Author Topic: DivorceCorp if this doesn't scare you from getting married nothing will. (Read 12648 times)

Al Doggity · « **Reply #50 on:** September 28, 2015, 01:06:20 PM »

Quote from: Ronnie Rep on September 28, 2015, 11:53:37 AM

True. Plus in the last 8 years or so when the economy tanked there were less divorces because of finances. People where staying together and trying to work things out, because divorce was no longer an easier option.

Yup. The divorce rate really started to explode following the women's lib revolution. Some choose to look at this as the beginning of society falling apart, but it really has more to do with a portion of women developing financial independence from men. Realistically, financial dependence is what was keeping a lot of marriages together. It still is, but just to a lesser degree.

SF1900 · « **Reply #51 on:** September 28, 2015, 01:13:45 PM »

Quote from: Al Doggity on September 28, 2015, 01:06:20 PM

Yup. The divorce rate really started to explode following the women's lib revolution. Some choose to look at this as the beginning of society falling apart, but it really has more to do with a portion of women developing financial independence from men. Realistically, financial dependence is what was keeping a lot of marriages together. It still is, but just to a lesser degree.

This is pretty much it in a nutshell.

Man of Steel · « **Reply #52 on:** September 28, 2015, 01:15:02 PM »

Quote from: SF1900 on September 28, 2015, 12:56:24 PM

Your wife sounds like she would be annoying. If you would have taken charge, she would have said, "Ugh, you're so pushy, always telling me what to do." Instead, you ask her what she would like for dinner, and she wants you to "take charge." Sounds like a headcase.

You should divorce her.

You and me are done.

SF1900 · « **Reply #53 on:** September 28, 2015, 01:16:17 PM »

Quote from: Man of Steel on September 28, 2015, 01:15:02 PM

You and me are done.

Did we ever start?

I was just pointing out the absurdity of her statement. It is absurd. I am sorry that you cannot see this. This would hold true for a man or woman who made such a statement to a significant other.

The Ugly · « **Reply #54 on:** September 28, 2015, 01:16:32 PM »

Quote from: SF1900 on September 28, 2015, 12:56:24 PM

Your wife sounds like she would be annoying. If you would have taken charge, she would have said, "Ugh, you're so pushy, always telling me what to do." Instead, you ask her what she would like for dinner, and she wants you to "take charge." Sounds like a headcase.

You should divorce her.

Total bitchmove.

muscularny · « **Reply #55 on:** September 28, 2015, 01:17:42 PM »

Quote from: Man of Steel on September 28, 2015, 01:15:02 PM

You and me are done.

what about Luke 6:37?

"Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven."

SF1900 · « **Reply #56 on:** September 28, 2015, 01:19:42 PM »

Quote from: The Ugly on September 28, 2015, 01:16:32 PM

Total bitchmove.

Oh boy, taken the internet a little too serious. He was the one who talked about his wife and I responded to it. Further, my statement would apply (IMO) to a man or woman who was in a relationship. Its not exclusive to his wife.

Its the same thing with Navy Mike. He puts it out there, and people respond to it as they see fit.

A bitchmove would have been exposing his wife or posting pics or something like that (Id never do that to anyone here). I simply responded to him.

Azure · « **Reply #57 on:** September 28, 2015, 01:19:46 PM »

Quote from: muscularny on September 28, 2015, 01:00:03 PM

yup, everyone preaches what you preach yet most married people especially those under 45 are beyond miserable

Most of these people are miserable people. Being married only amplifies jt and now they have another person to spread their misery to.

They get divorced...screw everything and are still miserable or go to their new girlfriend and are still miserable. It's them

NarcissisticDeity · « **Reply #58 on:** September 28, 2015, 01:32:43 PM »

Quote from: Potatank on September 27, 2015, 06:49:15 PM

hey your sig,...whats that about,.......cakes and jewelry ,..Ive always wondered

Wiggs actually said it to True Adonis lol Go back to making jewelry and cakes with your girlfriend

SquidVicious · « **Reply #59 on:** September 28, 2015, 01:51:50 PM »

Quote from: Overload on September 28, 2015, 10:39:52 AM

I say this all the time, but any man dumb enough to get married in America deserves to be raked over the coals. By getting married you are forcing yourself into legal bondage.

