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« Reply #75 on: June 24, 2009, 11:58:14 PM »
bunch of morons on this thread especially big dawg....nice to encourge people to follow their base desires..give me a break .....human beings have evolved and in doing so we no longer believe following every base desire means happiness.. we have discovered that elevating yourself and aspiring to be higher than your common animalistic needs has value and amazing rewards that greatest of humans have experienced...be more than a commoner, which is what big dawg and his live in "wife" are being. They coudlnt rise up above the base need for instant gratification, they couldnt see that having a shared history with someone is more valuable than a lifetime of one night stands. They coudnt see that giving their child a home where mom and dad were in a monogomous relationship, a relationship that would imprint on the child for life and help her rise up to be more than just another person seeking instant gratification of base desires. Do you think your kid is not going to sense that mommy and daddy have loyalties and interests outside the immediate family, I bet he she already senses that betrayal and has internalized it...kids are good at not expressing what they dont understand.

I think its irresponsibile to glamourize or promote a life of instant gratification  selfishness and narcissim...you should be encouraging people to rise up and reach for higher goals, goals that bring rewards the common class never know exist..if you dont know what I am talking about then you are blinded by your selfish pursuit of animalistic needs....time to evolve big dawg

Sickening that I cant even get married and you guys are here devaluing it.

theres alot of name calling and assumptions going on in this post.you are assuming that I'm not currently in a monogamous relationship.And we all no what it's like when you assume.you might need to go back and reread some of my post's.Or maybe your reading comprehension level would make that pointless.no were have I posted the drivel your accusing me of.I referred to a couple well known cases of cheating,divorce.however if you look at the title of the thread you will see I'm simply stating one sex partner over a lifetime is not in a person's nature.(cheating,monogamy,or otherwise is not in the thread title).I also like how you claim we've evolved past base desires.really?care to post a link to who did these studies and there results.And as I posted earlier I have yet to have this debate with a human being that's only had one sex partner.So are you the first?has it been One life long sexual sole mate for you?
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« Reply #76 on: June 25, 2009, 12:03:07 AM »
Outstanding post.

I am a firm believer in monogamy. If you are with the right person, you don't want anyone else.

  being compatible mentally trumps everything else

How bout you....Just one sex partner?
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« Reply #77 on: June 25, 2009, 12:09:03 AM »
Groink had a girlfriend once who looked in the mirror and said "God, I'm perfect."

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« Reply #78 on: June 25, 2009, 12:29:47 AM »
And although this thread wasn't started to necessarily address cheating.so many of you seem to want to take it there so here's an entertaining read on it.

So, let's talk infidelity. Many ladies want to know why it is men cheat.


Men cheat for variety of reason and biology is one of them, writer says.

 And here's what you want to hear, straight from the talk-hole of the testosterone enabled: men cheat because we are faithless, miserable dogs.

We are backstabbing, silver tongued two-faces who stalk any smooth pair of getaway sticks in a short black cocktail dress that happens to saunter into our lusty field of vision.

Men are horny wolves in fluffy sheep's clothing who delight in looking into your eyes and lying. Breaking hearts is our middle name. Why, at any given moment, while you're gabbing to your girlfriends about flowers purchased, omelettes made, sweet words whispered, we're picturing the nearest woman under the age of 25 in a sheer bikini, riding a mechanical bull.

We are just hopelessly addicted to that "new car smell." We love to make you miserable in our pursuit of total hotness, your fickle happiness not our concern.

And that's just part of it. If you want to blame someone for our cheating ways, blame evolution! We are hardwired to hunt, and to share our wicked cool genetic code with a world that demands that we do! The universe conspires to compel us to pursue that which retreats.

See, we cheat because we're cavemen, and our half-gorilla brains demand we spread as much of our seed over as much fertile ground as possible to make sure that our little caveboys have the chance to grow up and do likewise. And we do this quickly, mind you, because you never know when a woolly mammoth will shish kabob us on one of their mighty tusks. It's not our fault. It's biology, genetics, science! How can you question science? Without it, the curling iron would never have been invented!


