calm down lil buddy....please....show me were I said anything about getting violent....you can stand up for yourself & be a man without getting violent....from your utter lack of ability to address someone that owes you $ & disrespects you, to your complete inability to take constructive criticism without getting your panties in a bunch(and puting words in my mouth),& for lashing out at me for your short comings basically proves my point....you are indeed more bitch than man....don't get a divorce dude...you should stay on the porch were pups like you belong....
Oh, I wouldn't call that lashing out.
If that were my intention then rest assured, right now, you'd be in a fetal position looking for your mother's tit.What I'm talking about is marriage, not an ego battle. I'm not interested in that alpha male vs. beta male crap. If that's all you've got then maybe you should be talking about breeding dogs and wolves and stuff like that. If not, then let me reiterate to you that all the stuff that you do not expect from your female, the controlling behaviour, the avoidance of arguments,
et cetera, creeps up on you.
You never see this coming. Of course you have arguments with those family members that dislike you, that goes without saying (and you stop giving them money). The fact of the matter is that you start doing things on the "just do it for me honey" premise. Eventually you're putting up with some serious crap.
That's all dude.