Thought you said sexual preference was a choice....so now explain how being bisexual or homosexual can result from sexual abuse as a child? Cannot the abused simply choose to be straight? What if they are abused by someone of the opposite sex? Are you suggesting this to be so is so traumatic that it "turns" them homosexual? I'm confused.....or more likely, you are!
Maybe you should ask some elder in your church to explain all this for us folks here. Clearly, it is beyond your ability to do so, don't you suppose? I do.
When I was 14 years old the neighbor's pool guy, who was probably 25 years old or so, sucked my dick. Was this pedophilia? Is this why I am bisexual today? Maybe I forgot to feel traumatized because it felt so damn good. LOL! Or maybe it was the real trauma was when I made out with one of my mom's middle aged lady friends at our beach house.
omfg...
here we go...
You just proved sexual preference is conditioned by the way your caregivers physically and emotionnaly interacted with you during childhood, what they show, what they hide, what they say, what they dont say, they shape your sexuality by the way they talk to you the way they touch you and so on.
Still once an adult and achieving full consciousness you have the choice of your actions.
Had you been raised correctly without being exposed to perverted adults, caregivers, you would have ended heterosexual. It's all about conditionnings, upbringings, education... and love. What kind of parents let their son being sexually molested by other adults?
That's funny how 100 percent of self called homosexuals always have been sexually assaulted by caregivers they trusted and who abused of their innocence to release their perversions on them, perversions that once adults they will reproduce in order to take the place of their original tormenter.
Did you have a son, and if you did, did your wife close her eyes when you sucked your son 's dick when he hit his 14 , just like your parents closed their eyes on you being sexually molested by other adults?
That's what perverts do, they pervert other human beings who become perverts themselves and so on.