments simply to go out with friends....don't feel bad some men are meant to be told what to do & how to live there lives by a female...these men usually have abnormally low testosterone & self esteem.and are without a "backbone" if you will...If you are one of these men my condolence's....

I hear ya. But you lost me with the testosterone and alpha male talk... The control issue is something that gets proggressively worse, it creeps up on you when you least expect it. All of a sudden you find yourself doing things you wouldn't ordinarilly do, like hanging out with people who owe you money and have no problem expressing their hate towards you, only to get away with it because they're related to your wife. Some of these alpha males find out when they have the first talk with their lawyer.

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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #202 on: January 02, 2010, 04:06:30 PM »
nope...had a few girls ask me & have been in a long term relationship 4 quite a while.but I let a hoe know from the jump marriage ain't for me....All it does is make the state a third party in your affairs & it never works out financially for the male regardless as to wether you divorce or not....It's a government & religious program designed to get people to conform & obey..which in turn makes them easier to manipulate....

Im in Australia, i was reseaching ways of winning financially if i got married and divorced...i cant..trust accounts dont work and they trace every penny that leave ur account.

i like many other getbiggers owns a few properties and have a profitable business, i dont want to risk it

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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #203 on: January 02, 2010, 04:10:32 PM »
I hear ya. But you lost me with the testosterone and alpha male talk... The control issue is something that gets proggressively worse, it creeps up on you when you least expect it. All of a sudden you find yourself doing things you wouldn't ordinarilly do, like hanging out with people who owe you money and have no problem expressing their hate towards you, only to get away with it because they're related to your wife. Some of these alpha males find out when they have the first talk with their lawyer.


To put it in perspective an Alpha male that was face to face with someone that was not only disrespecting him but owed him money would not & could not just turn the other cheek regardless as to whom this said person was related to.....Once again not flaming bro but it sounds to me like your balls have been clipped....
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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #204 on: January 02, 2010, 04:12:26 PM »
Im in Australia, i was reseaching ways of winning financially if i got married and divorced...i cant..trust accounts dont work and they trace every penny that leave ur account.

i like many other getbiggers owns a few properties and have a profitable business, i dont want to risk it

don't risk it dude...no bitch is worth your financial well being...
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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #205 on: January 02, 2010, 04:39:36 PM »
Marriage is a contract. If you get divorced, unless you signed a prenup, everything gets split if half regardless. So... knowing that this contract is to benefit that party that does the least (precisely because everything gets split in half any way)... is it any wander women are always looking for Prince Charming loaded with money? I mean, I have nothing against women. I'd call the play exactly the same way were the odds heavily in favor of the male.



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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #206 on: January 02, 2010, 04:45:51 PM »
To put it in perspective an Alpha male that was face to face with someone that was not only disrespecting him but owed him money would not & could not just turn the other cheek regardless as to whom this said person was related to.....Once again not flaming bro but it sounds to me like your balls have been clipped....

Dude, to me getting violent is not an option. I do not want to go to jail. An Alpha Male in jail gets the same anal treatment as the Beta Male: Big rod up the ass a few times a day.

If getting violent is what YOU like maybe fighting is not what you're really after... maybe you just want a big Alpha dick up your arse. You just don't know it yet.

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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #207 on: January 02, 2010, 04:46:22 PM »
Marriage is a contract. If you get divorced, unless you signed a prenup, everything gets split if half regardless. So... knowing that this contract is to benefit that party that does the least (precisely because everything gets split in half any way)... is it any wander women are always looking for Prince Charming loaded with money? I mean, I have nothing against women. I'd call the play exactly the same way were the odds heavily in favor of the male.




Not sure how it works here in OZ

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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #208 on: January 02, 2010, 04:47:16 PM »
Not sure how it works here in OZ

Where's OZ?

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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #209 on: January 02, 2010, 04:48:29 PM »
Where's OZ?

hahaha the wizard of Oz...Australia

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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #210 on: January 02, 2010, 04:50:51 PM »
hahaha the wizard of Oz...Australia

Oh, I'm pretty sure it works in a similar way.

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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #211 on: January 02, 2010, 05:49:51 PM »
marriage just isn't in the cards for some people......myself included......my parents have been married for 40 years....so i know marriage can last and be good..but not for everyone...

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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #212 on: January 02, 2010, 06:07:07 PM »
Virtually nonexistant.