Here's another reason men run around behind the backs of their doting, self-sacrificing, noble girlfriends and wives -- you don't adore us enough.

When Spartan warriors returned home from victorious campaigns, do you think their women greeted them with eye-rolls and shrugs? They were venerated supremely, celebrated for days upon days! Love was made to them, olives were pitted and fed to them, their wives could not get enough of their dangerous tales of adventure and carnage! Tales told over and over and over again.

And, at the end of each of these nights, as the mighty victors, now satiated and spent, drifted off to sleep, their ladyfolk would purr into their ears, "OMG, you are totally awesome."

If you don't pat us on the back and tell us we're special, we will find someone who will, and that person, who will pat us on the back and tell us we're special will be, nineteen years old.

How could I forget this other important reason why men cheat -- we're addicted to sex!

It's not our fault we drool for hours over porn while you sleep. It's a diagnosable affliction, and while many of us probably don't really need to see a shrink to legitimately diagnose it, or to even go to rehab, you have to understand that it's beyond our control. We can't help ourselves.

Pity the booty junkie. And don't take our word for it -- actual relationship experts on television confirm that some, if not most, men are hooked on sleeping with as many women as they can. This in no way enables us to justify bad behavior and to escape responsibility for our actions. This is just a true fact, that men can become addicted to getting whatever it is they want without consequence.

Surely, as the more emotionally developed and sensitive gender, you can't negatively judge someone wrestling with such a malady. That would be cruel.

Get the point?

The truth is that men cheat for the same reason women cheat. And cheat you do.

There isn't a word for a women whose husband cheats on her. But the English language gives us a word for a man whose wife runs around on him. That word is "cuckold," and there are few names as limp and pitiful sounding as "cuckold." Maybe "smoosh."

Women can be faithless, and for centuries, they've done their fair share of tasting forbidden fruit. Literature is full of the sorrow women have caused: Menelaus laid siege to Troy because Helen ran away with another man. Othello smothered his beloved because he believed her to have cheated on him. Even frat boy romantic comedy "Forgetting Sarah Marshall" was all based around that Kristen Bell, from "Veronica Mars," cheating on that funny fat dude.

Plenty of blame to go around; it would be unfair to savage one gender so the other can enjoy the dismal pleasures of pointless victimization. But there is a reason people, men and women, cheat.

And here's the fable part.

A dog was carrying a bone over a bridge. Looking down at the water under the bridge, the dog saw his reflection, which looked to the dog to be a bigger dog, carrying a bigger bone. Wanting the bigger bone he saw in the water, the dog barked and dropped his bone into the river. Stupid dog loses his bone.

We cheat because we're tempted to risk what we have for the promise of something that isn't, probably never was, and definitely won't last.

So... everyone is capable of cheating. We are our very own villain and that is a true fact. Makes us human, I suppose. The choice.

Ah well. It's a risk we all have to take, trusting the other person even though they could cheat. But without risk, there is no reward.


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Re: people aren't ment to screw same person forever
« Reply #79 on: June 25, 2009, 12:35:27 AM »
Groink had a girlfriend once who looked in the mirror and said "God, I'm perfect."

Please post a picture of her!

what a whore, not any woman is perfect enough for the great Groink.

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« Reply #80 on: June 25, 2009, 01:06:41 AM »
That book is nonsense and a waste of time to read. There is no such thing as emotional intelligence. Another crap book is the Men from Mars nonsense.

Most of you guys have a lot of disappointment and misery ahead of you. Giving advices won't help because everyone is expert in bodybuilding and relationships. In life you get what you deserve and you deserve what you get.