10 years ago in my 20's, all of my friends were telling me how awesome marriage was and how happy they were. They got so pushy about it, they started trying to convince me it was a good idea.

Fast forward 10 years to today and about 75% of them are divorced, separated or living in hell.

All of them come over to my place on Sunday to watch football and to bitch about marriage.

Looks like I dodged that bullet!

Tell Howard I said Hi.

The Ugly · « **Reply #60 on:** September 28, 2015, 02:23:23 PM »

Quote from: SF1900 on September 28, 2015, 01:19:42 PM

Oh boy, taken the internet a little too serious. He was the one who talked about his wife and I responded to it. Further, my statement would apply (IMO) to a man or woman who was in a relationship. Its not exclusive to his wife.

Its the same thing with Navy Mike. He puts it out there, and people respond to it as they see fit.

A bitchmove would have been exposing his wife or posting pics or something like that (Id never do that to anyone here). I simply responded to him.

Thanks for clarifying; I'll edit my bitchmove criteria accordingly.

Parker · « **Reply #61 on:** September 28, 2015, 03:03:49 PM »

Quote from: Overload on September 28, 2015, 10:39:52 AM

I say this all the time, but any man dumb enough to get married in America deserves to be raked over the coals. By getting married you are forcing yourself into legal bondage.

10 years ago in my 20's, all of my friends were telling me how awesome marriage was and how happy they were. They got so pushy about it, they started trying to convince me it was a good idea.

Fast forward 10 years to today and about 75% of them are divorced, separated or living in hell.

All of them come over to my place on Sunday to watch football and to bitch about marriage.

Looks like I dodged that bullet!

the quality of men and women have gone down hill.

twitchfibres · « **Reply #62 on:** September 28, 2015, 03:10:10 PM »

Its like this in every country.

Parker · « **Reply #63 on:** September 28, 2015, 03:19:19 PM »

Quote from: twitchfibres on September 28, 2015, 03:10:10 PM

Its like this in every country that doesn't value the family or a man's role in it, or men in general.

fixed

Ronnie Rep · « **Reply #64 on:** September 28, 2015, 03:23:21 PM »

Quote from: Azure on September 28, 2015, 12:57:31 PM

A lot of people have no concept of loyalty. The second the shit hits the fan they are out or things stop hunky dory it's all ove. You have to have a deeper connection than just superficial and shallow. I will be honest I was not attracted at all physically at first and it wasn't because of a lack of attractiveness because that's not it at all but I think its what helped the friendship. Plus I came in at a low point so there were more pressing matters and so many just want to be loyal when things are good

I almost quit at first but realized that it was worth it

Bingo. In this society it's flight not fight. Plus coming from the same type of background, both parents still together has a lot to do with it also. Not saying it can't work in divorced families, but a lot can be said for learned behavior.

Azure · « **Reply #65 on:** September 28, 2015, 03:29:22 PM »

Quote from: Ronnie Rep on September 28, 2015, 03:23:21 PM

Bingo. In this society it's flight not fight. Plus coming from the same type of background, both parents still together has a lot to do with it also. Not saying it can't work in divorced families, but a lot can be said for learned behavior.

I think that has a lot to do with it. Many people do not know how to be in a healthy relationship or even what it looks like. If you don't know, then You've got to work at even learning what that's about. It's not going to be rainbows and sunshine all the time and It may get very ugly. I think that was one of the things that helped because I went in knowing things were a clusterfuck in many ways...but again I thought well this is worth fighting for.

I wasn't under the impression that this was going to be happily ever after BUT I think because it all started as a friendship...I heard the truth and there was a place of honesty that wouldn't have happened if it had just started off trying to be a relationship because many people feel if they are too honest, then people will leave.

