QB speaking the truth!
All the single moms i know are just like that. They are bitter and think they are so tough and strong willed. Yet half of them hate life and the other half stick an iPad in their kid's hand so they can drink wine while watching the bachelor, thinking one day they could find a man like this douchebag. Always posting lame ass pics on FB about how awesome single moms are. They constantly talk about how busy they are and their demanding schedule because of the kid(s). Somewhere deep inside they want to believe they are strong because they tackle the burden alone, when in reality they would give a kidney to have someone else take care of their child(ren).
Sure most of them are good mothers who care about their kid(s) above all else, but they just never shut up about it. I dated a chick who had a 3 year old and she was cool, but fuck all she talked about was her fucking kid and not it a cool way, i learned way too much about this little heathen and his "deadbeat" father. After a few dates and marathon sex sessions, all she did was talk about how amazing her son was. So one day i meet her at the park with her kid, and he's a wild fucking terror. She had a harness and dog leash type thing on him and he was out of control screaming, running around and throwing a fit. She was nice to me so i didn't want to be a complete asshole so i just put up with it for about 15 minutes. After that she put him in the car and came over to talk to me, she actually apologized for his wild actions because I'm sure she could tell i was annoyed and had been down the road before. Later on she came over alone and fucked my brains out. I called her the next day and told her i couldn't have a relationship with her, she knew why, i didn't have to say anything.
I just can't see myself taking on that kind of responsibility if it's not mine. Maybe I'm selfish, but I've met a lot of single moms and they are great for dating. They know how to suck, fuck, cook and be quiet; they understand how to please a man. They KNOW they carry this black flag of terror with them so they will do anything to get into a relationship with a successful guy. Another chick i dated would come over almost every evening, suck my dick and then make dinner for me while i did whatever i wanted. Then we'd have a glass of wine together and talk, then fuck like wild rabbits for a hour or two. She would go home and not even call me wanting to talk about shit, just a text around 3pm every afternoon asking if she needed a "sitter" or not. Not once did she complain, she was probably the sweetest chick i ever dated, but i KNEW it was an act and i could see it in her eyes. The longer it went on the more she hinted about me coming to her place; we had a lot of fun together and it was a somewhat distant relationship. She never talked about her child other than telling me she had one, but the one time i mentioned it, her face lit up like i had never seen, i had finally asked about what she so badly wanted to speak about. She held back but told me all about her daughter, the good things, nothing bad and nothing about the ex. After a few months i had to bail, couldn't do it anymore and felt bad. Our last conversation ended with her telling me that i was the only man she could imagine being a father to her daughter. Fuck, it made me feel bad, but we split on good terms and she never contacted me again.
2 years ago i saw her at HEB alone with her kid and no wedding ring. She smiled at me and turned to walk the other way.
I wonder if she made a facebook post about me?
Oddly enough, the 3 girls I've dated who were raised by a single mother were fucking batshit crazy. Go figure.