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« Reply #81 on: June 25, 2009, 01:07:27 AM »
all the "books" in the world will not stop people from craving new pussy or cock

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Re: people aren't ment to screw same person forever
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« Reply #83 on: June 25, 2009, 02:10:46 AM »
Who you "screw" is an act of choice, so it's silly to talk about what is "meant to be" in this context. There are people who stay with one person their whole life, just like there are others who go through many partners - whether they are happy or sad or content or miserable or faithful or a cheat depends on a whole lot of circumstances that varies from person to person, time to time and relationship to relationship.

Like any other human behavioral trait, relationships and people's view of them as well as what they get out of them runs the whole gamut.

That's a profound statement coming from a member of TEG.
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« Reply #84 on: June 25, 2009, 02:29:43 AM »
That's a profound statement coming from a member of TEG.

There you are! How is the prep coming along?

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« Reply #85 on: June 25, 2009, 02:31:45 AM »
There you are! How is the prep coming along?

Prep? You mean the dissertation? Difficult material and barely over 2 months to finish it up...this MA has definitely been intense and next week heading to Germany for a week so will lose time, or are you referring to bbing?
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« Reply #86 on: June 25, 2009, 02:50:04 AM »
Prep? You mean the dissertation? Difficult material and barely over 2 months to finish it up...this MA has definitely been intense and next week heading to Germany for a week so will lose time, or are you referring to bbing?

Beg your pardon. Yes, I was talking about your thesis.

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« Reply #87 on: June 25, 2009, 02:50:54 AM »
Beg your pardon. Yes, I was talking about your thesis.

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« Reply #88 on: June 25, 2009, 02:54:59 AM »
Arnold said 'advices' so that is how advice is given on Getbig.

I wonder why musclemen have trouble getting girlfriends? Gyms are full of guys like this.

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« Reply #90 on: June 25, 2009, 03:12:28 AM »
you whoel problem in america is that you think fat britney spears ,,and that homo looking paris hilton and that other flab hoe jessica simpson ,,and 95% of yoru girls over there are simply not hot

you are obese nation ,,good hearted nation when it comes to doing the right thing at the end of the day bbut rest assure your women are fat fat fat and then some more fat ,,even the smallk ones are big ,,tghey are fat because they are big ,,their bones in bigger than europian girls and asian girls and middle east girls etc,,

in any case in regard to this subject talked about,,the most important thing in making a woman yours and then being able to fuck her forever becase it is possible,,,is to make her submissive ,,find submissive women in nature ,,independent yet submissive,,there are women like that in america,,infact look closely and you will see that the beter looking the woman is naturally ( no fake shit like most girls in america) the more submissive she will be

you got to get to a point when she is in some kind of pain from you in bed ,,,that she get orgazm through pain as in enforced orgazm ,,most guys with 6-7 and over inchers can do it if they know how to fuck ,,you also got to be rude to her sometimes not always nice nice kiss ass because this will cuz you to not want to fuck her ,,,you need to be the master she needs to be the slave even if she is not really a slave,,she need to think in terms of ...he can do what he wants to my body and oh my god not again i cant take his cock,,thats the main idea behind stimulation in bed and good marriage in addition ofcourse to good connection and match in persoanlitys to some degree,,

remember friends,,you do not drive to the girl! the girl drive to you ! you do not do anything for her until she does things for you ,,you fuck her as fast as possible and fuck her well! try to do it few times a NIGHT  then she will know her place,,it sound very shoovenistic what gh15 says here but the best relashinships are when the woman is adoring her man and american girls only talk in one language AND ITS CALLED THE POWER LANGUAGE,,

they like big cars,,trucks even ,,,they like driving fast,,many of them like bikes,,many like tatoos and piecing on guys ,,many like rough rugged guys ,,many like good teeth and bone structure of face,,,all point to them wanting and looking for big cock and if not big then good fucker that can own them with every inch he got,,

amwrican women who are very diff than other women around the world are very very into themselves,,,inorder to get them you have to treat them like shit both in long run but also in the short tun when meeting her ,,you can not let her step on you because you will never get her this way and same for sex,,if you kiss her ass you will get bored in bed fast,,the more you own her and feel superior to her ...the better your sex will be ,,think about it friends when you think about helpless girl in bed getting fucked by a strrong macho type guy ..your cock gets hard right? you have this feeling hey i wanna jump in too and fuck her,,,thats the way it is in relashionship ...the more it feels like you take it from her the more you will want to fuck her forever,,

