What blows my mind is that you're in your 40's, and letting someone from the internet bother you this much. Seriously, you're in your 40's. A full grown man, challenging some kid, offering to pay his flight, and hotel. All for what? You'd really pony up money out of your own pocket for a chance to spar with SMM? Are you really that insecure?
Here's some free advice. When somebody on getbig tells you they would kill you in under 1 minute, you say, "sure you would chief, and go fuck yourself, and suck me sideways."
HTH 
You don't have to try to teach me how to troll on a bodybuilding website, some of us have been doing this for the better part of 10 years.
I am a full grown man in my 40's and still have no qualms in having a fight with another man within a setting where we both can walk out without having handcuffs placed on our wrists.
Like I said before, I can spare the frequent flyer miles (which will cost me nothing) for him to get a round trip via the airline of his choice. I can also provide him with a 1-2 day stay at the Ritz Carlton (which again would cost me nothing since I get yearly coupons that allow me to stay for 1-2 weeks free at most of their locations - if you don't use these coupons they expire). I would only have to pay his cab fare to and from the airport, as well as his meals for the 1-2 days (easy enough).
What I get in return? A chance to spar/fight with someone new at my home gym and the opportunity to film this little event to put up for fun on GetBig.
I already spar 2-3x/week at the Gracie gym with guys that go full-force on me with various MMA arsenals (Muay Thai, JiuJitsu, boxing and Sambo) and have a great time learning from them and also sharing what I've learned throughout the years.
This is by no means me being hurt or my ego taking a beating, like I've said before, I'm not a tough guy or a professional fighting, but I will put my 7 years of training with Renzo and my skills in boxing to the test with this juggernaut of fighting any fucking day.
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