they are lying insecure losers who impress dumb low lives who never understood or knew how they got so big precisely because they were lied to, now if after a while you still dont figure something is wrong you re a retard or you dont really care about the person you re living with. As simple as that.
To be honest i just think both bbers and those who support them/live with them are just fucking dumb losers who have no clue what they are doing, too uneducated, just seeing the appearance and not what s behind it. Yeah, you ve got to be dumb to do that crap for years, decades , and never understand. Pretty much sums everything there is to know about them. Same could be said of people destroying themselves in other various destructives addictions while nobody ever tell them what they re doing is wrong. We could say true anus has a deep unadressed insecurity for not wanting kids and being a cynical egocentrical sad dude , his gf should figure it, but in this case they re both weird on that particular subject.