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« Reply #91 on: June 25, 2009, 03:41:32 AM »
you whoel problem in america is that you think fat britney spears ,,and that homo looking paris hilton and that other flab hoe jessica simpson ,,and 95% of yoru girls over there are simply not hot

you are obese nation ,,good hearted nation when it comes to doing the right thing at the end of the day bbut rest assure your women are fat fat fat and then some more fat ,,even the smallk ones are big ,,tghey are fat because they are big ,,their bones in bigger than europian girls and asian girls and middle east girls etc,,

in any case in regard to this subject talked about,,the most important thing in making a woman yours and then being able to fuck her forever becase it is possible,,,is to make her submissive ,,find submissive women in nature ,,independent yet submissive,,there are women like that in america,,infact look closely and you will see that the beter looking the woman is naturally ( no fake shit like most girls in america) the more submissive she will be

you got to get to a point when she is in some kind of pain from you in bed ,,,that she get orgazm through pain as in enforced orgazm ,,most guys with 6-7 and over inchers can do it if they know how to fuck ,,you also got to be rude to her sometimes not always nice nice kiss ass because this will cuz you to not want to fuck her ,,,you need to be the master she needs to be the slave even if she is not really a slave,,she need to think in terms of ...he can do what he wants to my body and oh my god not again i cant take his cock,,thats the main idea behind stimulation in bed and good marriage in addition ofcourse to good connection and match in persoanlitys to some degree,,

remember friends,,you do not drive to the girl! the girl drive to you ! you do not do anything for her until she does things for you ,,you fuck her as fast as possible and fuck her well! try to do it few times a NIGHT  then she will know her place,,it sound very shoovenistic what gh15 says here but the best relashinships are when the woman is adoring her man and american girls only talk in one language AND ITS CALLED THE POWER LANGUAGE,,

they like big cars,,trucks even ,,,they like driving fast,,many of them like bikes,,many like tatoos and piecing on guys ,,many like rough rugged guys ,,many like good teeth and bone structure of face,,,all point to them wanting and looking for big cock and if not big then good fucker that can own them with every inch he got,,

amwrican women who are very diff than other women around the world are very very into themselves,,,inorder to get them you have to treat them like shit both in long run but also in the short tun when meeting her ,,you can not let her step on you because you will never get her this way and same for sex,,if you kiss her ass you will get bored in bed fast,,the more you own her and feel superior to her ...the better your sex will be ,,think about it friends when you think about helpless girl in bed getting fucked by a strrong macho type guy ..your cock gets hard right? you have this feeling hey i wanna jump in too and fuck her,,,thats the way it is in relashionship ...the more it feels like you take it from her the more you will want to fuck her forever,,

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Re: people aren't ment to screw same person forever
« Reply #92 on: June 25, 2009, 03:49:48 AM »
Arnold said 'advices' so that is how advice is given on Getbig.

I wonder why musclemen have trouble getting girlfriends? Gyms are full of guys like this.

Vince are you 'one of the lads?'

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« Reply #93 on: June 25, 2009, 04:39:46 AM »
And although this thread wasn't started to necessarily address cheating.so many of you seem to want to take it there so here's an entertaining read on it.

So, let's talk infidelity. Many ladies want to know why it is men cheat.


Men cheat for variety of reason and biology is one of them, writer says.

 And here's what you want to hear, straight from the talk-hole of the testosterone enabled: men cheat because we are faithless, miserable dogs.

We are backstabbing, silver tongued two-faces who stalk any smooth pair of getaway sticks in a short black cocktail dress that happens to saunter into our lusty field of vision.

