Ive made some mistakes in my early married life, and there's been plenty of potential to make them again, one thing I realise now though that when your married and you play up its not just sex, women are evil, they will do anything to wreck what you have, I see past that point of lust no matter how beautiful and all I see is a potential home wrecker, women are sexual psychopaths, bang them at your peril, if you do they will have no conscience about wrecking your marriage. After almost 19 years of being married, there's no point throwing it all away for a moment of weakness when you know how eventually it will play out.