The voice of a female is an important aspect.
The reason(s) why you hesitate is/are worth an investigation (BTW, the same applies to me)
well man, i have a pretty good idea why, and it stems from me being absolutely terrified of "emotional closeness" with a female, and just in case she starts to get too close i either flee like a pussy or say some stupid shit to her to drive her away from me and make her hate my guts
too bad, it can't be just "free and easy" with nice feelings and nice times, kinda like the vibe which this tune seems to put out

just be "free and easy" girl, but alas...
most females ain't gonna put up with that for too long, and they'll most likely want something stronger and deeper...
i have a question for you brother... do you seek to find different females for different parts of you?
for example, i want one girl to be my hot sex toy, and another girl to be my sweet soulmate/friend, and another girl to share some occasional deep and romantic moments with me
yeah man, i'm complicated as fuck lol