Men are horny wolves in fluffy sheep's clothing who delight in looking into your eyes and lying. Breaking hearts is our middle name. Why, at any given moment, while you're gabbing to your girlfriends about flowers purchased, omelettes made, sweet words whispered, we're picturing the nearest woman under the age of 25 in a sheer bikini, riding a mechanical bull.

We are just hopelessly addicted to that "new car smell." We love to make you miserable in our pursuit of total hotness, your fickle happiness not our concern.

And that's just part of it. If you want to blame someone for our cheating ways, blame evolution! We are hardwired to hunt, and to share our wicked cool genetic code with a world that demands that we do! The universe conspires to compel us to pursue that which retreats.

See, we cheat because we're cavemen, and our half-gorilla brains demand we spread as much of our seed over as much fertile ground as possible to make sure that our little caveboys have the chance to grow up and do likewise. And we do this quickly, mind you, because you never know when a woolly mammoth will shish kabob us on one of their mighty tusks. It's not our fault. It's biology, genetics, science! How can you question science? Without it, the curling iron would never have been invented!


Here's another reason men run around behind the backs of their doting, self-sacrificing, noble girlfriends and wives -- you don't adore us enough.

When Spartan warriors returned home from victorious campaigns, do you think their women greeted them with eye-rolls and shrugs? They were venerated supremely, celebrated for days upon days! Love was made to them, olives were pitted and fed to them, their wives could not get enough of their dangerous tales of adventure and carnage! Tales told over and over and over again.

And, at the end of each of these nights, as the mighty victors, now satiated and spent, drifted off to sleep, their ladyfolk would purr into their ears, "OMG, you are totally awesome."

If you don't pat us on the back and tell us we're special, we will find someone who will, and that person, who will pat us on the back and tell us we're special will be, nineteen years old.

How could I forget this other important reason why men cheat -- we're addicted to sex!

It's not our fault we drool for hours over porn while you sleep. It's a diagnosable affliction, and while many of us probably don't really need to see a shrink to legitimately diagnose it, or to even go to rehab, you have to understand that it's beyond our control. We can't help ourselves.

Pity the booty junkie. And don't take our word for it -- actual relationship experts on television confirm that some, if not most, men are hooked on sleeping with as many women as they can. This in no way enables us to justify bad behavior and to escape responsibility for our actions. This is just a true fact, that men can become addicted to getting whatever it is they want without consequence.

Surely, as the more emotionally developed and sensitive gender, you can't negatively judge someone wrestling with such a malady. That would be cruel.

Get the point?

The truth is that men cheat for the same reason women cheat. And cheat you do.

There isn't a word for a women whose husband cheats on her. But the English language gives us a word for a man whose wife runs around on him. That word is "cuckold," and there are few names as limp and pitiful sounding as "cuckold." Maybe "smoosh."

Women can be faithless, and for centuries, they've done their fair share of tasting forbidden fruit. Literature is full of the sorrow women have caused: Menelaus laid siege to Troy because Helen ran away with another man. Othello smothered his beloved because he believed her to have cheated on him. Even frat boy romantic comedy "Forgetting Sarah Marshall" was all based around that Kristen Bell, from "Veronica Mars," cheating on that funny fat dude.

Plenty of blame to go around; it would be unfair to savage one gender so the other can enjoy the dismal pleasures of pointless victimization. But there is a reason people, men and women, cheat.

And here's the fable part.

A dog was carrying a bone over a bridge. Looking down at the water under the bridge, the dog saw his reflection, which looked to the dog to be a bigger dog, carrying a bigger bone. Wanting the bigger bone he saw in the water, the dog barked and dropped his bone into the river. Stupid dog loses his bone.

We cheat because we're tempted to risk what we have for the promise of something that isn't, probably never was, and definitely won't last.

So... everyone is capable of cheating. We are our very own villain and that is a true fact. Makes us human, I suppose. The choice.

Ah well. It's a risk we all have to take, trusting the other person even though they could cheat. But without risk, there is no reward.