The Abdominal Snoman · « **Reply #66 on:** September 28, 2015, 03:30:19 PM »

50% of marriages in the West end in divorce...It's literally a flip of a coin or playing black Jack with your life...Most get married because of insecurity and afraid of being alone and/or knock someone up. There's a conspiracy going on where if someone is married, they feel everyone should be married. It's as if they want other people to fuck their lives up because they probably did...Too many of these people destroy their lives because of marriage...

twitchfibres · « **Reply #67 on:** September 28, 2015, 03:43:09 PM »

Quote from: The Abdominal Snoman on September 28, 2015, 03:30:19 PM

50% of marriages in the West end in divorce...It's literally a flip of a coin or playing black Jack with your life...Most get married because of insecurity and afraid of being alone and/or knock someone up. There's a conspiracy going on where if someone is married, they feel everyone should be married. It's as if they want other people to fuck their lives up because they probably did...Too many of these people destroy their lives because of marriage...

Great post Snoman.

May great posts in this thread.

Azure · « **Reply #68 on:** September 28, 2015, 03:45:32 PM »

Quote from: The Abdominal Snoman on September 28, 2015, 03:30:19 PM

50% of marriages in the West end in divorce...It's literally a flip of a coin or playing black Jack with your life...Most get married because of insecurity and afraid of being alone and/or knock someone up. There's a conspiracy going on where if someone is married, they feel everyone should be married. It's as if they want other people to fuck their lives up because they probably did...Too many of these people destroy their lives because of marriage...

Funny but I agree with this post...especially in bold. I always tell people to take your time and don't feel like you need to do it because you're supposed to. People used to always pressure me about not being married. They were always the divorced, bitter, or miserable people. The people who made it work in their relationships told me not to rush into it.

Ronnie Rep · « **Reply #69 on:** September 28, 2015, 03:48:55 PM »

Quote from: Azure on September 28, 2015, 03:29:22 PM

I think that has a lot to do with it. Many people do not know how to be in a healthy relationship or even what it looks like. If you don't know, then You've got to work at even learning what that's about. It's not going to be rainbows and sunshine all the time and It may get very ugly. I think that was one of the things that helped because I went in knowing things were a clusterfuck in many ways...but again I thought well this is worth fighting for.

I wasn't under the impression that this was going to be happily ever after BUT I think because it all started as a friendship...I heard the truth and there was a place of honesty that wouldn't have happened if it had just started off trying to be a relationship because many people feel if they are too honest, then people will leave.

Absolutely. I could go on and on about what we went through. My father in law died of stomach cancer and never even got to see us get married. That's just the beginning.

twitchfibres · « **Reply #70 on:** September 28, 2015, 03:50:36 PM »

Quote from: Ronnie Rep on September 28, 2015, 03:48:55 PM

Absolutely. I could go on and on about what we went through. My father in law died of stomach cancer and never even got to see us get married. That's just the beginning.

are you divorced Ronnie?

Ronnie Rep · « **Reply #71 on:** September 28, 2015, 03:52:14 PM »

Bottom line is marriage isn't for everyone. All depends what you are looking for in life. Especially in this fucked up world.

Ronnie Rep · « **Reply #72 on:** September 28, 2015, 03:53:53 PM »

Quote from: twitchfibres on September 28, 2015, 03:50:36 PM

are you divorced Ronnie?

Married for 21 yrs to my 2nd wife.

twitchfibres · « **Reply #73 on:** September 28, 2015, 03:54:31 PM »

Quote from: Ronnie Rep on September 28, 2015, 03:53:53 PM

Married for 21 yrs to my 2nd wife.

Wow, congrats man. that is great. all the best to you.

Mr Anabolic · « **Reply #74 on:** September 28, 2015, 04:07:39 PM »

I've been warning you guys about marriage/divorce for years on this forum.

All you have to do is OBSERVE other men who are married... they are not very happy. When they get divorced their kids get taken away and they get financially ass-raped.

DON'T GET MARRIED... not now, not EVER.