And that applies to about 85% of married couples.

I really don't think this is even close to accurate unless they are quite elderly.





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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #213 on: January 02, 2010, 06:08:58 PM »
Marriage is a contract. If you get divorced, unless you signed a prenup, everything gets split if half regardless.


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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #214 on: January 02, 2010, 06:14:58 PM »
marriage just isn't in the cards for some people......myself included......my parents have been married for 40 years....so i know marriage can last and be good..but not for everyone...

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very true

the sad part is many people aren't marriage material and they don't even realize it

they just get married because that's what we're told to do the moment we learn to talk

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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #215 on: January 02, 2010, 07:02:26 PM »
I really don't think this is even close to accurate unless they are quite elderly.






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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #216 on: January 02, 2010, 07:11:55 PM »
up untill i proposed to my girl i ws a drunk....a druggie ...a partier...

after...i've gotton my shit together and am actually on top of my game...

before i never had a reason to succeed enough to make great $...i just needed enough for alkie and blow....now i do have a reason :)
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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #217 on: January 02, 2010, 08:11:34 PM »
I really don't think this is even close to accurate unless they are quite elderly.

Yes, I am exagerating a bit.

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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #218 on: January 02, 2010, 08:12:14 PM »

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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #219 on: January 02, 2010, 08:18:02 PM »
up untill i proposed to my girl i ws a drunk....a druggie ...a partier...

after...i've gotton my shit together and am actually on top of my game...

before i never had a reason to succeed enough to make great $...i just needed enough for alkie and blow....now i do have a reason :)

Yes, maybe you're one of the lucky ones.

Of all the males I work with (about 20) 7 are divorced (5 stayed single), 2 have gone through 1-3 marriages and the rest are single still, even though half of them are the "marrying age". Same with the ladies I work with.

Marriage is definitely not the same it used to be.

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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #220 on: January 02, 2010, 08:47:35 PM »


Marriage is definitely not the same it used to be.

my girls old fashioned...shes always cooked for me...done my laundry...stood by me...

its goes beyond sex for us...i cant imagine not talking to her everyday or bothering the shit out of her everyday  :)
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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #221 on: January 02, 2010, 10:00:42 PM »
Dude, to me getting violent is not an option. I do not want to go to jail. An Alpha Male in jail gets the same anal treatment as the Beta Male: Big rod up the ass a few times a day.

If getting violent is what YOU like maybe fighting is not what you're really after... maybe you just want a big Alpha dick up your arse. You just don't know it yet.

calm down lil buddy....please....show me were I said anything about getting violent....you can stand up for yourself & be a man without getting violent....from your utter lack of ability to address someone that owes you $ & disrespects you, to your complete inability to take constructive criticism without getting your panties in a bunch(and puting words in my mouth),& for lashing out at me for your short comings basically proves my point....you are indeed more bitch than man....don't get a divorce dude...you should stay on the porch were pups like you belong....
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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #222 on: January 02, 2010, 10:01:28 PM »
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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #223 on: January 03, 2010, 06:21:26 AM »
calm down lil buddy....please....show me were I said anything about getting violent....you can stand up for yourself & be a man without getting violent....from your utter lack of ability to address someone that owes you $ & disrespects you, to your complete inability to take constructive criticism without getting your panties in a bunch(and puting words in my mouth),& for lashing out at me for your short comings basically proves my point....you are indeed more bitch than man....don't get a divorce dude...you should stay on the porch were pups like you belong....

Oh, I wouldn't call that lashing out. If that were my intention then rest assured, right now, you'd be in a fetal position looking for your mother's tit.

What I'm talking about is marriage, not an ego battle. I'm not interested in that alpha male vs. beta male crap. If that's all you've got then maybe you should be talking about breeding dogs and wolves and stuff like that. If not, then let me reiterate to you that all the stuff that you do not expect from your female, the controlling behaviour, the avoidance of arguments, et cetera, creeps up on you. You never see this coming. Of course you have arguments with those family members that dislike you, that goes without saying (and you stop giving them money). The fact of the matter is that you start doing things on the "just do it for me honey" premise. Eventually you're putting up with some serious crap.

That's all dude.

 


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Re: Geting married..Dumbest thing a man can do?
« Reply #224 on: January 03, 2010, 07:54:56 AM »
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