Savage searching for an excuse to cheat and feel ok about it.  I assume you're beyond the sexually experimental stage since you're in a relationship.  Cheating always follows from an emotional rift of some kind.  Talk it out or walk.  Cheating on your spouse and kidding yourself that you can't help it because it's in your genes is piss weak.

Btw, the Spartans lived in barracks for most of their lives, not at home with their wives, and most of their sex was butthole oriented.  Can we stop with the 'be like a Spartan' talk already?

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Re: people aren't ment to screw same person forever
« Reply #94 on: June 25, 2009, 06:38:01 AM »
when are people gonna realize this.human beings have a genetic predisposition to spread there seed.I'm sick of hearing all this shit in the news about this person having an affair,or that couple is getting a divorce.Like this latest shit with Gov.Sanford.or the whole john & Kate shit.everyone just shut the fuck up...people don't want to fuck the same person there entire lives.get over it.and you suckers for love that think you and your wife,girlfriend are different...no your not.It's in a bitches DNA to always move up the Alpha male latter.More $,more muscle,more security,more everything.And guys...please don't even start.they can't get enough pussy it's in our genetic makeup.......meltdown bitches.
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« Reply #95 on: June 25, 2009, 06:39:23 AM »
Thanks for the valuable input. Now I make a Power Point presentation for my girl friend. I'm sure she'll understand.
judging by your avatar i'd say she enjoys fucking you too much and would not take it well...
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« Reply #96 on: June 25, 2009, 08:27:20 AM »
bunch of morons on this thread especially big dawg....nice to encourge people to follow their base desires..give me a break .....human beings have evolved and in doing so we no longer believe following every base desire means happiness.. we have discovered that elevating yourself and aspiring to be higher than your common animalistic needs has value and amazing rewards that greatest of humans have experienced...be more than a commoner, which is what big dawg and his live in "wife" are being. They coudlnt rise up above the base need for instant gratification, they couldnt see that having a shared history with someone is more valuable than a lifetime of one night stands. They coudnt see that giving their child a home where mom and dad were in a monogomous relationship, a relationship that would imprint on the child for life and help her rise up to be more than just another person seeking instant gratification of base desires. Do you think your kid is not going to sense that mommy and daddy have loyalties and interests outside the immediate family, I bet he she already senses that betrayal and has internalized it...kids are good at not expressing what they dont understand.

I think its irresponsibile to glamourize or promote a life of instant gratification  selfishness and narcissim...you should be encouraging people to rise up and reach for higher goals, goals that bring rewards the common class never know exist..if you dont know what I am talking about then you are blinded by your selfish pursuit of animalistic needs....time to evolve big dawg

Sickening that I cant even get married and you guys are here devaluing it.
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That book is nonsense and a waste of time to read. There is no such thing as emotional intelligence. Another crap book is the Men from Mars nonsense.

Most of you guys have a lot of disappointment and misery ahead of you. Giving advices won't help because everyone is expert in bodybuilding and relationships. In life you get what you deserve and you deserve what you get.

There is no direction in evolution. So there is no higher state. Those who are fulfilled through animal passions are blessed.

It's obvious you didnt read that book and have absolutely no clue what it's talking about. Or maybe you're confusing it with something else. I'm pretty certain you arent smart enough to understand it anyway. You're the old angry loser who obviously never understood much of life and still brag about his mister canada trophy from what... 40 years ago.
I ve never seen someone that old yet so fucking dumb. Impressive somehow.


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Savage searching for an excuse to cheat and feel ok about it.  I assume you're beyond the sexually experimental stage since you're in a relationship.  Cheating always follows from an emotional rift of some kind.  Talk it out or walk.  Cheating on your spouse and kidding yourself that you can't help it because it's in your genes is piss weak.

