I have never had any trouble getting a woman, I have only been single for the first time in my life for the last year, prior to that I was in a ten year relationship and prior to that had a couple of long term relationships. It has been the best year of my life, and after my twenty five year experience of being in relationships, I can confirm they offer very little for a man in the long term. I am 42 and still in great shape, I ride, run, lift, hike, swim etc and get plenty of attention from women, but I have no intention of disrupting my serene and supreme way of life by hooking up with a woman my age, who will be close to menopause, more than likely have kids and a host of issues about her failed relationships.
Not only this, why would anyone want to sleep with these women when there are plenty of young hot chicks out there gagging for it. Like I said, men will always want to fuck hot young chicks, regardless of their age. Men who claim to have a great sex life and their wife is 40 plus are lying or the exception to the rule. Show me a man who would choose a 45 year old menopausal used up women over a hot twenty something and I will show you a liar or a man with a milf complex.
I hear ya and found that was my experience after I last got divorced 9 yrs ago.
I'm no stud, but I had little trouble going out with attractive woman of all ages when single.
Sexual adventures and dating are fun, but for me, it lacked "something".
I could have gone on like that and been fine, but I didn't.
To me the whole dating thing was like going to an amusement park.
It's fun to take rides on the roller coaster and see the sights, etc.
Then you're back to square 1, so you repeat the cycle the next day, ad naseum.
For me, that got old.
I ended up dating and then marrying a pretty , successful woman , who is only 2 yrs younger.
I'm the happiest I've ever been, and for me, life is as good as it gets.