Btw, the Spartans lived in barracks for most of their lives, not at home with their wives, and most of their sex was butthole oriented.  Can we stop with the 'be like a Spartan' talk already?

big dawg is obviously either too young / inexperienced or just plain badly advised/ influenced.
But he will figure it out soon if he keeps going on this track...
Betraying someone who trust you or being betrayed by someone you trust will never ever contribute to make you or anyone happier... and especially not your kids that would also reproduce this behavior in their own lifes later as nycbull stated it. Basically it's a disaster wathever the way you look at it.
It looks like your girl is doing everything for you and that you got so influenced by society that you are bored of her whatever she does. Exactly what we're talking about in this thread: spoiled personalities with no understanding of values.Do you have parents? What does your father and mother think of what you re saying here, and more important: do they still live together ,did your parents also cheat on each others,  are they divorced?

Live and learn.

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Re: people aren't ment to screw same person forever
« Reply #97 on: June 25, 2009, 09:14:51 AM »
this constant attraction to different things /people is only promoted by the modern world we live in. If you look at the sources that motivate people to look elsewhere, wether we're talking about buying new stuff or develop a strong desire for someone else,  it's always TV, movies etc.

Porn is absolutely not the answer, as it is part of the problem. Long term and constant porn viewing deeply alters your mind in the long run. Being quite a recent phenomena , it is abolutely certain that in some decades (psychological) studies on generations of "users" will point how bad its influence is and how bad it affects relationships between men and women.

When people had no accesses to all these medias constantly promoting adultery, drama and deviant behaviors, they were a lot less prone to reproduce these behaviors or cognitive schemes. The current modern society is the reason number one why people keep feeding themselves unconsciously with very bad influences on a daily basis.

Most people nowadays think life is all about instant satisfaction, and that a relationship is all about sex and money.  That's because it is exactly the message sent 24/7 by TV and medias. This is also what sells best. That everything is either black, or white, and that if it doesnt work, why fix it? just go to the "supermarket" and pick a different person/experience. You can't build anything doing this over and over, but it's exactly the kind of behavior that the occidental society promotes. Our moden occidental societies are factories that produce schyzoid people. We re building our own despair.

Often you hear people saying that what they re doing is ok , cause "everyone else does it" and because it's what they see on TV.

Take a look at how loyal people are in third world countries, where being stable and trustworthy toward your couple, familly and community is still deeply important.

That's because everythign is way too easy, that's because people are spoiled in occident, that they forgot about all these values and keep destroying em on a daily basis. It's no wonder the shock between people from other parts of the world where values are still important and spoiled occidentals is and will become increasingly violent.



Sin has existed from the dawn of man, or whatever you what to term carnal pleasures. To say that it's more likely to happen in current times due to the nature of acceptance and exposure of it is not far fetched, but again...it's been happening for ages. It's the age of information that we live in that we also know that it occurs so much (sort of a double edges sword in a sense). I really have no argument here, just one fact that always fascinated me. Always found it funny how women, when living in groups together, start having their menstruation cycles at the same time. It's biological in nature, very comparative to animals in large breeding groups making breeding seasonal, convenient, etc. Just food for thought.

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Re: people aren't ment to screw same person forever
« Reply #98 on: July 17, 2009, 01:24:29 PM »
It's precisely when you stop getting led by your animalistic impulsivity that you can be considered as a worthy human, wether you're a man or woman.

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Re: people aren't ment to screw same person forever
« Reply #99 on: July 17, 2009, 01:49:31 PM »
when are people gonna realize this.human beings have a genetic predisposition to spread there seed.I'm sick of hearing all this shit in the news about this person having an affair,or that couple is getting a divorce.Like this latest shit with Gov.Sanford.or the whole john & Kate shit.everyone just shut the fuck up...people don't want to fuck the same person there entire lives.get over it.and you suckers for love that think you and your wife,girlfriend are different...no your not.It's in a bitches DNA to always move up the Alpha male latter.More $,more muscle,more security,more everything.And guys...please don't even start.they can't get enough pussy it's in our genetic makeup.......meltdown bitches.
no one makes you get married. Grow some balls and control you bitch. Small puppy. ;)
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